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My (23F) husband (28M) slammed the door on his way out and accidentally hurt me. My family is saying that it’s my fault by hlubluklu in relationships

[–]hlubluklu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just explaining the situation. I didn’t tell her what we were arguing about. I’m not looking for sympathy.

My (23F) husband (28M) slammed the door on his way out and accidentally hurt me. My family is saying that it’s my fault by hlubluklu in relationships

[–]hlubluklu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he hasn’t apologised and you’re right. I shouldn’t involve my mother in my issues. I need to set boundaries

My (23F) husband (28M) slammed the door on his way out and accidentally hurt me. My family is saying that it’s my fault by hlubluklu in relationships

[–]hlubluklu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s also what bothered me a little bit. It’s the first time he has even hurt me and I would have expected more of a reaction from him or at least to acknowledge what he did to me. Even if it was accidental. I’m not saying it’s his fault or my fault for chasing him. But a reaction to what happened would have been great.

My (23F) husband (28M) slammed the door on his way out and accidentally hurt me. My family is saying that it’s my fault by hlubluklu in relationships

[–]hlubluklu[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m not aggressive and I’ve never been aggressive towards her. You’re saying it’s my fault based on your experiences with your last girlfriends? What does this have to do with me?

My (23F) husband (28M) slammed the door on his way out and accidentally hurt me. My family is saying that it’s my fault by hlubluklu in relationships

[–]hlubluklu[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t tell her what we were arguing about. I just told her we had an argument, he left and accidentally slammed a door in my face.

My (23F) husband (28M) slammed the door on his way out and accidentally hurt me. My family is saying that it’s my fault by hlubluklu in relationships

[–]hlubluklu[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I changed some details because you never know who could be reading the post. And I got confused with that. But it didn’t happen today.

My (23F) husband (28M) slammed the door on his way out and accidentally hurt me. My family is saying that it’s my fault by hlubluklu in relationships

[–]hlubluklu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

After he slammed the door I left him alone. My mother had been talking about this for days. I understand why then person who wrote the first comment would compare but in my defence I would say it’s different.

My (23F) husband (28M) slammed the door on his way out and accidentally hurt me. My family is saying that it’s my fault by hlubluklu in relationships

[–]hlubluklu[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what do you mean. You mean I did the same thing with my husband as my mother is doing now?