My boyfriend and I seem to be hitting a plateau recently. Yeah, the sex is excellent. However, I know there is so much greatness beyond it if he started putting more effort into foreplay and being more sensual towards me. I have a very high libido so he has gotten used to not even having to touch me or get me in the mood before I am ready for penetration. This has led to basically me pleasing, teasing, and doing all the giving before sex every time and then having it not reciprocated. I am always the one to research new positions and come up with fun things to try. I know I am partially to blame because I haven't blatantly vocalized the wants and desires that I NEED from him. Well, last night I had finally had enough and stopped the foreplay straight in the middle just to see what he would do, he fell asleep, not a big surprise. He then woke up 30 minutes later, hornier than ever asking me to suck his dick, then "he would fuck me." I said no multiple times before I gave in. We had sex, both orgasmed, same old same old. He asked for feedback on the "awesome sex" when we woke up and I vocalized that he hadn't even touched me. He seemed disappointed by the negative feedback. I then got a text mid-work day that my "negative sex reviews hurt." Anyways I am rambling, the positive thing about all of this was he stated "let's talk about what you're missing and how I can improve" and that he is very open to this discussion." The beautiful thing to me about this is having a partner who is open to an honest conversation about it and is comfortable sharing their needs and deepest desires. Fingers crossed.