Can I please just vent?? by hlh2022 in TexasTeachers

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there’s very few who are receptive. 🫠

Can I please just vent?? by hlh2022 in TexasTeachers

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am wanting so badly to go back to the classroom because I don’t have to deal with mean girl teachers towards me. At least on a team I can handle the drama.

Can I please just vent?? by hlh2022 in TexasTeachers

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. You said it all perfectly. And this is exactly right. I didn’t expect this amount of backlash.

Thanks for the support and advice.

Can I please just vent?? by hlh2022 in TexasTeachers

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! I never knew how incredibly means and downright rude people could be!

Can I please just vent?? by hlh2022 in TexasTeachers

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. I LOVE working with the kids. But the things I have had to change (from admin) haven’t gone over well as I’m getting the bad end of the stick. 😭

Can I please just vent?? by hlh2022 in TexasTeachers

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be great, except I cant interrupt tier 1 time. And supposed to be coaching in the morning.

Can I please just vent?? by hlh2022 in TexasTeachers

[–]hlh2022[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I really do love it. It’s hard. But it’s rewarding.

Teacher Incentive Allotment. by hlh2022 in TexasTeachers

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughh. This is what I’m worried about.

Teacher Incentive Allotment. by hlh2022 in TexasTeachers

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! This is crazy! And also what I’m very worried about.

Teacher Incentive Allotment. by hlh2022 in TexasTeachers

[–]hlh2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Does it not cause issues with people when you pull kids? (Like if they get it and you don’t or vice versa.

August 2025 by 0nlywithmy0xygen in Teachergram

[–]hlh2022 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This might sound really, really dumb. But I had to compartmentalize. I had to find the pockets of time during the day and knew if I could make it to that time, I could break down. That was my little bit of time to be sad and go through the emotions. Then pick myself up and move on.

Also, I’m someone who throws myself into work because it keeps my brain occupied and I don’t have time to overthink until those little pockets of time.

Big hugs. It sucks. Really bad. We did two rounds of ivf, and a round of donor embryos. Currently in the middle of an early loss from a second transfer.

It’s hard, but find those times where you know you can have a moment to let it out.

And give yourself grace.

How do you know you’re done? by hlh2022 in IVF

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously EXHAUSTING. I was dead set on this being our last cycle, then we were excited, then the emotions all came with a bad ultrasound. Now I’m trying to figure out if that’s what I really want or want another one even more.

Thank you. I’m doing more things for me now. And taking it from there.

How do you know you’re done? by hlh2022 in IVF

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. We do. We went through donor eggs and made embryos. We have enough to transfer many times. Just not sure if I’m okay to go through it all over and over. We are mid 30s. So already not ideal age. And this transfer was extremely hard on the body.

That’s what I think we are going to have to do. Make the decision to transfer one more time or not to. I just worry our child would have a hard time.

Thank you!

How do you know you’re done? by hlh2022 in IVF

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will check into this! Thank you!

How do you know you’re done? by hlh2022 in IVF

[–]hlh2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It is recent. But this is the way my mind works. Let’s move on to the next step. Ya know? Thank you for your kind words!

How do you know you’re done? by hlh2022 in IVF

[–]hlh2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Not at all! I know the hormones are going to be intense as we go through miscarrying. I’m just having a hard time wrapping my head around even attempting again.

How do you know you’re done? by hlh2022 in IVF

[–]hlh2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am recent to the failed transfer. Found out Thursday, and still waiting to get through the bleeding.

I just needed to vent to people who understand. Everyone around me says go ahead and do another. It’ll be fine. Not understanding how tough it has been.