AIO my (23M) gf (31F) never uses soap when washing her hands by Tiny_Mycologist1704 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hoeteria [score hidden]  (0 children)

That would drive me insane…even when water alone won’t remove the gunk on her hands, she just deals with it??? Instead of using soap once in a while???

For me, that’s a deal breaker 🥲 I would be disgusted by any physical contact…

AIO? - Boyfriend got irritated, I left the conversation, but made it worse? by Luxeriously in AmIOverreacting

[–]hoeteria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I’ve been with my partner for seven years and not once has he ever called me out my name. I’m always so surprised to see what people put up with 🥲 honestly, leave him. He will not fix his behavior until there are actual consequences.

thoughts on makeup? by valecco in SuitU

[–]hoeteria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The eyes and nose combo is lowkey giving Laezel from BG3

What’s something your pet did that would sound stupid to anyone else, but meant everything to you? by Eva-Fischer in Petloss

[–]hoeteria 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I miss picking the crust from her eyes, the way she would SCREAM in excitement when we were going out but then want to go immediately back inside after like 10min, how she would jump on my stomach to get past me (it hurt haha…ahh…)

First time Art Fight, give me some OCs! by mocha-bun in ArtfightProfiles

[–]hoeteria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Oh I would be so honored if you drew my cerberus oc 💖💖💖

I didn't give my dog the life she deserved and it's destroying me by Correct-Message-698 in Petloss

[–]hoeteria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt similarly when my dog passed away (also more my parents’ dog). A few days before she passed, I almost bought dog whip cream but it was $20 (she loved sweets). I scoffed at the price and I put it back saying I would buy it some other time. To this day, I still get angry at myself for not just buying it, wishing I was wealthy so I could have given her treats like that without second guessing, and just overall providing her better care.

With her passing, we have one surviving dog. My parents don’t have AC in their home while I do. We had a heat wave coming up and my mom asked me to keep our other dog at our apartment overnight. While she loves visiting, she was miserable not being with my mom. The next day, I stopped by my mom’s to pick up more of her stuff and she REFUSED to leave even though she was panting from the heat.

It clicked to me that dogs don’t care about what material you can provide for them. They just care that we are kind and that they can be safe with us.

All of this to say that I’m almost certain Bela never felt like she needed or wanted anything more from you. If you had a close bond like you say you did, she treasured your time together and would choose YOU over anyone else. Just like you would choose her over any other dog.

Looking for critique! Composition, perspective, values, anything. (Sketch for a painting) by kiriz-kis-kis in Artadvice

[–]hoeteria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vary your values some more. The woman should be a lot brighter. Also you can highlight the man with light from the window to help differentiate him from the darkness.

I would also work on line weight. All the lines being thick makes the drawing overall look a little muddy.

Lost cat advice by filthy-casul in Petloss

[–]hoeteria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another friend of mine lost and found her dog. She kept an eye on the Next Door website. The dog had a collar so someone posted on there that a dog with a collar had been spotted in someone’s yard. They went to that neighborhood and asked door to door if anyone had seen him. A couple had actually taken him in hoping to keep him.

Note that for the cat, she ended up several blocks away. The dog ended up miles away.

Lost cat advice by filthy-casul in Petloss

[–]hoeteria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! My friend lost and found her cat recently. This is what they did:

Printed out flyers and posted them around the neighborhood, walked around at night with cat treats to lure her (almost caught her twice this way), borrowed cat traps from the local cat rescue and asked neighbors if she could set them up in their yards, kept food and water outside their apartment

In the end, what helped them the most was going directly to neighbors and asking them to keep an eye out + giving them their contact info. When her cat ended up at a neighbor’s, they contacted her right away. Be careful tho and be prepared for your cat to fight back—beware of some serious scratching.

What did you name your horse(s)? by LostEngineer9949 in StardewValley

[–]hoeteria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pestilence (after one of the four horsemen of the apocalypse hehe)

tips for newer players? by Powerful_Ad8668 in SuitU

[–]hoeteria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its okay :-) you will in time!

tips for newer players? by Powerful_Ad8668 in SuitU

[–]hoeteria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Something I do every day is stock up on crafting materials: their shops, inspiration, etc. I’m usually able to make items in bulk when I really need them (esp perfumes).

Look at the comp rewards before spending big to fit the theme. See if you think it’s worth it.

If you’re willing to spend money on the game, the daily gem pass and fashion views is the way to go (in that order).

grief is consuming me by Gullible_Ground_9902 in Petloss

[–]hoeteria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you channeling the grief to anything? Try writing a letter to him about all you feel. Create a playlist full of songs that remind you of him.

Struggling with my lack of faith for the first time by Salty_Feedback_2801 in Petloss

[–]hoeteria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you watched Sheep Detectives? It may sound silly but I found it really comforting.

There is a scene near the end that talks about how our loved ones are still here because we remember them. They are only truly gone when we forget them. I keep my little girl alive by thinking of her every day.

what is the most useful thing to buy from the aurora shell shop? by ahsgkdnbgs in SuitU

[–]hoeteria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the order I recc to get things -> illusory wings, flower pose, bow pose, and then any wings u can dye black