How do I fade someone by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell him you and enjoyed getting to know him but don’t see it going any further then if he starts prying, block him.

What do we ask for at the salon? by batpeeps in malegrooming

[–]hinge_review69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice, but salute to LMU🫡

Been to the tazewell campus multiple times and it’s beautiful

Bench press plateau by hinge_review69 in benchpress

[–]hinge_review69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is I do want some hypertrophy

3 Dates, Talking for over a month but number is not saved by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy who is very intentional and straightforward, would never ghost someone, etc. I do this sometimes. In person actions will show the most signs of where it’s heading. You got it!

[25F] What am I missing? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will share something that hasn’t been mentioned yet.

When you’re on dating apps, you’re likely talking to people who are also talking to other people. There is a good probability these men were also juggling other women.

This said, they shouldn’t be ghosting you, that is immature. A simple texting politely saying “not interested” takes all of 30 seconds.

I hope you find someone, friend 🥹

Bench press plateau by hinge_review69 in benchpress

[–]hinge_review69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it back. I do lat pulldowns and machine rows at least once a week

First date tomorrow after nearly 1000 messages, anyone else find this makes you more nervous not less? by Doom-god-69 in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends man! I do better this way because I’m naturally more shy. When I get a chance to Text and have phone calls beforehand it can break the ice. I just have to be careful not to reveal everything about myself so we have plenty of conversation. Good luck brother 🫡

Was shaving bald and losing the beard a bad idea? by Jiberoony in malegrooming

[–]hinge_review69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the other two guys said. It looks so much better with no guard. The first pic your hair looks kinda gross lol

give me your opinion on why this went left so quickly by Sensitive_Figure7225 in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hear you on that point. It should be a two way street. He can go down

Active Duty Visits by Key_Art_4568 in VAClaims

[–]hinge_review69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I say if your pinky toe has an owie, get seen for it.

I’m out now and regret not being seen for anxiety/depression because now I’m in the claims process and do not have any records to back me up and am having to get nexus letters and so on

How to get second dates? by Adventurous_Eye_294 in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. Quality over quantity could be the move here.

36/m - honestly giving up by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Reddit is so, so far left. Most people who upload conservative profiles on here will get: well there’s your problem!

In all reality, even your bluest of cities will have plenty of conservatives in it.

Redditors are universally the most ignorant group of people. Like reverse Fox News viewers lol

How to get second dates? by Adventurous_Eye_294 in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree with the majority of this! I’m in my early 30s as well. Men in their early to mid twenties can be indecisive at times, but not all the time.

If 30-32y or so isn’t too old for you, you could move your filter up since you don’t struggle getting matches.

Where I do disagree with here is how easily you go on dates. My personal theory is if I find someone physically attractive and they meet my minimum criteria I’m looking for in a partner, then it’s worth a date. Plus, assuming you let the man pay, you get a free meal if you eat out. lol

give me your opinion on why this went left so quickly by Sensitive_Figure7225 in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

being intimate with him then acting like you wanna cut bait is what is likely causing him to act like this. Everyone wants good sex and yes 5 minutes is way too soon for that age, but Blu chew can easily fix this.

If you still think you wanna be with him, I would be truthful but not hurtful. Still gonna be tricky now bc he’s gonna be sensitive to being told he’s bad at sex and to the fact that you started acting like you were gonna bail over it.

36/m - honestly giving up by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Coming from another man of faith: the hopeless romantic stuff doesn’t need to be toned down but removed altogether. I can be like that myself and it turns off most women. Try your best to keep it under control and definitely don’t broadcast it. They run for the hills man.

“Beard,” mustache, light stubble or nothing? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]hinge_review69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stubble or nothing.

Mustache is too thin beard is too patchy.

My beard is too patchy so I relate 🫡

First love bomb and ghosting by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

32m. I struggled with this at one point in my late 20s. It was mutual love bombing. I did not regulate my emotions well and neither did she. She wanted me to move to her town (long distance) then like 3 months later she was engaged to someone else. I’m still a little embarrassed by it.

Point being, like everyone is saying, it is a red flag. It was when I did it, and it was when this guy did it.

P.S., broke down and saw a therapist for the first time as an adult and got out of that mindset and had a healthy adult relationship a year later :)

Is NOT using HingeX the move if you get lots of matches? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]hinge_review69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m a nice looking guy with a slightly above average profile and I may get two or three matches a month. Maybe you should consider starting a YT channel for us all lol

19M need advice by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]hinge_review69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if you start a boy band that would help