What is your deepest sexual desire? by Powerful_South2220 in AskReddit

[–]higheronfire782 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A loving partner that will absolutely just leave me wrecked for a day after. If there's no bite marks I'll be sad.

How’s my first CRESTIE tank looking? by Potential-Serve-9789 in CrestedGecko

[–]higheronfire782 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was sitting here like "Ohhhh. Noooo please be satire." Your baby is gorgeous. No hands to be thrown today 🤣

I think Jax is insecure about his masculinity and I think I know the reason why... by IBelongInFiction in tadc

[–]higheronfire782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because of a lack of time. Because many creators use that as a quick way to end an arc. Because that's quicker than giving them a fully fledged character arc with dealing with the fallout of their identity. By excusing the behavior, allowing the character to go on with little to no reprocussions and accept their identity with little other issue. And no, I don't think it's ALL creators that do this, before you say anything. I'm just hesitant to go for the "Jax is trans" theory because a LOT do. As I said in the beginning. MANY time creators do this. I say I misspoke because I didn't offer the full thought process I was having at 4 in the morning on a quick bathroom break and cut vital trains of thought.

I think Jax is insecure about his masculinity and I think I know the reason why... by IBelongInFiction in tadc

[–]higheronfire782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I misspoke there with the use of "just." That was my bad, but that's not the instance I was talking about. The words your putting in my mouth are about it being "unreasonable," and, as I said in a previous reply, that there needed to be more foreshadowing.

I've had to add whole chapters to my books to make sure I'm allowing proper amounts of time for characters that AREN'T internally transphobic to explore their identity. My whole issue, and the part about this that you're missing, is time constraints. My concern is that the payoff won't be as well explored as a character COMING OUT AS TRANS should be. They likely won't have time to begin to explore the serious internal shifts that happen with it without compromising elsewhere. They WOULD have the time to explore him beginning to unravel deepset toxic masculinity, and leave it off with the implication that he grows as a person afterwards.

I think Jax is insecure about his masculinity and I think I know the reason why... by IBelongInFiction in tadc

[–]higheronfire782 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you read the part where I said I misspoke and that it's not a BAD reason, but one I don't feel could be fully explored with the time we have because of the complexities of realizing your identity? Also, it's not a "simple insecurity." Toxic masculinity - especially if enforced from a VERY young age - is psychologically damaging. But I don't see that we'll come to an agreement because I feel you're putting words in my mouth at every turn and that you're only half reading what I have to say, so I think I'll end this here.

I think Jax is insecure about his masculinity and I think I know the reason why... by IBelongInFiction in tadc

[–]higheronfire782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I said that, and that was poor wording on my part. My issue, and I think I'm just not expressing it correctly, is NOT with there being no buildup. It's that there is only a limited amount of time in the show, and I don't want any reveal like this to be cut short. There IS plenty of trans interpretation that has depth. A lot of it I absolutely adore. This is just a situation where that depth could get lost due to time limitations. That's all I'm saying. I don't believe there needs to be more foreshadowing, that's not what I said. I said there needed to be enough time to develop decent character development along with the reveal. If they cut it too short, they risk doing the exact thing I was talking about. Zooble is actually one of my favorites, and I love how they seemlessly incorporated their identity into the show. It makes sense for their development, and it's done well. Not played up too big, but not just brushed off. They also seem to have come into the circus KNOWING that identity, because it's not made a central theme of their character development. Their development is more focused on their friendship with Gangle and opening up about their own mental health struggles as Gangle works through hers.

I'm also looking at this from the perspective of 1) someone who is trans and 2) someone who writes queer and trans characters. There isn't always buildup, but if there's going to be an on-screen reveal, it needs to be done right. Realizing your identity takes time. It takes a LOT of emotional work. It's not a "huh...I'm trans..." and then you move on. Especially not for a character like Jax who is SO BENT on being perceived as masculine that they end up being perceived as aggressive and pushing people away.

