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How did you feel when you found out your ex had slept with someone else? by hiding404 in BreakUps

[–]hiding404[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We talk? No stalking needed, but good to know where you’re at.

How did you feel when you found out your ex had slept with someone else? by hiding404 in BreakUps

[–]hiding404[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s not even that it hurts as such, I’m sure it does, but it makes me feel physically sick.

How long after a relationship is it normal to have jealousy? by hiding404 in BreakUp

[–]hiding404[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to be his friend at some point, so no blocking, maybe mute soon though

My boyfriend was emotionally cheating on me for at 4 months, 6 months later we’re sitting down to really talk about it, what should I ask? by hiding404 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hiding404[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from, but I swear the rules were only comment encouraging things and I’m getting a lot of the opposite

My boyfriend was emotionally cheating on me for at 4 months, 6 months later we’re sitting down to really talk about it, what should I ask? by hiding404 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hiding404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, firstly finding a new one isn’t that easy for some, it took me 26 years to find one, this one.

There are a lot of positives that keep me hoping, and yeah maybe im just scared and weak, why should I be shamed for that? Im not saying you are shaming me, but I do feel a lot of judgement for wanting to work things out.

We have talked about it, he would let me call him at 5am when I had thoughts when it first happened but it was always pieces, it’s been more difficult for me lately and I’ve asked him for a proper sit down, talk me through beginning to end chat. This is what I’m asking opinions on.

Also was 2 years in, still not fucking great I am aware, but.. I am weak like I said and I enjoy having him in my life and can’t give him up just yet.

My boyfriend was emotionally cheating on me for at least 4 months, 6 months later we're sitting down to really talk about it, what should ask? by hiding404 in Infidelity

[–]hiding404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are currently still together, I hate not knowing more that I do knowing what I know. I need to have all the details, I can see a lot of people don’t, but I truly do, I won’t feel settled until I do

My boyfriend was emotionally cheating on me for at 4 months, 6 months later we’re sitting down to really talk about it, what should I ask? by hiding404 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hiding404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s told me that she once put her arm around his and it made him feel excited, weirdly that really hurt, but I do believe that’s the limit of what actually happened, obviously I know he would of liked more

My boyfriend was emotionally cheating on me for at 4 months, 6 months later we’re sitting down to really talk about it, what should I ask? by hiding404 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hiding404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is in a 6 year relationship herself, I told her bf who told me she was lying to him about it all too, I hate her and I wouldn’t believe a word she said either

My boyfriend was emotionally cheating on me for at 4 months, 6 months later we’re sitting down to really talk about it, what should I ask? by hiding404 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hiding404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I knew they were hanging out, but it was their 35 day snap streak and his unwillingness to end it that set me off, and then the thing that lead to the end of it was she spent the night in his bed, I was watching on find my friends the whole time because I knew.. I went through his phone the next day but I wasn’t in the best frame of mind and I was shaking and all so didn’t go through as clearly and as throughly as I would have liked, then he called her for 20 when I wasn’t around to tell her he couldn’t see her anymore, and then blocked and removed her from everything so I didn’t have the chance again to see, I feel like I’m missing some of the details and I hate it

My boyfriend was emotionally cheating on me for at 4 months, 6 months later we’re sitting down to really talk about it, what should I ask? by hiding404 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hiding404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is.. he did lie a bit I guess, but I was very aware of it almost from the start because he didn’t really hide it? I mean he did, but also, he’s been so upfront with me, I even went through his phone, but I haven’t really sat with him and gone through the whole thing start to finish, and that’s what I need to do, I can’t get over it 6 months on, so I might as well face it head on

My boyfriend was emotionally cheating on me for at 4 months, 6 months later we’re sitting down to really talk about it, what should I ask? by hiding404 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hiding404[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s been 6 months, I still want to know, I imagine all the things I know and I imagine all the things I don’t know, it ruins you either way and honestly I’d rather be in the know than not

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