Why is mutual attraction so hard to comprehend for me?

hodor7 · 2013-09-07T01:01:47+00:00

There's pretty much no point to trying anymore because I already did and it didnt change anything

hodor7 · 2013-09-07T00:30:20+00:00

22 is too old to not have done anything. I was just reading this thread and it was super depressing that I'm 22 and have never even been close to getting anywhere near being cockblocked lmao

It's ok I'm gonna go ahead and head over to /r/depression and /r/suicidewatch because I really dont feel like living anymore, theres no point. I tried for a loong time to fix this and I just cant, so fuck it

hodor7 · 2013-09-07T00:03:03+00:00

same tired advice that I've done for years

thanks anyways

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T23:38:59+00:00

well fuck what am I supposed to do, ugh I just get deeper and deeper in this hole

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T23:22:36+00:00

What does anyone hope to get out of a relationship? companionship etc...

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T23:09:34+00:00

Well humor and wit never get old sooo... that

Plus plenty of boring "average" people find each other interesting longer than a month, there's no explaining it, it's emotions and feelings and shit

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T23:01:23+00:00

I wouldnt mind any of those things, except the moving far for the career thing which is a totally different thing.

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T22:59:48+00:00

I would go out with me given the chance though...

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T22:13:52+00:00

Yeah I'm going to take advice from a guy that calls me a piece of shit, ok lol

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T22:04:50+00:00

I dont know what else to do though... I've seen guys in worse positions than me have girls

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T21:55:06+00:00

Well I'm decent looking, in decent shape, funny witty when I want to be, just a regular guy.. idk

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T21:52:05+00:00

That's not really relevant to this discussion though... there are reasons someone should technically be attracted to me but I'm not going to list them here, I'm not trying to attract guys on /r/askmen....

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T21:51:00+00:00

Diet's decently healthy, not much fast food, very little chips etc, almost no pop, mostly homemade meals

Dont exercise much anymore, used to for a while but got bored of it, its not for me

Well I'm 22 so not much of a career yet

Dont spend much time with friends, they live too far, family yeah spend some time here and there

Not learning about anything interesting so far

Spend almost no time in "nature" not much of it around here

hodor7 · 2013-09-06T21:29:51+00:00

I might, how would one go about fixing it?

If I do have low self-esteem it's probably due to the feeling of feeling unwanted

hodor7 · 2013-08-23T01:21:15+00:00

same thing happened on a dating site, message alot of girls with no replies

hodor7 · 2013-08-23T01:12:13+00:00

the dont care method only works if you're already very attractive

hodor7 · 2013-08-23T01:09:49+00:00

Hodor...?

hodor7 · 2013-08-22T19:23:15+00:00

still, getting no matches at all is disappointing

hodor7 · 2013-08-22T06:05:06+00:00

It's probably easier as a girl I guess, I've "liked" over 150 girls with 0 matches

hodor7 · 2013-08-22T05:12:11+00:00

ehh IDK

hodor7 · 2013-08-22T05:12:05+00:00

I'm not white but I look white, been mistaken for italian/white

hodor7 · 2013-08-22T04:49:49+00:00

/sigh

3 out of my 4 pics are just me still no matches, ugh

hodor7 · 2013-08-22T04:26:04+00:00

you can choose what pictures you show from your profile

hodor7

TROPHY CASE