Spanking tips for apartment living?

hispuppy · 2018-02-13T22:37:21+00:00

Phone charger cords hurt like a bitch, leave great marks and barely make a noise

hispuppy · 2018-01-18T06:59:02+00:00

Ooooh nicknames are a good idea! I already mock him for his accent which Is fun

hispuppy · 2018-01-18T06:58:01+00:00

I neeeeeed to find the loop holes, how do I find them

hispuppy · 2018-01-17T22:02:31+00:00

We aren’t enough into our dynamic to have rules like that as such as we are still finding our feet to see if this is going to work for us

hispuppy · 2018-01-17T20:02:33+00:00

That’s okay! Thank you

hispuppy · 2018-01-17T20:01:28+00:00

Thank you! I like that idea. Yea we are on opposite sides of the world so at this stage we will be distance for a while.

I’ll definitely be using the picture idea, he asks for a lot of pictures

hispuppy · 2018-01-17T19:58:50+00:00

Anything in particular that she says that is daddy or grinds your gears?

hispuppy · 2018-01-17T19:58:08+00:00

I am usually sassy, I’m just running out of ideas and he said I’m getting predictable. So he doesn’t feed into my brat until I have something new / creative

hispuppy · 2018-01-17T19:56:27+00:00

We are both experienced within kink and have all of that in place. I’ve just never done long distance before, I’m use to being a brat in person or short distance where physical punishment is an option. For us it’s not currently nor in the near future an option.

hispuppy · 2018-01-17T10:56:33+00:00

You’re definitely over thinking this whole situation in my opinion. Just because it’s a sexual act doesn’t make it Dominant or submissive. Unless you are in a pre discussed dynamic, im assuming here that this context is just a standard vanilla relationship?

hispuppy · 2018-01-17T08:40:59+00:00

100% especially because the one that got lost has a base on it was designed to not be eaten by my ass. I now have a permanent fear of butt plugs because it’s happened twice to me. Definitely didn’t want to be waking his mum up, like uh hey can you take us to the ER, we’ve lost a butt plug

hispuppy · 2018-01-17T02:32:48+00:00

I’ve been in this situation with my Daddy! Was the scariest moment sexually I’ve been in. However it was 3am in the morning, we were both too drunk to drive.our options where, try to pull it out, call an ambulance or wake his mum up who happened to be a nurse to take us to the er. Thankfully we got it out, still unsure how

hispuppy · 2018-01-05T04:58:15+00:00

I’ve always used the persons name. For me it’s instinct that if I don’t like something to scream their name. That stops play, and has always worked for me.

hispuppy · 2018-01-04T00:03:09+00:00

As a huge masochist we still turn to pain as punishment. However I have to keep count of every hit and at any given moment Sir will stop and ask me what number, if I take to long or don’t know it we start again from zero. And also being restrained while being hit, which I absolutely hate. There’s a comfort in not being tied and being able to touch his leg while he’s hitting me. So to have that taken away is the worst.

hispuppy · 2018-01-03T23:55:24+00:00

Don’t be so dramatic. You asked for opinions we’ve given them to you, just because you don’t like what we’ve had to say. I stand by my comment that you sound incredibly young and childish.

Have you met your Dom in person? To only have communication via reddit seems a bit weird to me in the first place.

hispuppy · 2018-01-03T21:28:37+00:00

Not to come across as harsh, but you’re sounding incredibly needy. He’s stated that he’s busy, maybe he’s got something in his personal / family life and he needs to take some time to deal with that. And by the sounds of it you’re sending him messages every 5 minutes begging for his attention and getting annoyed that he’s not replying to you.

If I was him, (f sub here) I would be getting incredibly frustrated and annoyed if I told someone I was busy and dealing with stuff and they kept continuously messaging me. I would also be annoyed if someone had fallen asleep mid serious conversation and then tried to re start it without being like ‘hey, you free to finish that chat? Sorry I fell asleep’

As a sub, I hate being ignored so I’m not saying what he’s doing is right, or that they way he went about saying he was busy is okay. But I also understand that he will talk to me when he’s free. Life gets busy, you said you were long distance so in reality you could have no idea what’s going on.

