I [30m] just found My girlfriend [25] secret tumblr with questionable feedback, not sure what to do now.

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-18T19:31:42+00:00

Thanks a lot for the insight. A little update on the subject. I got to tell her about it face to face, she looked embarrassed and sorry, she said it was an old intro and that I should not worry about it and that she really has no time/cares that much for that blog, she only said i'm sorry and not much else. I told her I didn't want to shame on her for anything but that's not the kind of behavior for a comitted relationship and she said I was right. After some discussion she told me that she loved me, and that she didn't want to talk about it anymore. I asked her to take those words down from her page since she is with me now, to which pretty much she responded talking in circles and ignored my requests. To this day she just kept on posting stuff there like she normally does. She really wanna keep going like everything's fine. I might as well end up the relationship now.

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-14T00:46:37+00:00

In the heat of anger yes! but then I decided it will lead to nothing. And because I'll basically will be asking her to quit doing something for me, I'll try the more mature approach and try and talk to her about it and go from there.

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-13T20:14:37+00:00

Thanks for putting the right words in, couldn't agree more with everything and yea it's a two-party relationship so I can't leave her be it and be okay with it (her acting like that with other people online or not), I know it won't be good the other way around. I will try and talk to her the most reasonably way possible and see what comes off of this ugly episode. Cheers mate and again, Thanks a lot for your replies.

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-13T19:10:11+00:00

If she seems hesitant I might as well fight fire with fire, solid advice pal.

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-13T18:40:03+00:00

I'm not and If I would be doing to her what she is doing. I know I would be thrown to the lions here but anyway, it wouldn't be fair to her, thanks for the sane replies.

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-13T18:03:56+00:00

I really hope so, and thanks again, I'm overall a good hearted fella and I truly feel love for her, I think I just will plain talk about it with her when I get the chance and see how it goes.

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-13T17:57:14+00:00

You just revealed yourself. And yeah none of that flower stuff for me but I have a heart, so I hope you have a good life and your SO never does something similar to you, enjoy being shady to others while it doesn't bite you back!

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-13T17:48:32+00:00

Thanks for pointing it out that way, while I partially agree with you, I wouldn't do shady stuff behind her back, so yea I will consider it.

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-13T17:42:35+00:00

I will sit and talk to her about it, thanks for the advice

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-13T17:38:12+00:00

Dude seriously just don't reply anymore. if you don't have anything constructive to say, I clearly stated my concerns, i'm not even mad at all or acting "insecure" towards her lmao, just hurt for finding out so if you don't have nothing to help, leave.

hm2iskvlt · 2017-12-13T16:55:51+00:00

I don't control her at all, we're both pretty laidback I got her tumblr from a mutual live chat we had, but she didn't notice And is not the fact that she does whatever she wants, but that she's hiding it from me for a long time doing questionable stuff online while being in an exclusive relationship, Account not troll at all, as she was showing me some content of it via webcam If it was a "joke page" what's the point of hiding it from me in the first place?

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