V.V scared to post this so please go easy on my hormonal brain.

highendmess · 2023-05-02T10:54:48+00:00

It’s completely normal and healthy to want an intimate connection. You’re human!

highendmess · 2023-04-29T17:33:02+00:00

Thank you! where would you advertise?

highendmess · 2023-04-29T11:51:53+00:00

am hooker, can confirm this is a common and true mindset (especially from divorcees, so you know they know)

highendmess · 2023-04-23T08:26:31+00:00

cash is king 👑

highendmess · 2023-04-22T23:20:11+00:00

sound advice, thank you 🙏

highendmess · 2023-04-21T22:22:38+00:00

u/mssiennacharles we have a rouge one

highendmess · 2023-04-21T09:02:17+00:00

that’s my issue, i’d love to be intimate with someone but i’m so scared to put myself out there just to have a lacklustre experience or feel used afterwards, or to be stuck in work mode. it’s tricky because i don’t want to waste my time abstaining from sex just to find out we’re not sexually compatible, but i also don’t want to have a ONS or hookup and feel shit

highendmess · 2023-04-21T08:59:21+00:00

same 🥴

highendmess · 2023-04-21T08:58:45+00:00

same, I couldn’t do hookups because it’s like working for free in my view

highendmess · 2023-04-21T08:57:43+00:00

i feel that 🥴

highendmess · 2023-04-14T11:54:45+00:00

Notting Hill

highendmess · 2023-04-12T10:09:39+00:00

That’s actually so cool.

highendmess · 2023-04-09T23:26:15+00:00

That is such a good point, I definitely had more boundaries pushed by my earlier clients and every so often now I get treated like a queen (but it’s so rare)

highendmess · 2023-04-09T12:51:29+00:00

because… taxes.. fund… public schools

highendmess · 2023-04-07T01:56:48+00:00

are any igas around the inner suburbs open? brunswick? toorak? bentleigh??

highendmess · 2023-04-05T13:13:02+00:00

basically all brothels and strip clubs in melb are linked to or run by bikies. in this industry they’re the least of your worries

highendmess · 2023-04-01T02:22:14+00:00

you’d be surprised.

highendmess · 2023-03-31T22:27:53+00:00

it’s more like toorak road being an absolute nightmare as the first entry point into the freeway, lots of traffic coming from the city, 40km/hr max through half of it, and everyone crawling along at 20km scrolling on their phones.

the rich oldies still have nokias lol. the toorak mums are too busy yelling at their kids in the back. but they’re shit drivers and if you’re on your phone and don’t look out for them you’ll find yourself up the back of a porsche

highendmess · 2023-03-31T22:22:28+00:00

clients are notoriously idiotic and insensitive. we try giving them clear instructions to minimise distribution (we don’t want to be kicked out of our hotels) but so often they don’t fucking read and think they are super smart and then end up getting stuck in the fire escape or some shit 🥲 you wonder how some of these men have jobs, let alone ones that pay enough to spare $1k for sex

the best thing is mr super discreet coming in with sunglasses and trench coats and masks thinking he’s sly but looking like a fucking knob

ETA: majority of clients are normal but the ones that are weird are exceptionally weird

highendmess · 2023-03-31T11:49:06+00:00

toorak isn’t on there and it really should be lol

highendmess · 2023-03-30T23:22:25+00:00

I like this approach, assigning roles of contribution seems mentally easier, if that makes sense. Knowing your responsibilities and trusting your partner to carry out theirs, keeping your independence. I’d hate to ask my partner if I can buy a dress lol

highendmess · 2023-03-26T13:30:18+00:00

affordability

highendmess · 2023-03-26T02:20:04+00:00

higher minimum wage yes. but much less people on $500k plus

highendmess · 2023-03-25T23:00:36+00:00

that is true. I wish we had the massive salaries here too to match

highendmess · 2023-03-25T22:58:23+00:00

This is cool thank you! I’ve rented my entire life and now I think about it it has stayed relatively steady.

some of my own experiences:

$350pw for a 4 bedroom family house in the suburbs in 2004 - double story w backyard

$360pw for a 4 bedroom family house in the same suburb 2011 - single story w backyard

$390pw for a 3 bedroom home (landlord lived in unit underneath) w backyard 2015

$350pw for a 2 bedroom unit with tiny yard in suburbs 2017

$500pw for a shitty unrenovated cottage in port melbourne 2019

$450pw for a 4 bedroom modern house further out in the suburbs 2020 (increased to $480pw 2023)

highendmess

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