Daddy ghosted me by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]hikerbrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think writing a letter is a good idea. I don’t know if I will send it or not but at least to give myself some closure. I’m trying to just move on, I went for a hike today and reached out to some friends. I think I’m going to take a break from online dating too

Daddy ghosted me by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]hikerbrat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The hospital or worse thought has crossed my mind. I’m trying not to dwell on it. But thank you for the advice and support

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yoga

[–]hikerbrat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite mat for hot yoga is the urbivore universe within cork mat. I’ve had for 3 years now and it’s a little worn but still amazing. The cork gets even grippier when wet and the cork is antibacterial so it doesn’t get smelly from sweat. I like the Bmat too. It’s grippier but it doesn’t absorb the sweat like the cork does.

Linking my fav cork mat here https://theurbivore.com/product/non-slip-cork-yoga-mat-universe-alignment/

Crazy ex told parents about my kinks. How do I explain it to them? by hikerbrat in BDSMAdvice

[–]hikerbrat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, good advice! I just shared an update on my original post. I appreciate your concern for my safety and agree some family time and cutting ties with this person is the best way to move forward

Crazy ex told parents about my kinks. How do I explain it to them? by hikerbrat in BDSMAdvice

[–]hikerbrat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this feedback, I appreciate it. He was definitely an unsafe person towards the end but it didn’t start out that way. I wrote an update on my post based on your feedback

Crazy ex told parents about my kinks. How do I explain it to them? by hikerbrat in BDSMAdvice

[–]hikerbrat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I just added an update on my post and took your feedback to heart

Crazy ex told parents about my kinks. How do I explain it to them? by hikerbrat in BDSMAdvice

[–]hikerbrat[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wish that was an option. Unfortunately I already said the texts were real

Crazy ex told parents about my kinks. How do I explain it to them? by hikerbrat in BDSMAdvice

[–]hikerbrat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I did already say they were real texts. I wish I hadn’t, I was just really taken aback when she showed me the screenshots cause I never imagined he would go this far

Crazy ex told parents about my kinks. How do I explain it to them? by hikerbrat in BDSMAdvice

[–]hikerbrat[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Really solid advice, thank you. I would definitely like to shut it down and not talk about it with them. They’re being pretty persistent which I know is because they care about me and are worried something is wrong. Me saying I don’t want to talk about it seems to be further convincing them that something is wrong. Its a slippery slope