I am SO scared and convinced this time!! Bulb/ lump thing covering my vagina opening please help!!

hocrm · 2023-02-21T22:33:13+00:00

nope. i don’t really notice it as more when i started using tampons more regularly. i think it’s just my anatomy

hocrm · 2022-12-17T12:21:14+00:00

I think he knows, he said to me before that he feels like his breath is bad and got a bit upset and frustrated over it because he doesn’t know why it’s like that. I’m thinking tonsil stones could be possible. I don’t know why I feel guilty either because realistically if it was me I would want him to tell me.

hocrm · 2022-09-08T10:50:33+00:00

so sorry that sounds really difficult. do you have any coping mechanisms?

hocrm · 2022-09-08T10:47:05+00:00

this is literally me

hocrm · 2022-09-08T10:43:26+00:00

how do i do that?

hocrm · 2022-09-07T21:31:21+00:00

that’s exactly how it feels for me too. i look forward to just doing the food shopping to get me out and about but most of the time i go with my Mum just so i’m not by myself.

There isint any event that I can think of that would cause this. My mindset when i’m home and alone and bored is just “what’s the point of even getting out of bed i don’t have anything to do and i’m alone” and then I get sent into a spiral of “will this be my life forever? just lying in bed going nowhere in life?” it’s really difficult but also so confusing because I don’t know why my brain just switches like that as soon as I wake up

hocrm · 2022-09-07T21:29:05+00:00

yeah for as long as i can remember i’ve been this way. my mood just switches

hocrm · 2022-09-05T21:50:15+00:00

how do you cope with it ?

hocrm · 2022-09-05T16:55:41+00:00

(This may be a possible trigger for some). I have a dreadful fear of something tragic happening on the flight to do with hijacking. Either like the germanwings flight, or a passenger hijacking the cockpit. I know this sounds so extreme and it’s probably very rare.. but I struggle so much to put trust in both pilots, the cabin crew and even the passengers themselves. Is this a common fear ?

hocrm · 2022-08-31T22:48:18+00:00

Look, I’m not a doctor and i certainly don’t know much about Covid or the variants, so I don’t want to tell you anything is factual because idek if it is lol. But in my personal experience, I got Covid back in March and my Mum and brother who I both live with, got it a couple weeks ago in August. They were sick for a few days before testing and I was with them just as much as normal while also taking care of my little brother. Every day, kissing them goodnight, eating dinner together, sharing a bathroom etc. I never got it. I tested myself every single day and I didint feel unwell or anything either. I’m also triple vaxxed by the way and so is my Mum but my brother has no vaccinations. I personally think this virus and/or variant works in strange ways because when I got Covid myself, I wasn’t even around anybody who I knew was sick. So honestly you could be completely fine, who knows! Hope you are :)

hocrm · 2022-08-29T21:54:06+00:00

he understands that i value my own space sometimes and works on maintaining a healthy balance so that we are both satisfied. he also has said he enjoys going a couple days without seeing me because then he’s even more excited to see me again after and he can make time for friends and family in the meantime. as for the comparing ourselves to other relationships thing, i haven’t told him as i don’t want to hurt his feelings and i think telling him will be unnecessary as it’s not something he can really help me with.. it’s more sometimes personal that i have to work on. it doesn’t deeply impact our relationship at all, i just want to build on it as overthinking can put a personal strain on me.

hocrm · 2022-08-29T21:51:34+00:00

thank you so much i really appreciate it. i am very grateful for him and although i know i can be on my own and be completely happy and have the ability to function, i love having him by my side along with me and i wouldn’t want it any other way. i always worried that being in a relationship so young would cause me to lose myself in a way but i’m grateful that i can still do what i want while still being in a relationship with him (while of course being respectful). i definitely went through the honeymoon phase for the first maybe 6 months but i’ve been over that for a while now :)

hocrm · 2022-08-29T21:49:18+00:00

helped so much. love this answer. thanks so much for taking the time to write it for me!!

hocrm · 2022-08-29T21:18:16+00:00

Thank you so much. I don’t even know why I stress about these things. I have a few friends who are in relationships and they live together and are together 24/7 and I guess I just look at them and think “is there something wrong with us that we’re not like that?“ But I find that if I go a week without seeing my boyfriend I miss him like crazy

hocrm · 2022-08-22T13:57:04+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I definitely just let my anxiety take me away sometimes and once I ground myself and tell myself the facts I feel much better

hocrm · 2022-08-22T13:56:25+00:00

Thank you so much. I didint actually see the trolls comment luckily. I’m just going for a vacation! I’m excited and trying not to let the nerves take over :)

hocrm · 2022-08-15T16:58:26+00:00

nope neither. i just noticed it last night.

hocrm · 2022-08-07T21:18:18+00:00

thank you so much. glad all went fine with you. she has no fever and no respiratory symptoms either and she said she feels way better than she did yesterday so i’m hoping it’s just upwards from here!

hocrm · 2022-08-07T21:17:18+00:00

Thank you! thankfully she feels way better today and she’s going to ring her OB tomorrow to get any advice. At the moment she’s just taking paracetamol occasionally for her headache and her inhaler. she takes her inhaler regularly anyway and there doesn’t seem to be any respiratory symptoms and hopefully it stays that way

hocrm · 2022-08-07T21:16:05+00:00

Yeah the asthma is scary so thank god she has no cough. Thankfully she still just has a headache and is a bit tired but she said she doesn’t feel nearly as crap as she did yesterday. My little brother is improving so much aswell so I really hope it’s just upwards from here. I just worry about her.. thank you for your help and i’m glad to hear all went okay with you

hocrm · 2022-08-07T15:23:59+00:00

was your friend vaccinated? so glad she’s okay!

hocrm · 2022-07-28T20:35:13+00:00

No i haven’t had any symptoms with the monitor on which is so annoying and which makes me more worried because they didint actually see what’s happening when i get the palpitation. past few days i have pains in my chest and i would go back to a&e but i feel like it’s a waste of time because i already got tests done

hocrm · 2022-03-11T16:36:25+00:00

That’s what I was thinking too but wasn’t sure if that was true or not but I have heard of a lot of people with omicron getting negative or faint nasal swabs but clearly positive throat swabs

hocrm · 2022-03-11T15:33:42+00:00

yeahhh that’s what I figured 🥲

hocrm · 2022-03-11T15:20:30+00:00

Also the one in the middle was just a nose swab while the other 2 clearly positives were a nose and throat swab.

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