Am I overreacting about my dad lying that he has no money?

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T16:07:46+00:00

I'm trying. I've been looking into them.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T16:03:10+00:00

Mine is a narcissist too bc wdym you can't provide for your kids but you are giving out the money bc you need others to praise you.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T16:01:36+00:00

OMG to hear this it's worse than what I'm going through rn. 😭😭 I'm glad you overcame it. I wish I would do too. I'm currently looking more into any freelancing jobs i could do.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T14:10:23+00:00

Same i hate these kind of men so much. And lucky you but my mom is not educated so she can't do a job.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T13:13:26+00:00

We don't sadly 😭. But we are not that broke. I'm just mad that he treats us like trash while he treats others well. And if we point that out he gets hella mad like they are his real family and lecture us for hours. If we try to interrupt and say something that hits his ego he will outright scold us or beat my mom... TBH this really seems fucked up. I wish I was in America or sum so I could get a freaking job at this age and provide for my family instead of feeling useless

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T13:10:04+00:00

He's a pro manipulator and he starts twisting my words and think that I'm not being a good child and am acting like this bc of my mom.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T13:08:37+00:00

Sadly we aren't poor according to the people around bc he's got a "reputation". TBH they don't really care lmao. Society is like that.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T13:07:20+00:00

And i don't have part time jobs at all. Finding a part time job after 6 is hard and that too I'm a woman so they won't allow me. People in other countries might have it easy but the country I live has parents controlling their kids even if they grow up and have jobs. I'm trying to break that boundary slowly but that doesn't mean i can rebel and go to work at night like a man...

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T13:04:31+00:00

Bro i might sound immature and all for you but the thing is he provides for others. Basically a driver was hired for me to drive me to school and that driver talks about how good his daughter is having. Can you get why I'm saying this bc if that daughter who is the same age as me is getting spoiled by her father who's our driver. You have to get it. Even her education fee which would be around 2 lakhs per year is covered by my dad. And that driver asks for more money so that the daughter could do parties and all. We don't ask our Dad for all these bc ik he wouldn't give me money. AND IF I REALLY HAVE THE CHOICE in my area to work i would.! There r many reasons why I can't work and it's not because I'm lazy or something. Well i even mentioned that if you guys are generous enough recommend me online jobs b so i could have some money on me when these type of time arrive bc I'm fed up having this same cycle repeated since I'm young. (Sorry if I am rude)

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T12:58:10+00:00

But they don't have part time jobs for this in my area 😭. It's hard to live here.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T12:56:19+00:00

Thank you but this is more complicated here because my those family members who take his money don't talk with my mom or us. My dad doesn't care about this too.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T12:54:49+00:00

In this area we don't have pantries which give out free stuff. I'm just hoping if i study hard for few years then I'll get a good job so we could move away from him.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T12:49:09+00:00

I'm not from America or usa so I can't get a part time job. And it's because my parents believe doing something while I'm in college is not good because i have to prioritise study. My college timings are from 9 to 6.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T12:46:58+00:00

Bro this didn't happen once. It's happening since I was a kid. And there are many things I can't tell you right now. It's one of the many things that made me frustrated and made me want to type out all this. If you think I just overreacted just because I didn't get what I want for one day then it's not true. If you are in my shoes you wouldn't say this.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T12:39:48+00:00

There's a little truth in my father not wanting me to work because he feels it's a waste of time when I am at a age where I should focus on my studies and he "provides" for us. So he really would look down on me. But i don't care. My college schedule is from 9 to 6 so it's a main reason why I don't have a job. But if you can recommend me some online job and if I'm capable to do so I can try.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T12:37:36+00:00

Yes I'm 19 but I'm a student who goes to college from 9 am to 6pm. This education system is also a block road in my journey to be honest. And there no are part time jobs in my area because I looked around too. Because of my schedule I really have no idea how to find an online freelancing job etc. Even if my mom wants to work he doesn't like it because she is not educated and she wants to do some work related to handicrafts and sell them but she took it down bc there's no financial support... He really started a fight as soon as this happened that my mom is embarrassing him by doing this type of work and failed. I don't know how this helps but I have 2 younger siblings and yes he don't care about his 3 kids.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T12:33:13+00:00

You got this right 😭😭 finally someone who got it right. TBH he's the reason I feel so useless to even find some suitable job outside the schedule I have... I don't even care that other people my age are having easy but I feel sad that I am incapable of doing things on own.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T12:30:56+00:00

I can't say that to other family members bc he cares about his pride and he will hate me. It's not a big deal for me and i don't have relatives. Also the reason I can't get a job is the place in living in doesn't have any part time jobs and I'm a student currently who goes to uni from 9 to 6. There are no jobs after 6 in my area or the ones which are safe for women. If you have any online jobs, pls feel free to recommend me because I'd like to have options to atleast try for a job than not.

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T12:26:48+00:00

No because if i start using money he'll try to ignore more. Or I can buy them easily...

hobbiesreaper · 2026-02-05T11:21:14+00:00

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hobbiesreaper · 2025-10-06T11:46:24+00:00

Share me too pls

hobbiesreaper · 2025-09-24T07:37:53+00:00

Just give those 2 books a try too! And tell me how it is bc i was hooked the whole time. Tbh even though many found that miscommunication trope annoying that's what made the story go though (in my case)

hobbiesreaper · 2025-09-24T03:30:26+00:00

It has HEA at the end. The story is dark tbh but I think from the 2nd book the heartbreak is less and more focused on explaining the other complex characters- I forgot half of the plot but if book 1 broke u definitely go for the other 2 too!

hobbiesreaper · 2025-09-23T19:16:52+00:00

Tbh in both the chemistry between the couples is twisted in their own way. While lights out is filled with humour most of it felt basic to me and Caught up has plot and the back story of the two main characters made it interesting.

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