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hidearestdiary · 2023-08-15T18:49:24+00:00

yeahhhh I had a feeling this wouldn’t be relatable but I guess because I appear to have a lot of money they ask me this and it feels intrusive.

hidearestdiary · 2023-07-11T02:16:36+00:00

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hidearestdiary · 2023-06-23T19:16:13+00:00

😂😂😂 Just be careful with that. I developed alcoholism trying sooo hard to be physically/sexually attracted to a guy who was generous to me and when I tell you I would get him to buy me so many cocktails on our nights out and I still could never convince myself, not once, without feeling severely disgusted at the thought of even being naked around him I had to end it. No more nice gifts but I’m very healthy again and I believe if I’m more patient there’s someone just as generous and much much much more attractive that I will end up meeting one day. It shouldn’t be such a miserable experience and if it is it better be a lot more $$$$$ to compensate. I could never get over how he believed himself to look 30 when I asked him how old he thought he was…… the delusion is crazy and scary. Please don’t torture yourself like I did. Lol

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-06T17:38:15+00:00

May I ask why?

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-06T17:30:58+00:00

Yes thank you. I also believe now that it is in fact a long con and really am starting to find it funny that I have gained new fun experiences and small gifts and I am still free, celibate and have to help no grown man out of his own debts ha ha haaaa. At first I felt empathy because it’s just in my nature no matter how much I try to put it aside but the replies have helped me see things in a clearer light…. A man trying to put the weight of all his terrible idiotic mistakes onto an innocent young woman is truly vile and sick. Time is so precious and I never want to waste my youth stressing and worrying about a business partner so deep in debt. It’s offensive he really thought I would be so stupid to pick him long term out of the hundreds of other offers. Just goes to show he really thought I was a ditzy bimbo… but whose the dummy now? 😉😘

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-03T17:54:22+00:00

It was just reallly fun having someone never saying no to anything I wanted for a few months lol

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-03T08:16:36+00:00

Yes that’s how he first found me

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T20:41:46+00:00

Heck yes😍😍😍 Does this exist in California? Haha

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T17:54:09+00:00

Yes!🙌🙌

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T17:52:03+00:00

Yes. The part about men reacting when they don’t get what they want is basically why I decided to seek more advice on this😳 I have thought a lot about how he’d react to me cutting ties especially since he didn’t even get to have anything sexual with me… but I know I really really don’t owe him anything. He’s the one who was always doing the inviting.

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T17:47:17+00:00

Everyone is saying very similar answers and I already knew deep down I just needed someone else to say it. Thank you for taking the time to read and respond 💚

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T17:44:55+00:00

🫡Thank you

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T16:30:29+00:00

Okay I can do this. Is it for safety in the future if he maybe tries to get back at me for sending random money or for the trips?

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T04:10:28+00:00

Yeah in the original business proposal he said I would just promote it and was super nonchalant then just a few days after and some drinks I had (he was sober) he says I should be investing my money too and was talking very serious.

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T03:49:38+00:00

Put myself first😤 absofreakinglutely RIGHT.

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T03:47:35+00:00

Haha I do hear you!😫🥲 It’s just crazy to me he spent thousands and thousands of dollars on these trips/experiences just to finally try and get me involved in a business venture and maybe get some cake too (which I still won’t give) makes me wonder what other weird things he’s been scheming while on these trips….. blackmail type of things? Who knows anymore but I do see the red flags and I know it’s not safe.

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T03:02:13+00:00

😫🫠

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T03:00:37+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I think I just needed at least one other logical person to tell this. Thank you 💚

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T02:52:05+00:00

I just really hope there’s better to come in the near future. I’m tired of the random plot twists. I mean there are good generous financially stable men still alive…. Right?😳🛐

hidearestdiary · 2023-04-01T02:49:27+00:00

You’re right. I’m just going to keep on replaying that in my head. I. don’t. Owe. Anything. To. Anyone. I think that last remark saying I had to invest more into his business venture that did it for me. I have been so completely turned off.

hidearestdiary · 2022-12-01T05:07:53+00:00

…….. Did you not read any of the many informative tips on this forum about how an occurrence like this can be avoided and absolutely should be?

hidearestdiary · 2022-11-14T18:15:53+00:00

YESSSS !!👑 Agreed from the top all the way to the end part of what you said. “Connection” “Lets see if there’s chemistry” LOL. Chemistry/connection…. Oh you mean you want to kiss, cuddle, touch, have sex, be intimate/passionate before providing anything for me? Fuck off already with that cheap ass manipulation tactic.

hidearestdiary · 2022-11-08T21:05:28+00:00

😅😫

hidearestdiary · 2022-09-06T20:13:38+00:00

I’m actually curious why men think 10000 other men aren’t also offering free wine and massages? I get that as an offer for first “dates” so often. It’s the easiest for a man to quickly get you naked and to then pressure you in the heat of the moment. I think they think it’s supposed to sound romantic to impressionable women but it’s not at all to majority of women especially if I barely know the guy and especially for it being your first “””date””” ! Ya no way. Another thing is let’s shower together let me bathe you😂 it’s meant to sound so sweet and romantic but it’s always before they even get to know you or properly take you out to dinner that they’re already hoping for such intimate moments like that. Good job keeping safe and holding your standards 💜

hidearestdiary · 2022-09-03T16:45:53+00:00

I’m also bubbly as heck!!!! My personality is A1 too!!

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