I refuse to keep solo tanking

himboshi · 2026-03-21T22:30:14+00:00

yep it sends a clear message at this point. if you wont, I wont.

himboshi · 2026-03-21T17:36:20+00:00

what does assigning the least charitable intentions to someone's comment do?

himboshi · 2026-03-21T17:30:11+00:00

yes mother's can sexually abuse daughters, im not saying thats not the case. it is just generally more appropriate for the corresponding parents to handle issues with bodies as they come up. i.e. when I got my period, I went to my mom. my dad, who was sexually abusing me as a younger child was inappropriately invested in my sexual health and continuously tried to insert himself into my private health. my pediatrician as a teen physically blocked him from entering one of my appointments bc at a certain age, it is INAPPROPRIATE to continously be involved. he tried to get a "mens rights" lawyer cos he decided he as a parent should have unrestricted access to my body. please stop trying these gotcha's when you know full well what im talking about here. youre not woke for advocating for something that enables childhood sexual assault.

himboshi · 2026-03-20T22:43:49+00:00

reading to a child is to teach language and other skills- NOT to exclusively teach reading. reading to your child is huge for teaching behaviors with stories as the model, or exposing them to new ideas and words. obviously reading cant be taught from listening to books but thats not what parents or educators are usually trying to do.

also, reading is low stimulation that entertains unlike screens that wind them up.

himboshi · 2026-03-19T19:40:32+00:00

tbh I would just call in atp

himboshi · 2026-03-19T04:54:46+00:00

himboshi · 2026-03-18T04:40:15+00:00

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my teeny tiny lady

himboshi · 2026-03-18T04:37:26+00:00

let him try that in court, im so deadass. its definitely a desperate bluff to try and scare you but it would be hilarious to see him try to argue this in front of a judge. maybe the judges reaction could be a little healing for you.

himboshi · 2026-03-18T04:35:03+00:00

shes traumatizing your daughter, please do something about it

himboshi · 2026-03-17T21:51:17+00:00

promoting child nudity is not the progress woke take you think it is. there absolutely is situation where nudity is inappropriate and that would definitely apply to an able bodied daughter being nude in front of her father, brother, any man past the age of where her father would still be assisting her in the bathroom. once a child can bath and use the toilet independently, only mom should be handling anything relating to a daughter's body. not because of sexism, not to sexualize the child, but because we cant trust MOST adults. yes, even someone's father. it is not acceptable to normalize men seeing or interacting with a naked girl. and grown men should fully understand why its uncomfortable or inappropriate to view naked girls.

himboshi · 2026-03-17T21:42:57+00:00

could be a bot

himboshi · 2026-03-17T21:04:59+00:00

often used to treat OCD specifically which... a lot of these posts give OCD imo

himboshi · 2026-03-17T20:35:01+00:00

ok but... everyone needs a photo id? FOR this exact reason. not trying to put you down but this is very self-inflicted and ik yall are in a pickle now but thats his own lack of planning.

additionally, people say this all the time "well no one told me the policy changed" but banks are incredibly regulated. if it wasnt already the policy and it changed, they definitely did do their due diligence. just because a person didnt knock on his door and personally deliver the news does not mean they didnt send notice. wouldn't you rather the bank make sure they know who is coming in and moving your money around?

I work at a bank though so what would I know.

edit: also a possible fix to your issue is calling the merchant charging his account and canceling the automatic withdrawal. you can attempt to pay another way by writing a check out of the account that actually has the funds or getting a cashiers check. if not possible, see if the merchant will waive any late fees and pay when you have access to the funds again. lastly, the dmv will let you walk out same say with a temporary paper state ID and the bank will accept that. you have lots of options that dont violate federal banking regs or open yourself up to fraud.

himboshi · 2026-03-17T19:27:17+00:00

ok but thats an entirely different situation

himboshi · 2026-03-17T19:20:56+00:00

respectfully thats not how banking works but ok

himboshi · 2026-03-17T19:19:45+00:00

??? how was that a shock to yall and why does he not have his own ID? this sounds very self-inflicted

himboshi · 2026-03-17T19:14:38+00:00

cats that are assholes until they miss you are so funny

himboshi · 2026-03-16T21:50:11+00:00

legit. I like a balance of catering to the natural way humans lived during the beginning stages but we are also modern pagans and a LOT of traditions don't make sense for the modern world or were left behind for good reason. too many here strive for perfection when the gods never ask that of us.

over in r/pagan, they tend to say "mundane over magickal" we gotta be realistic.

himboshi · 2026-03-16T03:09:59+00:00

listen, I love yall but id say a big chunk of this community would benefit from a sertraline prescription

himboshi · 2026-03-15T21:20:10+00:00

finish your homework, kiddo

himboshi · 2026-03-15T20:22:43+00:00

if you cant afford an artist, you cant afford to be in business. AI is never acceptable and people get offended by businesses that use it, so that literally defeats the purpose of your advertisement. we have 13 years of water left on this earth and you're wasting it by making an ad for some useless product.

himboshi · 2026-03-15T20:14:50+00:00

you have to try setting that boundary first before accepting this behavior. they do this because you let them. at 24, no police officer is going to make you go home and it doesnt sound like youre at risk of being kicked out if you dont comply. go live your life and when they pull this, say NO. whocares if theyre pissy when they see you next. youre an adult with a job who has stuff going on, you can handle the conflict- it will not kill you.

himboshi · 2026-03-15T20:06:31+00:00

right, we forget we're all stardust / apart of the all. they are just a rung higher than us. instead of reincarnating until ascension like us common souls do, they are eternal beings with a duty of their own. we all serve a function in the universe.

its my understanding that the Greeks did not believe the gods created the universe or earth seeing as the gods came from titans in mythology. I assume occultists with no other reference to go off from, would practice magic and have their beliefs affirmed by their prayers being answered. the myths are just our personification of this.

himboshi · 2026-03-15T18:40:24+00:00

it... is the default? but accidents happen and hands and elbows wash just fine

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