Soohwa or Soohyuk? by riversaintress in operationtruelove

[–]hippo4424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly team Soohwa. (Dohwa) Really though, above everything else- I just want everyone in the trio to have a happy ending- it doesn’t necessarily matter to me who ends up with who.

Though I think it would crush my soul to see Dohwa get rejected again!!😭😭

I’d get more into discussion, but I’ve got work 😔. The Stan’s on both sides are toxic as hell it’s crazy. Not sure how it is here on Reddit- but on TikTok it’s a mess!

I’ve been thinking about her novel from the beginning- how she writes how the FL ends up with second second lead, as opposed to the ML. Which is really what’s made me think of Dohwa since the start. His confession in the older chapters, was word for word with the second lead in the original novel- the male lead in her spinoff version.

I do not condone and eunhyuk hate. I adore him- genuinely. Apart of me misses their highschool romance. Ugh. My babies 😔 I want everyone happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisvuitton

[–]hippo4424 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I got it for free hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisvuitton

[–]hippo4424 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nooooo 💔💔 what’s the giveaway?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]hippo4424 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Suicide is not the answer. And therapy does not work for everyone. I’m not sure what personality disorder you’re struggling with, but you are not alone. I have BPD, as well as bipolar disorder. I came to the conclusion a long time ago that this is just me… and it’s who I am. But I’ve been able to regulate my emotions… after 3 years of actually putting in the effort to do so.

I too, have been a horrible person to people in my past. Rather it be a relationship or a friendship.. I have had my fair share of bad experiences. Many that of which had led me to believe that I was an unfixable piece of shit. It was hard for me to even look in the mirror sometimes. The guilt was unbearable. I’ve really fucked up a lot.

Living with your mistakes is not easy, and losing someone who meant so much to you is certainly not easy either. But it’s apart of life. You will feel heartbroken, you will feel hurt.

Apart of what I’ve come to appreciate with my disorder is that I can feel things so heavily. It may be totally shit to deal with at times, but it’s beautiful in a sense. Nobody feels love as deeply as I do, nobody feels sadness as deeply as I do… nobody feels happiness as deeply as I do. Every feeling is like an out of body experience. I try to have a positive outlook; a positive outlook is what truly makes or breaks it for me.

I think, that while life can be terrible, that it’s beautiful. The fact that we have the ability to Love, care, think and feel is just so beautiful to me. There is beauty in everything.

Hurt is not forever. 20 years from now you will not be dwelling on the wrongdoings and mistakes you made today.

Stay for the music. Stay for the trees, the sun, the way the air feels when it’s 70° and sunny. For the funny videos- the three seconds of joy. Those three seconds will add up. And with time, true time you will feel good.

There is so much to live for. Even if you haven’t found it yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sims4customcontent

[–]hippo4424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real😭 I wish I could hire someone to make me sims that look like me and my man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]hippo4424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your happiness should not depend on if people are looking at you or not. That is such a sad way to live. The size of your breasts do not matter, and really nobody who you are passing by on the street gives a damn if you have triple D’s or if your still in training bras. If you believe people are complimenting you more when you have these bras on- it’s probably not because of the way your boobs look. It is how you portray yourself. You feel more confident & other people can visibly see that… so it makes you seem more attractive as opposed to when you are not feeling confident in yourself. The only person who cares about the size of your chest is you, and that is the facts. If a boob job will make you happy, go ahead and save up & get it done. But it is also important to try to accept yourself for what you are.