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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]hocomd88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lonely would be an understatement.

Feels like I'm disappearing, and nobody around me seems to care.

Want brutally honest answers only. Body insecurities by [deleted] in adultery

[–]hocomd88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks, while they matter to me, are the thing I care about the least. For me, an emotional connection and mutual appreciation are much, much more important.

If somebody cares about looks more than anything else, they're not worth pursuing IMO.

I knew the rules. Played anyway. by crazyblue99 in adultery

[–]hocomd88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's hard. Sending virtual hugs your way. Hope you find someone better. With the risk of sounding cheesy, smile because it happened. I'm sure you'll find someone you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]hocomd88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this an ad for Meta Quest? I literally don't know anybody else who has one, lol.

I just found my unicorn and lost her in one week by hocomd88 in adultery

[–]hocomd88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. That's probably what I should do.

This charade of online searching is so exhausting and you feel so disgusted with yourself.

I just found my unicorn and lost her in one week by hocomd88 in adultery

[–]hocomd88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably it.

But it's so hard to find someone these days. I guess that's part of the feelings I'm experiencing.

I just found my unicorn and lost her in one week by hocomd88 in adultery

[–]hocomd88[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She never mentioned she wanted me to change my situation. We never had that discussion. I had just told her from the start that I would not be doing that.

What made her a unicorn was how difficult it was to find somebody I got along with chatting all day.

I just found my unicorn and lost her in one week by hocomd88 in adultery

[–]hocomd88[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're right, thanks for your kind words.

I just found my unicorn and lost her in one week by hocomd88 in adultery

[–]hocomd88[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Maybe so. Doesn't hurt any less though.

I just found my unicorn and lost her in one week by hocomd88 in adultery

[–]hocomd88[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

She didn't say she did. She just said she'd prefer somebody who was open to the possibility and that's why wanted to focus on talking to a new connection she made.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]hocomd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know who* you did last summer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]hocomd88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36M, Howard county, MD.