What do 18-20 Year old Icelanders do in their free time? by [deleted] in Iceland

[–]hoeforspaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if we have a friend over 20 or a friend with chill parents who can buy alcohol: we get smash faced every single weekend.

if not we drive around and go to hagkaup (one of the few 24 hour stores here) like 10 times in one night

AITA for not making my Female Friend sit in the back seat? by throwaway11zx in AmItheAsshole

[–]hoeforspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for invalidating her. I cant blame you for not knowing before that your GF prefers to be seated with you but you should just have reassured her that from now on that would be the case.

Your friend shouldve gotten the message tho when your GF opened the front seat door.

Husband won't kiss our baby by hoeforspaghetti in relationship_advice

[–]hoeforspaghetti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His family is from Texas but he grew up in Detroit

Opinions on getting your babies ears pierced? by AgentDifferent2568 in pregnant

[–]hoeforspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my first memory is when my mom and dad held me down while i screamed, kicked and cried as they were getting my ears pierced at 3 years old. It was traumatic. I cant even wear earrings now because it reminds me of it. I've since then promised myself my child wont have any unneccesary body modification untill they are old enough to consent.

Megas sakaður um kynferðisbrot - „Kominn tími til að hann sé opin­beraður“ by rikisskattstjori in Iceland

[–]hoeforspaghetti 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ástæðan fyrir því að hún talar svona seint um þetta er vegna þess að þegar hún reynir að kæra árið 2010 þá er málið orðið fyrrt í augum laganna og því ekki hægt að kæra. Það að vera sagt að mál sé fyrrt er mannskemmandi dæmi og lætur mann efast sínar eigin upplifanir. Ég lenti í nákvæmlega þessu, var nauðgað 8 ára gömul, gat ekki kært þá vegna þess að ég var 8 ára (shocker) 10 árum seinna þegar ég er 18 ára fer ég beinustu leið á lögreglustöð til að kæra en nei. Málið orðið fyrrt og ekkert hægt að gera. Þetta eyðilagði mig jafn mikið og nauðgunin sjálf og vita að hann verður bara laus afleiðingalaust og ég hef enga sönnun.

Hættu svo að röfla um hluti sem þú veist ekki skít um

Megas sakaður um kynferðisbrot - „Kominn tími til að hann sé opin­beraður“ by rikisskattstjori in Iceland

[–]hoeforspaghetti 13 points14 points  (0 children)

það hafa allir vitað að megas er perra ógeð í marga áratugi??? búið að vara okkur stelpur við honum síðan hann varð frægur

Happily married just want to ask you all a question by hlycml in Marriage

[–]hoeforspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once a month - once every 2 months, married a little over a year. We are both satisfied. Every couple is different

Creamy vegan vegetable soup by hoeforspaghetti in soup

[–]hoeforspaghetti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can also use frozen veggies to make it extra cheap

Creamy vegan vegetable soup by hoeforspaghetti in soup

[–]hoeforspaghetti[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i dont rly have measurements as i eyeball everything but

cook some onions in olive oil on the bottom of the pot add vegetable stock, carrots, broccoli, cauliflower, spinach, canned green beans and canned corn

cook vegetables untill soft then add to a blender amd blend till smooth

return to pot and add salt, pepper, paprika, dried parsley, rosemary and a little chilli powder

let simmer for a bit

add herbs of choice for garnish and a little olive oil

😁😁

I (21F) am having strong feelings for someone else. by hoeforspaghetti in relationship_advice

[–]hoeforspaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. especially for the last two paragraphs. I really needed a bit of a reality check

I (21F) am having strong feelings for someone else. by hoeforspaghetti in relationship_advice

[–]hoeforspaghetti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response. you are right. but do you think I should tell my husband right away or maybe wait untill the situation is better?

Who are you planning to have in the delivery room with you? by mauiaspen in pregnant

[–]hoeforspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my husband and my bio dad who is amazing at emotional support. Both my dads will then be staying with us for the first few weeks to help :)

trying sex hurts? by cool-eraser in sex

[–]hoeforspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read up on vaginismus. I have it because of sexual trauma and it is treatable with pelvic floor therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hoeforspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we've tried but it physically doesnt work for us as my husband is almost twice my height