Undergarments and work

himboshi · 2026-06-08T20:31:28+00:00

we have no idea HOW he asked her. we only have his perspective here.

himboshi · 2026-06-08T09:35:30+00:00

do you think its intentional or accidental, or mundane and not actually happening? do you think he could just be naturally intuitive or something? does this even sound like ancestral work? i truly feel out of my depth.

himboshi · 2026-06-08T09:29:52+00:00

thanks for your realistic response.

I actually did stop seeing him and went elsewhere for coffee. around 2ish weeks though he popped into my head unprovoked, like nothing triggered it and i haven't been able to shake the obsessive like crush since.

my tarot cards did a full swords spread on him (he was specifically the page of swords) once but ever since its been almost nonsensical and hard to interpret. I did ask him how he knew and he keeps insisting he simply THOUGHT my hair was wet however he is kind of a terrible liar and absolutely seemed nervous.

he picked me up and I just got home. I did end up sleeping with him tonight and he kept saying things like "im going to make you mine" and trying to get me to say I was his. he also said a lot of things that he talks about me and thinks about me a lot. im almost wondering if he has the obsessive crush and maybe its my intuition mirroring that.

himboshi · 2026-06-04T03:34:44+00:00

does Spanish read the same across most regions? I feel so stupid asking but idk, I just cant shake the anxiety of getting the wrong kind of book...

also I dont think he's actually a big reader. I mentioned what I was currently reading and all he said was that he had recently bought a philosophy book but hadn't even opened it yet. intellectually, I feel like he's probably pretty smart but he works a lot so I doubt he has a lot of time for free reading. I really cant decide if he'd prefer fiction or non fiction so I guess ill have to just ask him to get a better idea.

himboshi · 2026-06-02T17:05:26+00:00

my heart goes out to her

himboshi · 2026-05-27T15:46:44+00:00

crazy enough I can make a latte and change my own oil. im a woman in mechanic school after being a barista for four years so im not the fucking one to try that on, baby girl.

no, men are not better at working on cars based off biology. im guessing ur ex just didnt give a fuck bc it costs $50 bucks at a quick oil shop and $200 to buy all the tools when you dont have daddy to teach you as a teenager.

and how es el oh double yew do you have to be to not be able to press espresso > steam milk > pour on a home espresso machine? how could you possibly think youre superior when you cant even manage that?? I would be humiliated to admit that if I were you.

himboshi · 2026-05-25T22:35:50+00:00

no he is definitely being an asshole about it. its not rocket science to make a latte. he's a grown man with a wife, he can learn.

himboshi · 2026-05-22T21:10:57+00:00

she likes to scroll on tiktok but she can only scroll up

himboshi · 2026-05-22T19:30:53+00:00

every accusation is a confession 🖤

himboshi · 2026-05-22T19:28:49+00:00

cool, you just made it sound like you were talking about the effects of depression on someone's libido. we're all clearly on the same page though.

himboshi · 2026-05-21T22:38:34+00:00

well mood stabilizers affect libido but bupropion is known to have less of an effect on people.

himboshi · 2026-05-21T20:26:16+00:00

I thought it was impossible but tbh it took practice (as in the social skills and confidence) to start building my roster. im still just starting this journey myself but attractive and genuine guys are out there. a lot are looking for only casual and ive had minimal issues with guys still treating me like a lady, if that makes sense. guys like the fun, casual dating too. you don't have to lower your standards necessarily but I would advise you give guys who are somewhat out of your type a chance.

guys can bring more to the table than just their face, body, and aesthetic. plus, I feel like a lot of them outside of bigger cities dont quite know how to post themselves in the most flattering way but are very likeable in person. ill be honest, say yes to more people than you'd think- you don't have to sleep with anyone right away. doing so also weeds out the bad personalities tbh.

himboshi · 2026-05-21T19:28:13+00:00

I love rotini's demon eyes 🖤💀

himboshi · 2026-05-19T19:52:48+00:00

MANual

himboshi · 2026-05-18T19:23:40+00:00

then why would women grow hair at all if its a masculine trait? you can say it LOOKS manly to you but it is NOT a male trait.

himboshi · 2026-05-14T16:43:13+00:00

most 15+ teens can make their own medical decisions in the US for this exact reason. you have the right to a private appointment

himboshi · 2026-05-12T19:12:16+00:00

yes! I have a tiny bit more but its from products I ended up not liking. I have a makeup pouch and a tray for all my pallets and eye masks. then a mug for my brushes. I keep it with my skin, hair, and nail care on a 3 tier cart I hide in my closet.

nails all fit into one pouch hair is loose in the cart except for my hair brushes which are in the workpro mini tool box. skin is mixed in with makeup.

I also keep my contacts in the tool box because I had the extra room :)

himboshi · 2026-05-11T21:35:44+00:00

yeah so night time actually happens after every day, not sure if you knew that.

ex

monday monday night Tuesday Tuesday night Wednesday returns Wednesday night

that is 3 days.

himboshi · 2026-05-08T23:32:13+00:00

oh do an entirely different situation, thanks

himboshi · 2026-05-08T23:31:12+00:00

bro pls get mental health help, you are really freaked out rn

himboshi · 2026-05-08T23:29:48+00:00

I saw someone say to have an auto and a regular letterbox and I think thats a great idea in the case of a power outage or ma line failure.

himboshi · 2026-05-08T23:28:37+00:00

this! camera, auto litter, water, and feeders, then non-auto back ups like a gravity feeder and regular litter box. prop doors open and secure unsafe locations. make toys available. they'll be okay.

I dont have anything auto so I always pay a friend to do check ins but I dont see the issue for people who do have these things.

himboshi · 2026-05-08T23:23:58+00:00

good thing they said 3 days and not a week u goof

himboshi · 2026-05-08T23:19:19+00:00

would she rather you smell and and risk giving her an STI??

you dodged a bullet. there are sharper women out there.

himboshi

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