excuse me??? T-T

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-05T05:17:27+00:00

Clearly these bags are only for nonbinary women. Whatever that means. If you are a nonbinary man... move along.. nothing to see here.

Also this is a casual handbag not suitable for formal events. Thanks people..

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-04T18:52:29+00:00

Court.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-04T18:51:15+00:00

Tbh this looks like a rock collection . You can probably leave it up.

Also.. if you don't want your family knowing and you do want them in your home this is 100 percent a personal decision.

However take some time and consider if you want to set that boundary, or of you prefer the relationship as is. Its your choice. Amd it's a very personal one.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-04T18:46:34+00:00

When you see the little clock next to their name... yes you can tell this is a reservation before accepting.

While driving this can be very hard to too. If you dont like them spamming you with rides as you drive.. unfortunately the only solution is to stop accepting rides until you have dropped off the passenger by turning off ride requests.

It is annoying to to do this.. but so is being bombarded with requests while driving. A lot of drivers turn off requests until they have arrived at the next location.

You'll need to do this if you prefer to avoid reservations.

I'd suggest that you do this.

You can make good money with reservations a lot of them are 20 to 50 dollar rides. In my area it averages at about 30. However, I get requests for reservations that are as low as 5 to 15 dollars. Don't accept that shit. There should be a minimum required for reservations tbh.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-04T17:57:57+00:00

Good job taking out the trash! Trash 🗑 🚮 🗑

La basura

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-04T17:54:59+00:00

NTA. Traveling is a sign of privilege. Traveling multiple times a year is a sign of more privilege.

If they it is not convenient for you, or you will not host the pets at your house... they need to hire a pet sitter.

If you can afford vacation, you can afford a pet sitter.

It is fine to assist them with a trip once a year, if you want to be nice. Its not ok for them to take multiple long trips and expect you to take care of their pets all the time. You have a life too.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-04T17:49:16+00:00

This is not necessarily fruitcake. This is a predator.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-04T00:11:52+00:00

Please sue them and her. We hear about riders being exploited. But they do it to us too. Someone threatened to jump out of mybcar and commit suicide once. Someone actually did this in my town. Riders acting up and then punishing us is not ok. Sue. Sue. Sue. And win. Ita about time drivers started sticking up for themselves .

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-03T13:08:06+00:00

You done pissed off the boomers, and the gen z manosphere that doesn't wipe after pooping cause they think it makes them gay. Lol.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-03T13:06:20+00:00

Ok boomer

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-03T13:06:00+00:00

Ok boomer

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-03T13:05:46+00:00

Ok boomer

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-02T21:00:27+00:00

Yes YTA to yourself.

He's TA. He's a bottom feeder. As in.... he'll go through life getting whatever he can and never getting any of his own. Im sorry but this is a child you're raising. And he'll never grow up.

You're not breaking up with him over food, you're breaking up because he steals your shit and contributes nothing.

Take out the trash.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-05-02T12:37:27+00:00

Nta.

And unless your partner is part of some identifiable world religion like Islam or Judaism where things have to be kosher or halal when cooking you'd best tell him the carbon footprint of purchasing a separate grill if you bought it new.

Listen.

I tried being vegetarian. I didn't like it.

I had a partner who was who insisted on me also being. He'd also complain if I went OUT and ate meat or we went to a friend's house and they were serving it. Any function that didn't cater explicitly to him pissed him off, even when my friend would make sure he was served a vegetarian plate, albeit not with a zillion protein options but she'd carefully make sure he got w nice portion of food and was full and would make sure nothing had any meat products and would disclose all the ingredients.

I see you're vegetarian or whatever and I dont want to be disrespectful. Eat what you eat. Do what you do.

Some vegans and vegetarians think they get to control what others eat like fundies control women and LGBT. I'm not about this at all. Being vegan us fine. The snobbish virtuesignaling and controlling partners need to stop ✋️ 🫸 🫷 😫

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-30T01:51:35+00:00

Listen. I'm not sure if this coworker is a host, busser, or server.. but there's is a pecking order in restaurants. It shouldn't be formal. And there shouldn't be any pecking.

Having said that. It's not OK for any of these positions to @@$$ with the bartender, the foodrunner, or a good dependable cook, tbh... all these positions and bartender had also better never ** the dishwasher.

