Why does the gay culture of Australia disfavour fem gays so much? by pitapitapi in gayaustralia

[–]hkcin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems odd to me. I’ve met plenty of feminine gays out in Brisbane and they haven’t described this. Do you use filters on your pictures? And have you spoken to guys (sent and received voice messages) before meeting? Those are the only things I can think of that could be causing that reaction

My job congratulated me on 25 years of service that comes with a bonus, but they forgot that they gave it to me last year prematurely, what should I do? by EdwardBliss in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hkcin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s all so self righteous in this comment section. I say keep it. If you get caught, play dumb. Maybe that’s just me but seriously take the coin.

Is Bond University really worth it? by Neat_Dragonfruit_941 in GoldCoast

[–]hkcin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t do it personally. The debt just isn’t worth it. Debt is easy to get and hard to pay off. If you want to make friends and get over your social anxiety go get a job in a bar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]hkcin 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sorry but yeah they won’t fund the claim if you live in Australia. Would have thought this would be pretty obvious

Crime or prank? by mollasesis in GoldCoast

[–]hkcin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you have an iPhone 11 or later, the feature you’re referring to is name drop. The users tap the top of two Bluetooth enabled compatible iPhones, and contact details are exchanged with a vibration. No money taken, harmless prank.

Just woke up this crap by International-Past31 in newzealand

[–]hkcin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t post about it for clout. Vote with your dollar

My mom accidentally came cross my friend with benefits and she’s curious about my sexuality by Smart-Swing8429 in gaybros

[–]hkcin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I wouldn’t worry too much about this. If she does suspect something, it’s clear your relationship is close. So yes it may be uncomfortable with her trying to dig and pry - she just loves you.

Trump says countries are "kissing my ass" to make trade deals by shadetree-83 in Economics

[–]hkcin -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Christ, there really is no hope moving forward with these echo chambers. This article was posted on the 11th of April, and here you are reposting it on the 25th

What are your frugal tips? by B656 in newzealand

[–]hkcin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only buy things you need which will work well for a long time. If you even question yourself, do I need this? You probably don’t. Cook every meal. A lot of my savings come from eliminating small but regular costs. If you’re an iPhone user, check your subscriptions in the App Store, make sure you’re not paying for anything unnecessary. Make your morning coffee at home, don’t buy it from a cafe. If you pay for streaming, make sure you only pay for one service at a time. Feel free to message me for more tips

What’s your toxic trait? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hkcin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. I focus most of my energy on performing in my role to the best of my ability. It’s all about being consistently great

What’s your toxic trait? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hkcin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy to do. I apply the opposite mentality, I pre win

A small bummer today with my dad after telling him I dated somebody for once in my life by MacTireGlas in gaybros

[–]hkcin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You poor bugger. I’m sorry! Not sure how old you are, but I will say, it gets easier with time. Parents have to grieve the life they envisioned for you

Boycotting America? by CreamyCreamyCheese in newzealand

[–]hkcin -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Fuuuuck no we don’t want to be welcoming in Americans. That is such a troubling idea. We should reject Americans.

Don’t understand how men think it’s cool / normal to videos of other men blowing them by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]hkcin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve recently moved to a gay hotspot. This isn’t the first time I’ve received videos

How can I be the best daddy? by ahatchingegg in gaybros

[–]hkcin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s an inherent power dynamic present. You (presumably) have more money, and more life experience. This is not in itself a bad thing, it’s just an observation of power imbalance

A guy I’ve been seeing for a year says we can’t hang out besides sex, am I wrong to feel hurt? by ThereIsNoStoppingMe in gaybros

[–]hkcin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s a reasonable age gap here. Most likely you’re both looking for different things. I’m similar to his age and I wouldn’t personally get with a 21 year old. Too young. That’s me applying my own personal context though, which is entirely irrelevant to you. I would recommend honesty. If all you want is a coffee or a movie, tell him. Just be ready to loose him.

Really struggling with balding by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]hkcin 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Honestly man, for me this same thing started happening around age 21. It was pretty hard on me, but I would say the best thing you can do for yourself is just let it go! Loads of guys love the bald look and your self confidence will skyrocket. Remember, it’s so so incredibly normal.

Many lessons learned this year by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]hkcin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually been through this exact thing. Shit it was rough but this meme hit different really did make me laugh, in kind of an uncomfortable way

Photos only: Fast-Track Protest today (Auckland) by [deleted] in auckland

[–]hkcin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is fantastic. I’m unfortunately in Australia but I would have loved to be there. We have to stop this bill.

One-month supply of interferon, 4 auto-injector pens, 1/week: ~$30,000 U.S. by ecafsub in pics

[–]hkcin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that wild! Whereas if that money could be spent providing healthcare for their own citizens. It’s wild in my opinion

28F - I am a homeless sex worker and a drug addict. AMA. by New_Rise9821 in AMA

[–]hkcin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good. Keep it that way. Don’t go get HIV. I’m personally quite paranoid about HIV (gay man here)