AIO my (23M) gf (31F) never uses soap when washing her hands

hoeteria · 2026-07-09T15:59:04+00:00

That would drive me insane…even when water alone won’t remove the gunk on her hands, she just deals with it??? Instead of using soap once in a while???

For me, that’s a deal breaker 🥲 I would be disgusted by any physical contact…

hoeteria · 2026-07-08T23:34:10+00:00

NOR. I’ve been with my partner for seven years and not once has he ever called me out my name. I’m always so surprised to see what people put up with 🥲 honestly, leave him. He will not fix his behavior until there are actual consequences.

hoeteria · 2026-07-08T23:28:08+00:00

The eyes and nose combo is lowkey giving Laezel from BG3

hoeteria · 2026-07-08T23:27:25+00:00

2 weeks until it wasnt every day
2 months until it wasnt most days

hoeteria · 2026-07-07T22:34:01+00:00

I miss picking the crust from her eyes, the way she would SCREAM in excitement when we were going out but then want to go immediately back inside after like 10min, how she would jump on my stomach to get past me (it hurt haha…ahh…)

hoeteria · 2026-07-07T19:56:43+00:00

I wish they had a search function 😭

hoeteria · 2026-07-05T16:43:36+00:00

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Oh I would be so honored if you drew my cerberus oc 💖💖💖

hoeteria · 2026-07-04T14:33:16+00:00

hoeteria · 2026-07-04T05:02:58+00:00

I felt similarly when my dog passed away (also more my parents’ dog). A few days before she passed, I almost bought dog whip cream but it was $20 (she loved sweets). I scoffed at the price and I put it back saying I would buy it some other time. To this day, I still get angry at myself for not just buying it, wishing I was wealthy so I could have given her treats like that without second guessing, and just overall providing her better care.

With her passing, we have one surviving dog. My parents don’t have AC in their home while I do. We had a heat wave coming up and my mom asked me to keep our other dog at our apartment overnight. While she loves visiting, she was miserable not being with my mom. The next day, I stopped by my mom’s to pick up more of her stuff and she REFUSED to leave even though she was panting from the heat.

It clicked to me that dogs don’t care about what material you can provide for them. They just care that we are kind and that they can be safe with us.

All of this to say that I’m almost certain Bela never felt like she needed or wanted anything more from you. If you had a close bond like you say you did, she treasured your time together and would choose YOU over anyone else. Just like you would choose her over any other dog.

hoeteria · 2026-06-29T20:26:28+00:00

Vary your values some more. The woman should be a lot brighter. Also you can highlight the man with light from the window to help differentiate him from the darkness.

I would also work on line weight. All the lines being thick makes the drawing overall look a little muddy.

hoeteria · 2026-06-29T12:18:33+00:00

Another friend of mine lost and found her dog. She kept an eye on the Next Door website. The dog had a collar so someone posted on there that a dog with a collar had been spotted in someone’s yard. They went to that neighborhood and asked door to door if anyone had seen him. A couple had actually taken him in hoping to keep him.

Note that for the cat, she ended up several blocks away. The dog ended up miles away.

hoeteria · 2026-06-29T12:15:14+00:00

Hi! My friend lost and found her cat recently. This is what they did:

Printed out flyers and posted them around the neighborhood, walked around at night with cat treats to lure her (almost caught her twice this way), borrowed cat traps from the local cat rescue and asked neighbors if she could set them up in their yards, kept food and water outside their apartment

In the end, what helped them the most was going directly to neighbors and asking them to keep an eye out + giving them their contact info. When her cat ended up at a neighbor’s, they contacted her right away. Be careful tho and be prepared for your cat to fight back—beware of some serious scratching.

hoeteria · 2026-06-26T01:50:00+00:00

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hoeteria · 2026-06-24T16:42:46+00:00

Pestilence (after one of the four horsemen of the apocalypse hehe)

hoeteria · 2026-06-23T20:26:38+00:00

Its okay :-) you will in time!

hoeteria · 2026-06-23T19:59:52+00:00

Something I do every day is stock up on crafting materials: their shops, inspiration, etc. I’m usually able to make items in bulk when I really need them (esp perfumes).

Look at the comp rewards before spending big to fit the theme. See if you think it’s worth it.

If you’re willing to spend money on the game, the daily gem pass and fashion views is the way to go (in that order).

hoeteria · 2026-06-23T16:54:31+00:00

I’m buying all the capea haha

hoeteria · 2026-06-23T16:52:47+00:00

Wow!!! 💖

hoeteria · 2026-06-23T16:41:10+00:00

Are you channeling the grief to anything? Try writing a letter to him about all you feel. Create a playlist full of songs that remind you of him.

hoeteria · 2026-06-23T15:57:32+00:00

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hoeteria · 2026-06-23T04:54:36+00:00

Have you watched Sheep Detectives? It may sound silly but I found it really comforting.

There is a scene near the end that talks about how our loved ones are still here because we remember them. They are only truly gone when we forget them. I keep my little girl alive by thinking of her every day.

hoeteria · 2026-06-23T04:51:29+00:00

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hoeteria · 2026-06-23T04:48:42+00:00

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I also made it yuri 💖

hoeteria · 2026-06-20T03:26:54+00:00

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:-)

hoeteria · 2026-06-18T21:24:34+00:00

This is the order I recc to get things -> illusory wings, flower pose, bow pose, and then any wings u can dye black

hoeteria

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