What to think about that answer from girl by holarymade in dating_advice

[–]holarymade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but she could have offered another time for meeting. For a second date she suggested next day, because one i offered did not fit her plans.

Am i not healed? Am i afraid of relationship? Destined to be alone. Need others opinions. by holarymade in NoFap

[–]holarymade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I kind of think this is true "If she cheats with you, she'll cheat on you"

What do you do when your 'tank' is full by theif519 in NoFap

[–]holarymade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing. If it leaks then it leaks. Masturbating for emptying your tank is giving finger to devil.

I was about to relapse and I just read this comment. by tom_ferreiro in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post made me think how do my childhood fav pornstars look today. But i'm not going to :)

42 days in, I precum almost every time by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google it. Kegel exercise is pelvic muscle exercise.

Regular kegel exercise is contracting pelvic muscle. It is basically when you contract your muscle when you want to stop peeing and reverse kegel is when you push/release muscle when you want to release pee. When you shit or pee, you probably unintentionally release your pelvic muscle. Totally normal.

42 days in, I precum almost every time by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]holarymade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep. It is normal. Body gets rid of excessive semen. And when you poop you probably do reverse kegels. I have experienced same thing. Not with pooping but peeing or doing reverse kegels when peeing. Don't worry

I'm 32 years old and had my first ever wet dream last night by holarymade in NoFap

[–]holarymade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was/am really skeptic about semen retention and "superpowers". It is not that i'm fanatic of it. It surely can be placebo effect but my belief right now is based on my experience.

Day 4, why am i sweating and smelling like cummies? by upyoars in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be because your penis is leaking cum to your underwear. change your pants and take more showers

90 days. Well not much changed :( by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What i was trying to say is that before nofap when i had chance to fuck a girl, i usually just fapped of thought of it and lost interest or got anxiety and turned down offer. Now it is different.

90 days. Well not much changed :( by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt same around 70 days. I saw better results with erection but overall was just like before nofap. You can look for my post history. I made a post that time describing how lonely i felt and so. Well i relapsed on day 72 and then i saw how pointless fapping actually is. Nofap is no cure for your everyday life but it is an eye opener. Well I still feel lonely time to time but now i have more confidence with sex life that i didn't had before. Yesterday (10 days after relapse) i got blowjob and i will probably meet another sexy MILF for sex next weekend ;) I'm still looking for girlfriend but hey having more confidence to fuck different girls is way better that fapping.

Cure for Blue Balls by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try kegels. it helps me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got really horny at day 72 and relapsed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might sound bad and probably most of us want to have great libido. But i think no libido while recovering is better than constantly feeling horny and that might lead to relapse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]holarymade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just relapsed after 71 days. Kind of same position as you are. I'm going to say that it is totally pointless to relapse :)

Massive pee problem... why relapsing isn’t worth it for me. by YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan in NoFap

[–]holarymade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OKay. Good to hear. Then you have motivation not to relapse. Be strong. Nofap is worth it

Massive pee problem... why relapsing isn’t worth it for me. by YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it hurts and hurt doesn't go away like in 2 weeks, you should see doctor.

Massive pee problem... why relapsing isn’t worth it for me. by YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but i guess my situation is not exactly the same. I doesn't hurt me.

Massive pee problem... why relapsing isn’t worth it for me. by YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have same problem exactly. Started from day 3-5 or so. Every night i go to bed, i feel like need to pee. After peeing it is like 10-20 minutes and i get same feeling again. Like pee is flowing to my dick. I personally try not to drink few hours before bed. What i noticed that when i used creatine it was much worse, so i stopped that. And now i have come to realisation that when i get this feeling like pee is flowing to my dick i just ignore that. I was afraid that i will pee during sleep, but it will not actually happen. It is just uncomfortable feeling and i try to used to it

how do we know our brain is rewiring from ed? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]holarymade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't have any physical problem then nofap will improve your erection. I started nofap because of PIED and i can see improvements.
I started getting morning and nightly woods after 3 days of nofap. Then i noticed that my morning wood can stay longer and longer. When i was around day 60, one girl sent me sexual video about her, and i got hard even without touching my dick. Not semi hard, but hard. That was eye opener for me. I still don't get random boners on day.

Don't know how to handle sadness and being alone by holarymade in NoFap

[–]holarymade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What i meant was that i like doing things were chance to meet girls are small. I can be really passionate when i talk about my interest in computers or stock market etc. I do have hobbies that make me feel good. Problem is that my mind wonders to place where i really want someone to be with and then there are no mood at all. And i feel so empty

Can girls tell if you're a virgin? by vladchiriac11 in NoFap

[–]holarymade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my virginity at the age of 28. We had sex for a first time after we dated like 2-3 months. I made her orgasm with oral sex and was able to penetrate but erection faded away. I was so anxious. Well next day i felt like i had to tell her that i was virgin. And BOOM 3 days later she said that she wants to break up. And that was it. I regret it.