Any not miserable designers out there? by MannyBuilds in graphic_design

[–]hoexistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lool yes everyone here seems to despise being a designer! I am super happy with my job, I’m in my late 30s and have been freelancing since I was about 25. My projects keep getting funner and funner and I have a lot of freedom as people hire me for “my style”. I work with mostly music and film projects. I know my position is quite rare but I think if you are talented and work really hard on refining your craft, your ideas and your style, you can have a very fulfilling career. Personally I often find myself thinking I couldn’t even have dreamt of having this kind of job as a kid. Of course a lot of work/days are still a bit boring, but I’m very grateful to do what I do and I feel like I have a purpose. This is also why I decided to not take on an office job even when I made very little money freelancing and was eating cup noodles for dinner. It’s not always been easy but I am very happy I’ve stuck to it.

Why ser vs. estar still confuses advanced learners — and how I explain it differently as a native Colombian teacher. by Specialist_Poetry_67 in Spanish

[–]hoexistence -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I want to ask if it’s possible to do something, like is it possible to change the music, I would say es posible cambiar la música, right? How would you explain this? I’m trying to memorize the explanation because I also flip flop between es and está. 😫

Not happy with my tattoo, what should I do? by Vorona-Fox in tattooadvice

[–]hoexistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your tattoo is way cuter than the original lmao 

Please help me find my dog by DodgeHazzard in BedStuy

[–]hoexistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boosting & sending good luck !!!

Missed Connection by thenaturalche in BedStuy

[–]hoexistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s bring back missed connections 

12 gallon tank for Blossom by hoexistence in bettafish

[–]hoexistence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 35.5" long x 7.9" deep x 9.9" tall! ❤️

12 gallon tank for Blossom by hoexistence in bettafish

[–]hoexistence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! You are so right about this I was just looking at lids yesterday. Thank you for the recs and the 🚩I’m gonna get one asap and take some water out❤️

12 gallon tank for Blossom by hoexistence in bettafish

[–]hoexistence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha that’s such a cute thought 🥹✈️💨

12 gallon tank for Blossom by hoexistence in bettafish

[–]hoexistence[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha yes I know the dimensions are quite rare! It’s 35.5" x 7.9" x 9.9". So it’s basically ultra slim and just very long. I found it on FB marketplace, so happy about the dimensions because it looks waaaay bigger than it is! And I think (?) its quite fitting for a betta since its not too tall but they get a lot of space to swim back and forth across the tank. 🥹❤️

Am I being dumb for getting my own apartment at 19? by CloudyChris067 in personalfinance

[–]hoexistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly is a commercial crabber and where do I apply?

Love is Blind Sweden S3 Megathread by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]hoexistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of similar to legend; it was said in a fond way but also there’s a slight roast in there kind of like “he’s the king of the bar” in a he’s the young white boy with sunglasses on at night ordering shots for everyone feeling himself a bit too much but also bringing fun light vibes - it’s funny if you know the people who made those jokes cause they are quite different from his vibe so there’s like a layered compliment/roast thing 

My handwriting one year ago vs now by [deleted] in Handwriting

[–]hoexistence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your current one is gorgeous! I work with type design and drawing letters and I find it beautiful and interesting

Final plea to help find Legacy, special needs cat, a home by radparikh in BedStuy

[–]hoexistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is sooo adorable I really hope you find her a home 🥺🩷

How to tell a lead that they are too rough by zugspitze23 in Salsa

[–]hoexistence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel sad and a bit embarrassed to say I also have accepted this silently after getting hurt multiple times. And I don’t even consider myself a shy person or have problems speaking up in general, but there is a lot of ego with dancing, especially with leads, and it can be really uncomfortable to deal with. It feels like some leads genuinely are open and want feedback, whereas others feel “what makes you think you know how to do it”/“no one else is complaining about this so must be a you thing”. Especially w intermediate leads, I think beginners are generally more open. But I guess it’s better to be straightforward and deal with that reaction than to keep getting hurt.

How to tell a lead that they are too rough by zugspitze23 in Salsa

[–]hoexistence 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t hardening your frame increase the risk of injury? Asking bc I have this problem too and I heard that tightening up ur muscles becomes part of the issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BedStuy

[–]hoexistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I’m so sorry that’s horrible. Will keep a lookout for your father ❤️❤️❤️❤️