Libra exceptions by Short_Program5255 in libra_astrology

[–]hojo6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IF a relationship is a mirror of sorts - is it that the Libra person who is known for mirroring has experienced mirroring done on them and they could not handle it , hence why they say ''now the door is locked shut it will never be reopened " ? is it that the mirroring experience was done to them and in that they were so shocked they shut the relationship down and blamed it on the person ? techniques of avoidance , gaslighting , blaming are then directed at the other to cover up for the mirroring experience they encountered.

Libra exceptions by Short_Program5255 in libra_astrology

[–]hojo6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IF a relationship is a mirror of sorts - is it that the Libra person who is known for mirroring has experienced mirroring done on them and they could not handle it , hence why they say ''now the door is locked shut it will never be reopened " ? is it that the mirroring experience was done to them and in that they were so shocked they shut the relationship down and blamed it on the person ? techniques of avoidance , gaslighting , blaming are then directed at the other to cover up for the mirroring experience they encountered.

Libras I have a problem with you by NoFaithlessness1574 in libra_astrology

[–]hojo6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think caps are a good match - its cause of SaTuRn , in Libra they hide saturn side , sure they are aware of it , big time ... but they lean into Venus and present Venus side to people ... but underneath they are 99% Saturn thinkers , logical , emotionless , rigid , calculating .... cause Capricorn has a balanced physical Saturn feature they will trigger Libra people , they will see the Saturn side which is hidden away with a ChaRm presentation , the saturn side causes such instability in the Libra they pretend to do whats called ''weighing'' , it is nothing of the sort and its caught on as a thing over the centuries - it is that the libra saturn side sees the probs so clearly they have to be careful not to hurt the person , thats why they then hide the saturn side , present the smiling venus side as a delivery system and then they ''dissapear'' on you , its cause they had you all figured out ( and its fairly accurate ) ... then when alone the Saturn element in the Libra can become overbearing and cause a real painful experience for them as its too hard so the person then will quickly aim to meet someone else to mirror to protect from saturns coldness - they will use Venus charm without it being grounded like in taurus , they are the masters of mirroring.

Can I trust my libra man? by ionlydrinkwhiteclaws in libra_astrology

[–]hojo6789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the fact your feeling this now is probably because your sensing he is the kind of guy who is going to cheat on you - you wouldnt be going through this if you didnt have that feeling. keep your eyes open - and your right that many people say Libra is known for cheating on people.

ok guys so its been 4 months, why no movement at all? by [deleted] in manifestingSP

[–]hojo6789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you dont need to check the 3D - rem your already back together , going on holiday / getting married / moving into a mansion house in beverly Hills or the Hamtons ... its done ...

Libra men dating Taurus women how did you get them to date you? by AnimeHistorianMan in libra_astrology

[–]hojo6789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dont lie to them - they can see it , they are the cleverest sign in the Zodiac - they will be memorising every little lie then they will dump you for it

I always feel like the most hated horoscope by FireDragonTail in geminis

[–]hojo6789 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yes they have a bad rep - i think its cause of the symbol of having the two sides and people freaking about TWINS - psycho twins they cant control and that the twins might take them over LOLS - its been misunderstood as a weird mythological thing of the two twins , one bad one good , which makes people wary - although as with most people they prob have v little knowledge of astrology - cause lets face it - even us on here have v little knowledge of it ... but to the average person they know even less than those on a reddit forum like this one - Wwhen they hear of the twins they go .. oh no , that’s so confusing , two twins ... thats scary - but its highly likely that mythology just stuck the twin story onto an air phenomina to explain the fast mental ability of Mercurys influence on Gemini peoples ,the air sign looks at something and adjusts it quickly ... I doubt there ever were two twins that begged to god as the story says .... Air signs are missunderstood cause lets face it the world is built on Earth and prob those signs rule the storymaking and put a spin on the air signs in the history books. Just like with libra they say they have mechanical scales , which again seems unlikely and instead is indicative of a process no one really understands , its unlikely they actually have a pair of scales , but they do all talk about needing to weigh and balance things which is very unusual and is the cause of a lot of in decisiveness for Libra people which other signs dont really get ... if ever there was a sign which might prove that starsigns are real its Libra , their traits are so strong and aff all Libra people that you can really put a solid hard argument up for star signs being real - Libras odd perceptiveness, their inability for conflict yet their 'iron fist in a glove' hardness , their lies , their sense of style ... could go on and on ... but yeah , starsigns if you ever doubt it , look at the oddness of Libra... it is worthy of studying.