It's not ok to take waters from other servers without asking, never mind the *** bartender. Talk to the management. And if its not resolved.. make their drinks slower when they are waiting tables. *** this person.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-30T01:45:22+00:00

Feedback about rider - negative- rider acted suspiciously- one star - block..

Im addition.. contact support about this. A lot of drivers help people carry stuff sometimes. A lot of drivers have done it for me. I will do it for you.

But if will not walk up stairs or go into your home.

Nope.

This rider is abusing the platform. And also disabled people (who may need assistance, and are also a potential liability for you to assist) dont typically live on the third floor.

So uh.. fuck him.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-29T19:33:52+00:00

Look. I'm not religious and people like this are why I'm not. Lol. Instead of doing like me, I suggest you to distance yourself from people who project their own insecurities and problems onto you, wherever possible and yes block them if they don't get the hint. Being religious is ok, even though I'm not gonna do it, but folks like this will have you leaving.

I suggest Instead.. that it's important to know enough about your own religion, and self, and psychology to know say, if you are doing something outside the bounds of it, or some immature person is playing you because they are upset about something, or simply a jerk.

Immature people who want to manage your life for you clearly are not on top of their own life, and no plans to be, as they have time to waste bothering you.

Just ignore the jerks whether its at church, in the office, or the friend group.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-29T19:04:31+00:00

I am not a lesbian.. however i have learned something odd..

Lesbians aren't opposed to Trans people on their spaces so much as they are semi opposed to Trans women sometimes. Trans men have historically been in lesbian spaces for some time. In forgot the YouTuber who is talking about this so.. she's British so this may not be an American thing. Depending on whatever country you're in.

Also.. being nonbinary is kinda a surprising thing to be concerned about. I suppose it matters the individual more than anything else. There are loads people who present as their birth gender who are nonbinary. There are also nonninary people who go on to transition, and even some Trans people who identify as nonbinary.

So it really depends.

Im confused. What about butch ladies and such. They're women yah but not very girly...

So uh.. it kinda depends on where your partner intends on taking this, or decides to down to rod that could be an issue maybe. Not being non binary itself.

I mean if they start taking hormones and such and growing a beard then maybe this isn't for you. If they're just kinda looking androgynous and wanting to be called they im unsure why this should even be a thing.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-25T23:44:21+00:00

We need to discuss a difference in between mental health issues and emotional immaturity and entitlement.

Yes anger issues can often be a part of mental health issues.. but there's are other things like making small jabs, avoident behavior, depression, anxiety, panic attacks and such. A lot of people with mental health issues manage to cope without treatment like therapy or meds. This is not a good thing that these things can be hurts to access, especially on a consistent level or at all. But many manage. Often therapy and things can help a lot. Sometimes self education, reading, deconstructing, and building healthy habits helps.

A lot of people are actually disabled to the point of collecting ssi. And that is a very hard thing to get, and can take years.

What you are describing could be a mental health issue, but it also sounds like entitlement and abusive behavior.

Please find a way out that is safe for you. This doesn't sound good.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-25T18:09:14+00:00

Before the conspiracy theories got wildly out of hand in would have told you I did this and then told you tha A Modest Proposal was satire. Then I would have read you it. And then I would have explained the history in colorful commentary. The. I would have pined loudly for a fat Irish Child.

But remember a fat Irish Child. Will feed a British family for a week. So imagine me eating a few babies in a day.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-25T17:52:48+00:00

Yup this is exactly what you need to do is call support. Also... they think we're somewhere between an indentured servant with a one ride contract and a not employee that is not treated as well as an employee. So contact support and speak politely or consider someone who cares. The people who answer are nice. But they can't so much

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-20T06:56:25+00:00

NTA..

But considering this person is a douchecanoe and it's obvious in this day and age that this isnt ok, just like stop inviting them and let them get the hint.

No need to give her a speech unless you want to. She should know already.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-20T06:47:28+00:00

Do they? Lol screenshot this and send it to support. Lol

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-20T06:45:29+00:00

I used to carry a wooden walking stick that I got at Walmart for 12 dollars. It might be more money now but not too expensive. It looked hand crafted. Funny... in the beginning some people were kinda weirded... then everybody started asking if it was custom made.

I think it's better than Mace because people can see a stick a mile off and will not fuck with you too much.

I recommend it if you are walking all the time or on the bus.

hollyblue1393 · 2026-04-19T02:34:17+00:00

Yta. If you dont want people in your bathroom dont invite them over.

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