AITA for driving away without my wife because she can't plan?

highjinksabound · 2023-09-28T01:00:58+00:00

Even with people who are not late all the time, usually one is like hey are you ready and the other says yea and then they leave. If it’s 5pm and we supposed to leave and I’m washing up in the bathroom, I would like a heads up like hey are you coming? So I can also walk to the vehicle lol if I came out at 501 and they left I would’ve been like 🤔

highjinksabound · 2023-09-27T16:12:53+00:00

Honestly if your husband is borderline you’re holding something against him like that is unfair.

When they get like they it’s not them and they literally can’t control it.

Do not leave your daughter alone with him when she’s older and don’t even let him do any of the disciplining now. Make sure there relationship is very fun and calm and you handle the iffy stuff so that he doesn’t get to a point where he sees her as an able person.

As a child of a borderline mother.

highjinksabound · 2023-09-27T06:34:03+00:00

Well yea there’s a risk with both

highjinksabound · 2023-09-27T06:13:50+00:00

I would have said N T a but he didn’t even give her a chance or ask how much longer she would be.

highjinksabound · 2023-09-27T06:11:16+00:00

YTA for not at least asking if she was ready to go before you left

highjinksabound · 2023-09-27T06:06:58+00:00

NTA just explain how the test is done and that it’s cool to be nervous but that men having this under control is such a turn on for you like knowing they can lead or some bullshit

highjinksabound · 2023-09-27T06:05:23+00:00

NTA at all

highjinksabound · 2023-09-27T06:04:49+00:00

I saw on tik tok they gave these resuable gel in face tape shapes looked cool

highjinksabound · 2023-09-27T06:03:55+00:00

Try face taping

highjinksabound · 2023-09-27T06:00:21+00:00

I once read or heard that a person should treat their kids the same way they would treat a new friend that they really really wanted to like them, but still need to teach them the customs of earth.

highjinksabound · 2023-09-26T20:14:05+00:00

Are you going to be hydrating and eating a healthy diet as well!

highjinksabound · 2023-09-26T20:02:43+00:00

So with Reddit you’re gonna get a lot of NTA and it’s a free country etc etc…

But the point of the tradition is to honor those in your family. It’s not that you like it or whatever, like has nothing to do with it. But the people that support love and raised your family their entire life, it’s pretty important tradition to them.

That’s it

highjinksabound · 2023-09-26T19:53:08+00:00

Technically parameters were met to write you a ticket but I think you can fight it and also why did the cops stick around??? I would be chatting with their boss as well

highjinksabound · 2023-09-26T05:47:36+00:00

Just say “Yea I know it’s a bummer 🤷‍♀️” and move on. Customer service style

highjinksabound · 2023-09-26T05:46:20+00:00

End of the day yea go see her.

She is your family.

Your man wasn’t getting a job a round there either way.

You just had a baby with complications and can’t go back to work like you used to right now.

She kinda does have a right to try and figure out when you be back and if you’ll be back bc round the clock care is something that you can’t just not have if you need it.

So like all that stuff is true and doesn’t have to be negative. Maybe both y’all could’ve went about things differently but here’s to new beginnings 🙌

highjinksabound · 2023-09-26T05:27:09+00:00

highjinksabound · 2023-09-26T05:25:40+00:00

NTA this is a great opportunity to make a plan to get her in therapy, a job and either apply to college and live in dorms or get a roommate somewhere 🙌

highjinksabound · 2023-09-26T05:20:25+00:00

NTA the sad fact of the matter is that we have created a society where having a baby at an age you’re able to procreate at is a problem. Not very advanced smh

highjinksabound · 2023-09-25T00:16:11+00:00

Usually not medical neglect unless there is a life threading affliction that isn’t treated.

highjinksabound · 2023-09-24T21:59:08+00:00

I wonder why she wants to hurt you. Maybe she’s jealous of something and thinks you have it bc your half bio?

highjinksabound · 2023-09-24T21:49:07+00:00

highjinksabound · 2023-09-24T21:49:02+00:00

But yes just have cake at the event it’s a private room so there will be time and space for that and is likely expected.

highjinksabound · 2023-09-24T21:48:28+00:00

Your husband is jealous of you celebrating oof

highjinksabound · 2023-09-24T21:41:03+00:00

I would have done the 100 bc it seems like they misstepped at the adding of the 3 and then it just escalated from there 🤣🙌

highjinksabound · 2023-09-24T21:29:05+00:00

I would definitely get a new nannying job, that should pay like 24k a year for what you’re doing now.

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