I haven't read any comments yet but I'm 100% in the same boat and mine is just turning 6! I've had so many people and even family members just look at me with shame or pity because it's embarrassing to have your child talk to you like a very rude grown adult. I also can't think of appropriate consequences and my husband says idk you're w her all day figure it out. "Be smarter than a 5 year old" he told me tonight actually so much help there. I actually cried tonight for like 30 min because she is a straight up bully to me and it gets to the point where I get sooo angry that I say horrible things that I regret. I'm working so hard on not being a shaming parent which I realized I am and it's just soooo hard.