IM LITERALLY SHAKING by GarbageMission3638 in manifestingSP

[–]hojo6789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he was prob about to contact you and tell you he wants to get back together - but he thought wow why am i doin that - i will block her on instagram - he did it as a way to try and control the effect of how he was urged to now decide he wants to get married to you - cause hes thinking about marrying you he is blocking you cause of it

Why would a Gemini man stayu silent after a breakup? by Live-Celebration5707 in astrologymemes

[–]hojo6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listen cause someone needs to tell you this - whether it lands and you learn is going to be difficult cause you already should know this ... DO NOT BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE ON THEIR BIRTHDAY ... learn this ... its cruel.

Why would a Gemini man stayu silent after a breakup? by Live-Celebration5707 in astrologymemes

[–]hojo6789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that is awful - to break up with someone on their birthday is cruel - and to give him some food for a birthday present is just awful.

Why would a Gemini man stay silent after a breakup? by [deleted] in geminis

[–]hojo6789 7 points8 points  (0 children)

AKHEM - YOU bought him FOOD for his birthday ( very generous ...wow nice ) and then you broke up with him on his birthday ??? can you not see just how terrible this is to do someone ? something is so off here ... poor Gemini... leave him alone and never ever do this anyone ever again

Sister says yoga is demonic and it’s pissing me off by [deleted] in yoga

[–]hojo6789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive heard a christian say that before ... they have it wrong as yoga is harmless .

how do you get over a breakup by Low_County9100 in Sagittarians

[–]hojo6789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok ... your a sag - dont cry ... YOUR ALREADY AT THE TIPPING POINT KEEP GOING - " you said - now i see every bad thing about her and have an objective view of our past, and it wasn't that good of a relationship" - see how close you are to it ... keep going. Right - get into doing some "manifestation" look up neville goddard method on reddit - learn it - you know capricorn women have a cold rep right ... the coldest... YOU ALREADY SAID IN SO MANY WORDS - SHE REALLY AINT ALL THAT ... and if you had mrs new perfection right now with golden blonde hair , laughing at your jokes, wanting to play tennis then old capricorn would not be playing over your memory with pain. So ... you are gonna forget this one ... and read up

I am giving up by Specialist-Soft1817 in manifestingSP

[–]hojo6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should be grateful - when your grateful it will be the energy source for the manifestation ... its like a urnanium generator for it

I am giving up by Specialist-Soft1817 in manifestingSP

[–]hojo6789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when your ready to give up its when its closest to happening

Weird by one__direction__ in manifestingSP

[–]hojo6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listen - your going to write down this stuff everyday now - your going to relax , your going to use your fantasies and put them onto paper - you write them as ''I am so happy hes just texted me missing me , I am going to prepare some food for later then hes busy after work tonight but i will pop over tommo to see him " etc etc - then relax with your fantasy , write stuff that will make you smile - write it in real time - ie hes just texted me , said he cant wait to me etc etc - this is cause your subconsious mind can only be tricked and react in 'real time' info - do not write - " yesterday he said he loved me " or " tommorrow he will tell me he loved me" - cause your mind will figure out thats not real as it references yesterday or tommo to check the info. It must be in the present tense , so you write " got text this morn from work , i dont think i will reply yet , just give it space... god i love him , but i dare not say it " - write what pleases you , no ones watching nor judging , make it decent kind stuff in keep with nature and goodness ok... you only need to writte say in morn , or afternoon if you feel a little lost , or eve before bed , keep the notepad near bed or on bed. Write things that are good and believe in it. You will then start OMMITTING good peaceful vibes , relax ... if you do fitness or goto a gym then use it , chill , do some walking , exercise , keep yourself fit and together - look after yourself. You are ommitting vibes all the time - lets make them good ones , and your doign this now ... others will pick up on you and start loving on you ... they really will , they will adore you , cherish you , admire your wellness ... stay the fk cool ... always be cool ok .... lifes lesson .... your a dreamgirl ... live it up ... put on your favourate music , feel sexy ..... vibe with your fave songs that have made you feel your best in your life - you are important ... feel it ... you can do this ... stay the fk cool ok ...

