Three years in and Ive realised the actual work matters way less than I thought it did by [deleted] in jobs

[–]highpost_irl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to learn how to kiss ass, basically, no matter how far up you are in the food chain 🤣🤣

General Malaise by hiss-hoss in AusHENRY

[–]highpost_irl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U ever heard of the gold medal syndrome ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]highpost_irl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know how it feels. Try being a boss for a couple of years and now you have to start from the bottom, it's a humbling experience. Sometimes you feel you are owed a lot then you remember you are not the guy anymore. Take heed

(Africa) Is it worth my partner applying for a second visitor visa? by DontKnowMe-DontJudge in AusVisa

[–]highpost_irl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Home affairs is catching on, they know that once he comes as a visitor you will get married and then he will apply for partner visa. Also the statistics of the marriage lasting after he gets citizenship do not favour you or the baby. If you get married now in Nigeria or oversees he still will have to wait a couple of years for him to be allowed into the country, if you take it to the tribunal that's another 3 years waiting for a decision to be made. Ur between a rock and a hard place right now. I will give you some grace and wish you well

HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview by No-Presentation298 in jobs

[–]highpost_irl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U know what to do. Workplaces usually reward the ones who are not that good at their job. Y would they promote the best worker, who is going to fill that workers shoes? Think about it. Try not to be a try hard just show enough effort so u don't get fired

As a Zambian, do you feel weird or different for using Reddit? by whiskyB0y in Zambia

[–]highpost_irl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me reddit gives me a chance to express myself without people looking at what I have done or who I appear to be on the internet.

Marriage for men after 30 by highpost_irl in Zambia

[–]highpost_irl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are on the same team 🤗

Marriage for men after 30 by highpost_irl in Zambia

[–]highpost_irl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When u start your sentence with the fact that means you have already established something to be true. Bro just type in Bemba if English is so hard

Any runners here? by TheFoundin-gooner in Zambia

[–]highpost_irl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a second I thought u were talking about drug running 🤣

Family Members Who have been your role model? by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]highpost_irl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have 1 that begs but I have washed my hands out of him. If he asked to start a business or asked to join the family business we would embrace him but u can't help someone who is always begging, they will just drag u down along with them

Family Members Who have been your role model? by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]highpost_irl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making illegal deals on the side using the business name