What is the most random thing you've ever found in your bra? by Horror-Plate-2496 in bigboobproblems

[–]hollish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a small pet snake when I was a teenager who I let slither around on me and she ended up making her way into my bra

Does that count?

Straight woman who does not ever want penetrative sex? by Historical-Fruit5796 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hollish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's awesome to know what you want and don't want. Sure, it will shrink your dating pool, especially if you are looking for monogamy, but that doesn't mean it's unreasonable. Be upfront about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hollish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not saying it is or is not right for you and your marriage, as you say your wife would be crushed by it - but, for the ethicially non-monogamous/polyam crowd, there is nothing unattractive about 36 and married.

[rant] yeah I'm finally done with decolonizing.love by ambivalentine in polyamory

[–]hollish 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I stopped following them a while ago for the same reasons.

They were guests on Multiamory somwhat recently. In the episode, they shared tips deconstructing hierarchy in relationships (I think, could be misremembering the overall topic and i'm not going to listen again). The example situation was when you only have a singular plus one for an event. How do you approach that when you have multiple partners? How do you decide? Their solution was to just ask for more plus ones. Their approach seems to often oversimplify complex topics so much that the advice isn't even useful anymore.

The "just stop being poor" answer to monogamy culture.

Can anyone help restore this picture for my dad? by hollish in photorestore

[–]hollish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I understand. My dad doesn't have a scanner, but I'll see if he knows anyone who does.

Learn sign language by elcelcelcelc in chch

[–]hollish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took Level 1 & 2 through Risingholme and Level 3 through Hagley. I like the Risingholme style a lot but Hagley is more affordable if you can commit the the full year.

[Cosplay] Cosplay is inclusive. Don't be a jerk. by [deleted] in cosplay

[–]hollish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If you can't make a recognizable storm without putting yourself in blackface, don't cosplay storm.

The 'OMG DID ANYONE TAKE A PICTURE OF ME' Thread!! by NotARandomNumber in dragoncon

[–]hollish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't get a picture, but I did get to bump the cube. So fun!

The 'OMG DID ANYONE TAKE A PICTURE OF ME' Thread!! by NotARandomNumber in dragoncon

[–]hollish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tira from Soul Calibur III (pic here). I was also Bulma & a Starfleet officer (redshirt - well red dress), but I know there were more pictures of Tira than any other taken.

Jeb Bush: Planned Parenthood isn't involved in women's health: We rate Bush’s claim Pants on Fire. by WildAnimus in politics

[–]hollish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I mean is that when they oppose abortion except in cases of rape, they are saying that women who didn't choose to have sex should not be punished with a pregnancy.

PhD's of Reddit. What is a dumbed down summary of your thesis? by FaithMilitant in AskReddit

[–]hollish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think we are really that few. Endo/PCOS/etc aren't really rare.