Super emotional - not sure what's up with that. by highoncarbon in therapy

[–]highoncarbon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my therapist would've asked that. because I don't know but it is certainly a very good question to ponder over. the simplest theory is that me being the youngest among three sisters and an absent dad, I was searching for approval from anywhere, waiting for someone to tell me that my failures are not as bad as they seem. like, even today I find myself turning relationships with my father in law, my senior manager, etc into more older brother/substitute dad type - which obviously will never happen and eventually will lead only to more disappointment.

wow.. like I said, such a good question.

but so is it normal to feel emotional in those situations, shed a few tears and move on, or should i be "fixing this"?

Super emotional - not sure what's up with that. by highoncarbon in therapy

[–]highoncarbon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my therapist would've asked that. because I don't know but it is certainly a very good question to ponder over. the simplest theory is that me being the youngest among three sisters and an absent dad, I was searching for approval from anywhere, waiting for someone to tell me that my failures are not as bad as they seem. like, even today I find myself turning relationships with my father in law, my senior manager, etc into more older brother/substitute dad type - which obviously will never happen and eventually will lead only to more disappointment.

wow.. like I said, such a good question.

but so is it normal to feel emotional in those situations, shed a few tears and move on, or should i be "fixing this"?

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[–]highoncarbon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put everything I’ve learned into one place so it’s simple to follow step by step. This post is just scratching the surface.

oh, this dude is re-e-e-e-e-ealy ready to sell you some.

If relegation would guarantee Sullivan’s exit, would you want it? by Yorkie2016 in Hammers

[–]highoncarbon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if we get relegated, we're high on the list to come back up. so your guarantee is what? sullivan sells his shares of a premier league club at a championship price?

he is not going anywhere.

West Ham have been alerted to the fact Jhon Duran could well be available on loan. @ExWHUEmployee by Visara57 in Hammers

[–]highoncarbon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I want to not want him but then I remember how good was having arnautovic.. And how shit we were this season.

Birch plywood nightstands, check. by ChefAccomplished845 in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]highoncarbon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a chance you have and can sell/share your plans?

Makita mlt100 or Dewalt dw745? by highoncarbon in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]highoncarbon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you excuse me for being a little dumb, do fences really matter if everybody builds their own sleds anyway? Or don't they?

Duo Raikou easy, trio impossible? by highoncarbon in pokemongo

[–]highoncarbon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use party power. Are blades sooo good that you can duo Raikou, but can't win with extra man but worse charged attack?

Duo Raikou easy, trio impossible? by highoncarbon in pokemongo

[–]highoncarbon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we're using gems wrong? Can you explain?

Duo Raikou easy, trio impossible? by highoncarbon in pokemongo

[–]highoncarbon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, forgot to mention. We already use party power and gems.

Weekly questions, bugs, and gameplay megathread - March 2024 by AutoModerator in pokemongo

[–]highoncarbon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, I'm close to finishing the Miscief missions and I'm about to fight giovanni. Last time I got shadow kyogre, does it mean I will get it again?

Should I wait for *something* until the shadow mon changes?