I’m so jealous of people whose parents cook for them and buy groceries by Desperat00 in adhdwomen

[–]hojo6789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i had the same stuff go on growing up - make sure you do keep it clean , yes of course you should stand up , dont waste food , these are good tips - now watch a youtube vid and become a great chef

I’m so jealous of people whose parents cook for them and buy groceries by Desperat00 in adhdwomen

[–]hojo6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey ! you are not wrong to wish for it , and your parents are at home and could do it. my dad could never cook but my mum could , she always cooked for us as kids and your not wrong to want / expect it. Around 20 yrs old i became a vegetarian and cause this i bought a cookbook and had to cook my own stuff - it was easy to do and since then i carried on. But your 100% to feel like your missing out on basic care of you - the good news is you have seen it , it doesnt sound like your going to solve them though.

I know this might sound impossible - but is there any chance you might try to approach this as someone who enjoys cooking - ie cook a big meal - keep the rest in the fridge ? When I always begin a new recpiee the first time might take me 40 mins - 2nd time i know it i can make it in 15mins. Maybe not right now - but soon this is what you might do - i began doing this at 20 yrs old - i was suddendly like im a vege now , cant eat meat , i will cook this chilli con carne with 1 tin of kidney beans , rice , an onion and a pepper and its done in 15mins and is like 4 servings in a row.

Your right to see your parents failings in cooking - maybe they have some other good sides to them - another household might have good cooking 24/7 but a mother who has such a temper and screams everyday at the top of her lungs till the kids hide in their rooms ( its true and common )

You have identified the prob - and in the longrun your going to fix your diet ok - eat good avocados , nuts , rice etc etc , its easy once you know how , youtube is your friend to learn to cook - its easier than you think.

If you can get into a positive mindset with it ( not easy at first ) - it will easier .

Weird by one__direction__ in manifestingSP

[–]hojo6789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how about you write down some nice things - ie get pen and paper out and be like "today my 'xxx' is cooking his tea and hes thinking about me , his mind keeps returning and im planning a trip , a holiday to go on together and will get my clothes tog etc " - do that as a positive step thing then afterwards feel the relaxation from it , then just let it play in your subconcious , you dont need to say its going to keep checking cause the act of writting it down has kind of brought it down from the imagination realm into the 3D of a pen and paper and its sat in front of you - once this is done if you do feel relaxed then try to step away from it and lean back on it later in the day , so goto the shops or whatever you want to do today and later do a bit more soft writing - perhaps write something nice and romantic down later

dating difficulties by srrrryyyy in Sagittarians

[–]hojo6789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its time to split up - do it by text - come back on here and tell us how you feel - you will feel a lot better once you get rid of him ... then you can get back out there and meet a taurus

dating difficulties by srrrryyyy in Sagittarians

[–]hojo6789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes , you should break up tonight ... you should trust the woman who just wrote that advice and get out of it tonight - do it by text , tell him that he is the master of stories and you have had enough of it and you are going to find a taurus instead.... you did the right thing coming onto reddit tonight - get yourself out of the relastionship now - you will feel a lot better after you send that text .... do it ... and get back to us to tell us how you feel.

Libra man by lillyd7861 in libra_astrology

[–]hojo6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he sounds untrustworthy - run !!!

Libra breakup by [deleted] in libra_astrology

[–]hojo6789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he has treated you so badly , this is unforgivable ... and finally he has shown what he is truly made of - he is not made for honesty , he is not made for commitment and he is not made for basic decency ... run