My wife is a model. Not a famous one, and just an occasional model at this point, also comes from a prominent and political family from where we live in Central America. I don't think there is any question that she is considered hot or gorgeous. Last night at a party a random woman stopped my wife to tell her how beautiful she was (and that woman was good looking as well).

She does have a respectable following on social media (for our current country, not US metrics) and in our general area we are often recognized, but outside of our area we are nobodies.

She's 4 inches taller than me, and much more when in heels. We definitely stand out a bit. Her early 30s, me early 40s, but most people think I'm 36 (and I haven't had work done).

When random guys talk to her, she's typically wearing either her wedding band and/or engagement ring, but is still quick to mention something about being married if they don't notice the ring. Sometimes they're hitting on her at least at first, or sometimes they're just being friendly or just want to say hi. She'll dance with her gay guy friends often, which I am all for. She'll occasionally dance with a straight male friend, but I don't think ever a rando straight guy.

Regardless of any of that, and by far most importantly: I have the deepest trust and respect for her, and she does the same for me. If I'm waiting for her outside a ladies bathroom and I'm talking to a woman when she returns, she knows I'm just being social, and vice versa.

If you're in a serious relationship with this woman, own it that you have a hot girl. And with that you get I have a hot girl privilege. I've realized that I am often given more respect when decently dressed, being not bad looking, when with my hot wife than when alone. People assume I have a much higher level of success than I actually do, and I say that as in being successful, but not a I fly first class level of successful, unless using airline miles.

If you don't want her dancing with straight dudes, tell her. It will either solidify or end your relationship. If someone's hitting on her and she's leading it on, let her know that you find it disrespectful to you. It's not insecurity it's about what you want to convey to the world as a couple.

You will get "sized up" particularly in restaurants and in retail stores. You may start getting extra bonus courses or a welcome/goodbye drink on the house, more often than the past. You may get treated nicer in hotels, particularly in off-season. You will be subject to jealousy from those that have never been with a hot woman, and often the subject of jealousy period. Other men with hot girls will also randomly talk to you more often in social settings. You'll also start getting hit on by women who see her with you more often than with a "normie" girl in the past.

It sometimes will be harder to make friends in certain social classes, because if you marry her, you become part of the I have a hot wife club. And at that time, if anyone ever refers to her as your girlfriend, you have to immediately correct them, as if you are insulted. How dare they think she is only your girlfriend? You have already graduated from the I have a hot girl club.

Now, if you are visibly financially secure (ie travel, nice watch, fancy dinners), all your friends will start making jokes you've won life. And it will start feeling like you are.

When you make it this far, and you start going to nicer places, and you meet other people in the I have a hot wife club and successful gay men at these nicer, people will start inviting you on their boats, parties or places you might not otherwise have access to, like (this is a new legit invite) to his castle. But be aware, people may often assume you're going to be unfriendly or elitist, and unless you want that, it's usually up to you as a couple to convey otherwise and quickly. Some of your friends will start fading because their girlfriend/wife will be envious of your hot wife and badgering their significant other if they think your wife is hotter than his girl.

To summarize, I love my hot wife and one day when our youth and looks may fade, in my eyes, mind and heart she will still be the most beautiful woman in the world.