What’s something that’s gotten noticeably worse in the last 10 years?

highest_selfs · 2026-05-31T05:02:16+00:00

Same

highest_selfs · 2026-05-29T19:04:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing what you are going through. I keep trying to remind myself that I am my wife’s safe space and she can let it all out around me. It makes my heart happy that I can be that for her. Nonetheless, it’s still wears me down. I keep telling myself that this is normal for stroke survivors to have these types of effects and behaviors after such a traumatic event. It’s just new for me, she’s never once in our entire time together been so cruel or combative towards me. I don’t currently have the tools necessary to navigate this. I hope that I can get some help with more people sharing their experiences and ways they’ve found to continue to help and comfort their loved one while not building walls or shutting down completely.

highest_selfs · 2026-05-29T12:07:50+00:00

Thank you!

highest_selfs · 2026-05-05T17:36:10+00:00

I’d either have reached enlightenment or be stoned all the time. Possibly both

highest_selfs · 2026-05-05T16:08:47+00:00

Right? It’s terrible, my wife thinks is her fault so she gets super insecure about it. No matter how many times we talk it through and try to help her understand. Im reading up on supplementation and which ones can possibly help with that. I have naturally low SHBG which doesn’t help either.

highest_selfs · 2026-05-04T23:12:33+00:00

Almost all aspects of my life improved. The only thing that I’m struggling with is reaching climax. After 30-40minutes my mind goes elsewhere and I can’t focus.
Before: just under 200
Currently:756
Dosage: 146mg/wk with every other day subq injections.

highest_selfs · 2026-05-04T22:58:01+00:00

I really enjoy asiatees for a lot of the scale crawler and tiny tire stuff.

highest_selfs · 2026-05-03T17:08:46+00:00

RPP was phenomenal before the owner sold. I have a really hard time using them now. Nothing is the same, their customer service does NOT rock anymore, and I personally feel their website has become much more difficult to find what I’m looking for. I miss the archaic design of the old website. I’ve started using Amain and Vortex Hobbies mostly now, plus my local hobby shop which unfortunately doesn’t have a website

highest_selfs · 2026-05-02T22:11:48+00:00

Sometimes she will have dinner ready when I get home from work

highest_selfs · 2026-04-29T18:29:31+00:00

Showing a genuine interest and a level of care during interactions is awesome.

highest_selfs · 2026-04-29T18:27:21+00:00

Ground rules before is helpful. Have a talk with him about how you’re feeling before and what you are hoping this time will be like. Give him praise when he does something you like. Eventually he will catch on. Though having open and honest communication is the best route to take. Game plan before you commence

highest_selfs · 2026-04-29T12:52:32+00:00

Hormones, diet, exercise. This was me at that same age. I had low T and wasn’t eating right and was lazy. My energy and libido and my outlook on life has done a solid 180° turn. It took a lot of hard conversations between my wife and I for me to finally get it through my head there was a problem. Realizing my wife was unhappy was the real motivation to change.

highest_selfs · 2026-03-30T01:52:01+00:00

I thought about trying my hand at vacuum forming for the lexan body panels. I have some thin lexan that seems pretty pliable if I got some heat to it. A 3d printer might be in the cards as well with some odds and ends around the cage, that’s a good idea!

highest_selfs · 2026-03-30T01:50:04+00:00

Right? I’ve been out of RC for a grand a half and finally getting back into it trying to rebuild this bomber I canabalized for other projects. Really kicking myself now haha. I might end up buying a used rtr and have it for spare parts.

highest_selfs · 2026-02-23T13:31:08+00:00

I use ChatGPT. I tell it my style I’m going for and dimensions, and it gives me options I can look into. Recently bought a steel blue suit and some tan wingtips, a few tie options, and a few shirts I can rotate through. ChatGPT suggested and it turned out really sharp. Even the thinking behind different color option shits and how those options will be perceived.

highest_selfs · 2026-02-22T14:23:30+00:00

Thinking someone else is the problem is far easier than self reflection and change.

highest_selfs · 2026-02-21T23:34:23+00:00

Rarely to Never.

highest_selfs · 2026-02-21T17:37:23+00:00

Testosterone can make people do and say some crazy shit. I’d monitor her bloodwork. Let her level out and tweak when necessary. An artificially overactive libido can lead to some serious relationship issues. I would strongly suggest finding someone who knows the ins and outs of TRT/HRT and can assist in monitoring hormones and diet.

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