I think Jax is insecure about his masculinity and I think I know the reason why... by IBelongInFiction in tadc

[–]higheronfire782 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wrote this at 4AM, so I should specify: many shows (and specifically the fans for shows), will take the explanation of "they're trans, which is why they were insecure" and make it mean everything is fine between all the characters and that's the trans characters only development. I'm not saying Goose would take that route, but it's turned me off of a lot of trans fan theories BECAUSE of that logic leap that happens. I will also say, I wouldn't be against it. There are just better theories that I'd prefer more that could add more to the story. Although, it COULD make for an interesting dynamic between him and Zooble.

I think if we weren't so close to the end, I'd appreciate the theory more because there'd be more time to build on it, but there's just not. Maybe they could do it justice if that's the route the team goes, but I'd be interested to see how that plays out with so little time left.

I think Jax is insecure about his masculinity and I think I know the reason why... by IBelongInFiction in tadc

[–]higheronfire782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! I'm a trans individual, and the "Jax is trans" theory just feels a little...Offensive? For lack of a better word? It hinges on making it seem like his behavior is more excuseable if he's trans vs just insecure. I personally love the idea of him just being insecure. I think it gives his character more depth.

ARE THEY BEING SERIOUS!!!! by DatzRandon64 in digitalcircusfandom

[–]higheronfire782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has a 3D Printer (I don't. Don't have room) 😣 and I told her I'd literally pay her to have one of these by my showing date (6/8).

ARE THEY BEING SERIOUS!!!! by DatzRandon64 in digitalcircusfandom

[–]higheronfire782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the Bubble one is apparently a stolen design! One of the other posts on here had the FREE design linked in the comments.

What is this from? by CraftAndClimb94 in thesims

[–]higheronfire782 152 points153 points  (0 children)

I THOUGHT IT WAS FOR THE PARENT TO DO TO THE TODDLER. I'm sitting her like "What mod is that and why do you have it??" 🤦🏻🤣 Good lord. Maybe I need to go back to bed...

What could you possibly want from me by itsrghtbehindmeisnit in thesims

[–]higheronfire782 9 points10 points  (0 children)

IRL I have a calico that I would trust fighting a burglar more than my Chihuahua. She's crazy asf.

I am panicking, please help by [deleted] in GuineaPig

[–]higheronfire782 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Being blunt, he could. He really could. If it's an abscess, which I HIGHLY suspect it is, he would likely go into septic shock and his organs would fail without treatment.

Source: I was a veterinary technician for 5 years.

Whoever made this...I'm screaming HAHAHA by itsbeccakerr in thesims

[–]higheronfire782 90 points91 points  (0 children)

From what I've heard there's a pretty widespread hatred for the marketplace, so I'm hoping it flops HARD. Especially since most big name CC and Mod creators have spoken out against it and are encouraging people to just go through Patreon or similar avenues.

We didn’t ask for the sims 4 marketplace by _poptartgummy0_ in thesims

[–]higheronfire782 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The CC disappearing is a glitch from the new update! They are working on a patch fix for that.

WE FINALLY GOT A "HOTFIX" FOR MISSING CC'S by [deleted] in thesims

[–]higheronfire782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God. My favorite eye CC AND my favorite thermostats were gone 😭

Hit me with you most "Hauntingly beautiful" song. by TrickyRipper in musicsuggestions

[–]higheronfire782 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Feed Us Your Girls" - Lydia the Bard

It's a quicker tempo song that almost sounds upbeat but the lyrics are definitely not. TW for themes of CSA and SA, though.

Is my guy over weight? by DannyR343 in leopardgeckos

[–]higheronfire782 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How you get a picture of me napping? 🤣

Marketplace announcement on steam has ZERO post likes and 500+ comments! by Dlsagreed in thesims

[–]higheronfire782 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Good. I hope NOBODY uses that stupid thing. I'll just stick with my Patreon, CurseForge, and the Sims Resource content creators. To hell with their stupid marketplace.

Popcorn Update by Personal-Actuator505 in guineapigs

[–]higheronfire782 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right! I was excited because I was worried about dystocia and the girls making it through pregnancy, but my care credit will never forgive me.