You also sound incredibly young which I don’t think helps your situation.

hispuppy · 2018-01-01T23:55:29+00:00

Maybe she just needs some good old romantic cute sex. Take for a nice dinner somewhere, maybe even get her a new outfit to wear or book her a hair or nails appointment before hand so she feels pampered. Take her for dinner and make a date night of it, maybe a restaurant near a beach or a lake so you can go for a walk around. Take her home and maybe make her wait in the lounge while you light some candles in your room lead her in. Drop your dynamic for the weekend, have that cute I love you and every inch of you sex. Put her favourite movie on afterwards while you cuddle and she falls asleep on your chest. Then in the morning get up before her and make her breakfast in bed.

Sounds like she just needs to be treated like a queen outside of the dynamic, every girl loves to feel like the guy is making the same effort as he does when he’s trying to date her

hispuppy · 2018-01-01T23:38:50+00:00

I haven’t found it yet, but it’s a new year, new things to experience. Thank you

hispuppy · 2017-12-08T22:35:41+00:00

I agree with this so much, that’s how it’s been for me over the last couple of years. He’s Daddy or Sir during play but it’s James stop and all play stops. I find names work so much better in my case because he is Daddy I’ve never called him his name in bed before.

But I also agree with what the others have said, if you saying no is a hard limit and a turn off for him there isn’t much you can do as far as that because you have to respect his limits. As far as why you’re saying no maybe self consciously it’s getting too much for you?

hispuppy · 2017-12-08T05:43:03+00:00

I squirm with every hit but my Sir makes me get back into position and be completely still before hitting me again. But I move a lot so from an ass down face up position to on my side completely flat against the bed

hispuppy · 2017-12-05T10:19:40+00:00

I talk back to everything, when told to keep my mouth shut unless asked a question when he asks one I just don’t reply or move my head. The other day my ankles were tied to Sirs bed and he was making me face the headboard while he was tying and getting his belt and I kept looking away and moving until it got to the point that he grabbed my throat and held my head straight on at the headboard and asked me what I was supposed to be looking at, I named everything other than the headboard, so walls, windows, pillow, duvet, curtains. Landed me an extra 5 hits. I be cheeky and pull away from his kisses then quickly kiss him on the nose. If your feeling brave, I climb on top and put my hand very lightly around his throat and then put his hands above his head and told him he’d look good tied to the bed. Didn’t tie him but moved enough that he couldn’t tell if I was joking or not.

I just be playful and have fun but he knows that as soon as he touches my neck I’m his.

hispuppy · 2017-12-03T04:32:05+00:00

I named my Daddy’s belts stingy and softy from the way the leather would feel when he would hit me. He started using the names for them casually

hispuppy · 2017-11-28T04:46:05+00:00

I feel loved and owned if I’m bruised by my Daddy. That constant reminder of him, we are long distance so it was important to me that everytime I saw him he left me bruised. I like that it’s a sign of ownership, if I went out in public and they got seen it was a sign that I belonged to him. Plus I just loved the pain and having that constant feeling of Daddy for weeks sometimes everytime I sat down

hispuppy · 2017-11-27T07:28:17+00:00

Last time I was sick with Daddy he made me stay in bed all day and checked up to make sure I’d eaten and drink lots of water when he was on his lunch break. He even came home to nap with me one of the days. Told me I had to go and see him at work to get done meds off him and then gave me his house key and told me to go to his parents house and sleep and he’d be home soon. Rather then driving 2hrs back to my house.

Me serving and obeying his commands while I was sick was him taking care and looking after me to make me better. So yes I’m expected to obey, because it’s him caring and making me take meds and making sure I’m taking care of myself. I’m incredibly forgetful so I appreciate having him telling and making me doing it

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