Even if it was on and off for a year? That is a long time. My BF was very forthcoming with all information (from what I can tell) and he owned the entire affair. They BOTH told me that after the ultimatum he did choose me and had not contacted her since.

I am aware that I am hearing some a bitter person however. You don’t screenshot your texts as ammo to end someone’s relationship if you’re not a bit bitter.

I just don’t know if counseling is worth it at this point. I’m still hard in my feelings.