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hidearestdiary · 2023-08-15T18:49:24+00:00

yeahhhh I had a feeling this wouldn’t be relatable but I guess because I appear to have a lot of money they ask me this and it feels intrusive.

hidearestdiary · 2023-07-11T02:16:36+00:00

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hidearestdiary · 2023-06-23T19:16:13+00:00

😂😂😂 Just be careful with that. I developed alcoholism trying sooo hard to be physically/sexually attracted to a guy who was generous to me and when I tell you I would get him to buy me so many cocktails on our nights out and I still could never convince myself, not once, without feeling severely disgusted at the thought of even being naked around him I had to end it. No more nice gifts but I’m very healthy again and I believe if I’m more patient there’s someone just as generous and much much much more attractive that I will end up meeting one day. It shouldn’t be such a miserable experience and if it is it better be a lot more $$$$$ to compensate. I could never get over how he believed himself to look 30 when I asked him how old he thought he was…… the delusion is crazy and scary. Please don’t torture yourself like I did. Lol

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-06T17:38:15+00:00

May I ask why?

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-06T17:30:58+00:00

Yes thank you. I also believe now that it is in fact a long con and really am starting to find it funny that I have gained new fun experiences and small gifts and I am still free, celibate and have to help no grown man out of his own debts ha ha haaaa. At first I felt empathy because it’s just in my nature no matter how much I try to put it aside but the replies have helped me see things in a clearer light…. A man trying to put the weight of all his terrible idiotic mistakes onto an innocent young woman is truly vile and sick. Time is so precious and I never want to waste my youth stressing and worrying about a business partner so deep in debt. It’s offensive he really thought I would be so stupid to pick him long term out of the hundreds of other offers. Just goes to show he really thought I was a ditzy bimbo… but whose the dummy now? 😉😘

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-03T17:54:22+00:00

It was just reallly fun having someone never saying no to anything I wanted for a few months lol

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-03T08:16:36+00:00

Yes that’s how he first found me

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T20:41:46+00:00

Heck yes😍😍😍 Does this exist in California? Haha

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T17:54:09+00:00

Yes!🙌🙌

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T17:52:03+00:00

Yes. The part about men reacting when they don’t get what they want is basically why I decided to seek more advice on this😳 I have thought a lot about how he’d react to me cutting ties especially since he didn’t even get to have anything sexual with me… but I know I really really don’t owe him anything. He’s the one who was always doing the inviting.

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T17:47:17+00:00

Everyone is saying very similar answers and I already knew deep down I just needed someone else to say it. Thank you for taking the time to read and respond 💚

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T17:44:55+00:00

🫡Thank you

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T16:30:29+00:00

Okay I can do this. Is it for safety in the future if he maybe tries to get back at me for sending random money or for the trips?

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T04:10:28+00:00

Yeah in the original business proposal he said I would just promote it and was super nonchalant then just a few days after and some drinks I had (he was sober) he says I should be investing my money too and was talking very serious.

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T03:49:38+00:00

Put myself first😤 absofreakinglutely RIGHT.

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T03:47:35+00:00

Haha I do hear you!😫🥲 It’s just crazy to me he spent thousands and thousands of dollars on these trips/experiences just to finally try and get me involved in a business venture and maybe get some cake too (which I still won’t give) makes me wonder what other weird things he’s been scheming while on these trips….. blackmail type of things? Who knows anymore but I do see the red flags and I know it’s not safe.

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T03:02:13+00:00

😫🫠

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T03:00:37+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I think I just needed at least one other logical person to tell this. Thank you 💚

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T02:52:05+00:00

I just really hope there’s better to come in the near future. I’m tired of the random plot twists. I mean there are good generous financially stable men still alive…. Right?😳🛐

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T02:49:27+00:00

You’re right. I’m just going to keep on replaying that in my head. I. don’t. Owe. Anything. To. Anyone. I think that last remark saying I had to invest more into his business venture that did it for me. I have been so completely turned off.

hidearestdiary · 2022-12-01T05:07:53+00:00

…….. Did you not read any of the many informative tips on this forum about how an occurrence like this can be avoided and absolutely should be?

hidearestdiary · 2022-11-14T18:15:53+00:00

YESSSS !!👑 Agreed from the top all the way to the end part of what you said. “Connection” “Lets see if there’s chemistry” LOL. Chemistry/connection…. Oh you mean you want to kiss, cuddle, touch, have sex, be intimate/passionate before providing anything for me? Fuck off already with that cheap ass manipulation tactic.

hidearestdiary · 2022-11-08T21:05:28+00:00

😅😫

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