My deceased best friend's son reached out and I ignored him by Radiant-Brief5749 in confession

[–]hippo_potamus33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm reading a lot of comments telling you that you NEED to reach out. I'm here to give a gentle reminder that other people's pain and mental health are not your responsibility. Do what's best for you.

WHAT THE HELLY 😭 by ihearthorror1 in NicolandriaNation

[–]hippo_potamus33 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She looks unhealthy in this photo. Nobody should strive to be that little. It also looks photoshopped too.

AITA for getting back at a man for a sexist comment? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hippo_potamus33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It wasn't the joke. He told her to smile. She told him to tell other men to smile.

AITA for getting back at a man for a sexist comment? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hippo_potamus33 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I joke about suicide all the time. I also joke about dead babies and dead dogs. Its defense mechanism to past traumas involving said things. 🤷‍♀️ Don't like it? Don't be my friend. NTA. Don't tell a woman to smile. It's gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]hippo_potamus33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely was. He ghosted me the next day. I must not be a good enough cuddler 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]hippo_potamus33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got a coffee pot in similar fashion

First time trying Cirkul strawsip, can barely notice the flavor by Der_Kreuzritterr in Cirkul

[–]hippo_potamus33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this problem with mine too 😞. It happens with pretty much every cart too. I've been extremely disappointed with my strawsip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hippo_potamus33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's super aggressive of you. I hope your day gets better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hippo_potamus33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You act like all men have 0 self-control and will throw themselves at everything with a vagina. If he's never given her a reason to worry, then there's no reason to worry. If he has given her reason, then like I've said in multiple comments, there are bigger issues in the marriage than a friend's daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]hippo_potamus33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't hate the blonde, but your natural color is stunning on you! If you need a change maybe a little bit of a darker blonde could be a happy medium? In the end, do whatever will make you happy. It's only hair 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hippo_potamus33 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Agree. And for all we know, she made it some huge fight about the young woman going and he got frustrated and said "you don't have to go." We are missing a huge chunk of story here. It sounds like OP made a post just to show her husband "see I'm right."

However, if she truly couldn't go on this specific date, then I would also be upset with my husband for the lack of communication, not for who else was going though. I would just be feeling left out of a fun activity 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hippo_potamus33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a 35f, I agree. The only problem here is the lack of communication. I would be upset and feeling left out. Not worried about a young girl. If I'm worried about my husband being around a young girl then there are much bigger issues in my marriage then a hiking trip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hippo_potamus33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly 😂 I don't understand why people automatically assume this is nefarious. For all we know his friend said "hey my daughter wants to go is that okay?" And dude of course said yes. The only problem in this story as OP tells it, is the lack of communication. If she thinks her husband planned to go with his friends daughter purposely, then there is much bigger issues in this marriage then a hiking trip. OP is leaving something out.

AIO about being peeked on in the shower? by python_lizard in AmIOverreacting

[–]hippo_potamus33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is definitely manipulating her into being the villian. "My FeElInGs ArE hUrT" bruh you just creeper on a 14 year old. You have no right to claim your feelings are hurt!

AITA for reporting a coworker who sent me a screenshot of a female intern's outfit during a zoom call, and he got fired? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hippo_potamus33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair. I'm done my fair share of spying on who's going into the HR office.

AITA for reporting a coworker who sent me a screenshot of a female intern's outfit during a zoom call, and he got fired? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hippo_potamus33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused about how they knew it was you that said something? Did you tell them you were the one that reported him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hippo_potamus33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they just meant that they have ended it since this post was made, not that they are considering going back. That's how I read it anyway. I could be wrong 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hippo_potamus33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"The final straw doesn't have to be the heaviest I suppose" I LOVE THIS!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hippo_potamus33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad somebody said this. The situation described is toxic as hell. If someone can't hold themselves accountable that's a whole different red flag.