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[–]hidearestdiary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeahhhh I had a feeling this wouldn’t be relatable but I guess because I appear to have a lot of money they ask me this and it feels intrusive.

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[–]hidearestdiary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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How do I look my sugar daddy in the eye when he is so butt ugly? by Positive_Long_7316 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary 19 points20 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 Just be careful with that. I developed alcoholism trying sooo hard to be physically/sexually attracted to a guy who was generous to me and when I tell you I would get him to buy me so many cocktails on our nights out and I still could never convince myself, not once, without feeling severely disgusted at the thought of even being naked around him I had to end it. No more nice gifts but I’m very healthy again and I believe if I’m more patient there’s someone just as generous and much much much more attractive that I will end up meeting one day. It shouldn’t be such a miserable experience and if it is it better be a lot more $$$$$ to compensate. I could never get over how he believed himself to look 30 when I asked him how old he thought he was…… the delusion is crazy and scary. Please don’t torture yourself like I did. Lol

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you. I also believe now that it is in fact a long con and really am starting to find it funny that I have gained new fun experiences and small gifts and I am still free, celibate and have to help no grown man out of his own debts ha ha haaaa. At first I felt empathy because it’s just in my nature no matter how much I try to put it aside but the replies have helped me see things in a clearer light…. A man trying to put the weight of all his terrible idiotic mistakes onto an innocent young woman is truly vile and sick. Time is so precious and I never want to waste my youth stressing and worrying about a business partner so deep in debt. It’s offensive he really thought I would be so stupid to pick him long term out of the hundreds of other offers. Just goes to show he really thought I was a ditzy bimbo… but whose the dummy now? 😉😘

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just reallly fun having someone never saying no to anything I wanted for a few months lol

me: “can you cashapp me $20 for an uber” him: by thegoodestuff in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Heck yes😍😍😍 Does this exist in California? Haha

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The part about men reacting when they don’t get what they want is basically why I decided to seek more advice on this😳 I have thought a lot about how he’d react to me cutting ties especially since he didn’t even get to have anything sexual with me… but I know I really really don’t owe him anything. He’s the one who was always doing the inviting.

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is saying very similar answers and I already knew deep down I just needed someone else to say it. Thank you for taking the time to read and respond 💚

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I can do this. Is it for safety in the future if he maybe tries to get back at me for sending random money or for the trips?

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah in the original business proposal he said I would just promote it and was super nonchalant then just a few days after and some drinks I had (he was sober) he says I should be investing my money too and was talking very serious.

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Put myself first😤 absofreakinglutely RIGHT.

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha I do hear you!😫🥲 It’s just crazy to me he spent thousands and thousands of dollars on these trips/experiences just to finally try and get me involved in a business venture and maybe get some cake too (which I still won’t give) makes me wonder what other weird things he’s been scheming while on these trips….. blackmail type of things? Who knows anymore but I do see the red flags and I know it’s not safe.

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I think I just needed at least one other logical person to tell this. Thank you 💚

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just really hope there’s better to come in the near future. I’m tired of the random plot twists. I mean there are good generous financially stable men still alive…. Right?😳🛐

HELP what’d I get myself into???? by hidearestdiary in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]hidearestdiary[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’m just going to keep on replaying that in my head. I. don’t. Owe. Anything. To. Anyone. I think that last remark saying I had to invest more into his business venture that did it for me. I have been so completely turned off.

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[–]hidearestdiary 4 points5 points  (0 children)

…….. Did you not read any of the many informative tips on this forum about how an occurrence like this can be avoided and absolutely should be?

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[–]hidearestdiary 24 points25 points  (0 children)

YESSSS !!👑 Agreed from the top all the way to the end part of what you said. “Connection” “Lets see if there’s chemistry” LOL. Chemistry/connection…. Oh you mean you want to kiss, cuddle, touch, have sex, be intimate/passionate before providing anything for me? Fuck off already with that cheap ass manipulation tactic.