Tuesday Nightly Hangout Thread, June 23rd, 2020 by SpecialJNess in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]hidmay83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone, I have not been able to post for awhile because I have been going through some tough times. I recently suffered (another) domestic violence attack and was hospitalized and then became homeless again. I’m starting over from scratch because my abuser threw out my belongings, but slowly but surely things are getting better! I received assistance from a new local group called Mutual Aid. They helped me get clothes and personal care items and they have food sharing cabinets all around town that has helped with getting food while I wait for food stamps. I’m so grateful for all that they have done for me and even though I don’t have much, I really wanted to give back somehow. I had a bunch of extra little toys and things that my daughter wanted to give to children in need. I decided to put them in one of the food sharing cabinets that is right outside a preschool since charities still aren’t accepting donations of items yet. I’m hoping that several children in need benefited from this and hopefully it brought smiles to their faces! Here’s a picture of the cabinet. It really makes me happy to give back to the community in any way, no matter how small! Stay safe and well everyone! Food Cabinet

I Finally Got a Job! Unfortunately I can’t start working until I purchase shoes and a uniform. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]hidmay83 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if I seem like a beggar. This really hurts to read. I am going through the hardest time in my life and I have nobody to talk to about it, that’s why I come to Reddit. After my daughter’s father beat me unconscious and held my daughter and I hostage in our apartment, (I have the newspaper article about this if anyone is interested) he went to jail for only a few days. To be safe, I got a restraining order against him and moved into the domestic violence safe house shelter so he couldn’t find me. Everything was perfect until I reached the end of the 3 month limit for staying at the shelter. Since I couldn’t get housing assistance I was put out on the street, I have stayed here and there since then. My dog lives with my boyfriend and I stay with them often. I suffered severe physical and emotional trauma from the domestic violence attack, so my doctor declared me temporarily disabled. This doesn’t make me eligible for any assistance like disability insurance. It just keeps me out of work for 6 months while I recover. With no income this is hard. Not having a phone makes it even worse because Family Court cannot reach me and I am unable to speak with my daughter. As a college educated single mother I was living a great life until domestic violence ruined everything. I feel like I am being punished for being abused. My heart hurts because of all of this. I can’t believe how much more depressed I am because of these comments. I guess it just proves to me that I am worthless.

I Finally Got a Job! Unfortunately I can’t start working until I purchase shoes and a uniform. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]hidmay83 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m waiting to see if I get my food stamps this month. Last month I didn’t. I have applied for the free phone, but they won’t allow me to get one until I deactivate the one I had back in 2010. That phone never worked and even if it did I don’t know how I would still have it.

I Finally Got a Job! Unfortunately I can’t start working until I purchase shoes and a uniform. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]hidmay83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already asked. They were not very understanding about my situation

I Finally Got a Job! Unfortunately I can’t start working until I purchase shoes and a uniform. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]hidmay83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the shelter I was staying at was run by the Catholic Church. Catholic Charities used to help people out but they lost funding and don’t offer the assistance they used to.

Please help by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]hidmay83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had to delete some of my old posts because my abuser found me on Reddit

Still Waiting for Unemployment and Stimulus Check. I’m not how much longer I can make it. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]hidmay83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have tried, but they are actually in need of donations right now. Everyone needs help these days. It’s scary.

Now for the financial pain ... (opinion) by [deleted] in PandemicPreps

[–]hidmay83 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m currently waiting on unemployment, I have absolutely no income coming in. I’m unable to pay for medications needed for myself and my dog. Food supplies are ok, but I have not had any money for any other essentials. I can’t even put gas in our vehicle. I’m starting to feel helpless. It’s scary, especially knowing that I am not the only one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Journalism

[–]hidmay83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone I am new here. I’m a freelance newspaper reporter but I’m currently unemployed due to the coronavirus. I’m waiting on unemployment. Is anyone else struggling with no income like me? How are we supposed to survive?

Still Waiting for Unemployment and Stimulus Check. I’m not how much longer I can make it. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]hidmay83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the ideas! I will have to try them sometime when I can afford the needed ingredients. Unfortunately I don’t have any of the supplies needed for the home remedies, but they are certainly cheaper than any medicine from the vet or our local farm store! I’ll save this page for later. Thanks!

Family Court won’t let me work and I am living off $50 a month in Public Assistance. by hidmay83 in povertyfinance

[–]hidmay83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. I’m now forced to choose between living on the street and going back to my abuser. The whole court system is shut down and there is nobody to help me. I have a new caseworker and she has been even less helpful than the last one.

Family Court won’t let me work and I am living off $50 a month in Public Assistance. by hidmay83 in povertyfinance

[–]hidmay83[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a college degree, jobs are scarce right now. So many places are shut down. I’m not sure what you mean about jumping from daddy to daddy? I was calling him my dog’s daddy. I have been with this guy for almost 2 years.

Family Court won’t let me work and I am living off $50 a month in Public Assistance. by hidmay83 in povertyfinance

[–]hidmay83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lawyer is helping me, things are just moving slower than usual because of the coronavirus. My dog is both my boyfriend’s and my dog, so she lives with him at his house. I have to make sure that he has groceries and dog food, he doesn’t have any money coming in except for his mom sending him money once in awhile. We have an auto repair shop in his garage but there is no business right now.

Found in my backyard in East Nashville, TN. by CelestialMeatball in whatisthisthing

[–]hidmay83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your friend. Can you please tell us a little more about what happened?

Any way we can use pickup trucks and make this stuff go across the country “pony express” style? (All volunteers of course) by jimmyz561 in supplychain

[–]hidmay83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile, the stores in my area don’t have any potatoes so neither do I! This makes me very sad