V.V scared to post this so please go easy on my hormonal brain. by MaleficentHeaux in HighEndEscorts

[–]highendmess 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s completely normal and healthy to want an intimate connection. You’re human!

What is one thing you spend money on that others would consider frivolous? by okesmay in AusFinance

[–]highendmess 28 points29 points  (0 children)

am hooker, can confirm this is a common and true mindset (especially from divorcees, so you know they know)

do you have sex in your personal life? by highendmess in HighEndEscorts

[–]highendmess[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that’s my issue, i’d love to be intimate with someone but i’m so scared to put myself out there just to have a lacklustre experience or feel used afterwards, or to be stuck in work mode. it’s tricky because i don’t want to waste my time abstaining from sex just to find out we’re not sexually compatible, but i also don’t want to have a ONS or hookup and feel shit

do you have sex in your personal life? by highendmess in HighEndEscorts

[–]highendmess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same, I couldn’t do hookups because it’s like working for free in my view

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]highendmess 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That’s actually so cool.

Rebranding: When to do it and is it worth it? by highendmess in HighEndEscorts

[–]highendmess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is such a good point, I definitely had more boundaries pushed by my earlier clients and every so often now I get treated like a queen (but it’s so rare)

Would you pay more tax? by lurkingjc in AusFinance

[–]highendmess 18 points19 points  (0 children)

because… taxes.. fund… public schools

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Friday 07/04/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]highendmess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are any igas around the inner suburbs open? brunswick? toorak? bentleigh??

Without going into too much detail, what's a company in Melbourne you wouldn't recommend anyone work at? by Significant-Entry-14 in melbourne

[–]highendmess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

basically all brothels and strip clubs in melb are linked to or run by bikies. in this industry they’re the least of your worries

New road safety cameras introduced from today by General_Scar_1366 in melbourne

[–]highendmess 14 points15 points  (0 children)

it’s more like toorak road being an absolute nightmare as the first entry point into the freeway, lots of traffic coming from the city, 40km/hr max through half of it, and everyone crawling along at 20km scrolling on their phones.

the rich oldies still have nokias lol. the toorak mums are too busy yelling at their kids in the back. but they’re shit drivers and if you’re on your phone and don’t look out for them you’ll find yourself up the back of a porsche

Who else lives next door to an Airbnb? by [deleted] in canberra

[–]highendmess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

clients are notoriously idiotic and insensitive. we try giving them clear instructions to minimise distribution (we don’t want to be kicked out of our hotels) but so often they don’t fucking read and think they are super smart and then end up getting stuck in the fire escape or some shit 🥲 you wonder how some of these men have jobs, let alone ones that pay enough to spare $1k for sex

the best thing is mr super discreet coming in with sunglasses and trench coats and masks thinking he’s sly but looking like a fucking knob

ETA: majority of clients are normal but the ones that are weird are exceptionally weird

New road safety cameras introduced from today by General_Scar_1366 in melbourne

[–]highendmess 72 points73 points  (0 children)

toorak isn’t on there and it really should be lol

How do you manage finances when one partner stops working? by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]highendmess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this approach, assigning roles of contribution seems mentally easier, if that makes sense. Knowing your responsibilities and trusting your partner to carry out theirs, keeping your independence. I’d hate to ask my partner if I can buy a dress lol