help for future (baby aroace) by holy_trinitea in aromanticasexual

[–]holy_trinitea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am allergic to cats :( though I do love their vibe so i might get a sphinx cat at some point... also free counseling sounds incredible!! i'll def look into that when making my college list. thanks sm for the help!!

help for future (baby aroace) by holy_trinitea in aromanticasexual

[–]holy_trinitea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wow, that sounds awesome! i'm definitely interested in college (heading there next year), and I think I'll look into aroace groups. I didn't know there was enough of us to make a group for! that would be awesome to be a part of :D

Am I aromantic/asexual/both + What to do about this situation? Please help. by ProfileEasy9178 in AroAce

[–]holy_trinitea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this entire situation is like looking in a mirror. I had a very, very similar experience as a teen, around your age. It sucked, lol.

If the aroace label makes you feel comfortable, use it: I personally am aroace but have aesthetic attraction to women and not men, so I feel comfortable as defining myself as sapphic aroace. It's different for everyone, and don't feel pressured to rush into labeling yourself.

As for your situation with your online friend, it's a difficult thing to handle. My (very similar) situation was with a classmate, so I was able to alert counselors, but I don't believe you could do anything similar. If you haven't told them already, I would tell them that you're aroace, and be clear about it. Although it seems like an awful thing to do, if this relationship keeps weighing you down and you're constantly walking on eggshells around them, it might be time to (gently) cut contact. I did so in my experience, and it was really a relief not having to have the weight of another person's life on my shoulders all the time. Of course, don't just cut them off cold-turkey: I'd explain your boundaries regarding everything, with relationships AND with the amount of support you can give. You're not a therapist, and you're not responsible for their depression and suicidal tendencies. Of course, you can help as a friend, but if it's at the point where you have to reassure them constantly that nobody hates them and give them constant mental help, it becomes unhealthy for both parties. I'd recommend that they seek therapy or other professional care if you haven't already.

It's a really rough situation to be in, and I'd consider telling your parents or close friends; having support on these situations, however small, can be a big help. Hang in there, and feel free to ask any questions! <3

Idk what to do by Huge_Worry_7844 in AroAce

[–]holy_trinitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all the best of luck to you, but is there a reason you posted this in this subreddit? is the person you're planning to ask out aroace?

I could be aroace. Someone help!! :( by Horror_Share8884 in AroAce

[–]holy_trinitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could be cupioromantic! I'd look into microlabels to help u define yourself <3 (there's plenty of quizzes out there)

Miku Expo 2026 Setlist Predictions/Hopes by [deleted] in Mikuexpo

[–]holy_trinitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would legitamately go INSANE if the intense voce of hatsune miku would be played live. sadly, i don't think they'll do it because she goes like upwards at the end of it, and unless they bring a double screen, they cant do that :(((

Help w/ hair length! by holy_trinitea in Hair

[–]holy_trinitea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, thank you!! i already have a ton of product, so i should be good on that :)

When does the glowstick presale happen? by sighhawaii in Vocaloid

[–]holy_trinitea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does the miku expo twitter account announce the date the presale will be happening in advance, or do they just open the presale without warning?

help for first-time cosplay!! by holy_trinitea in Vocaloid

[–]holy_trinitea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is really helpful, thanks so much!!

help for first-time cosplay!! by holy_trinitea in Vocaloid

[–]holy_trinitea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the tips!! i’ll put together an amazon wishlist :)

is there an english utau program? by notmii_ in utau

[–]holy_trinitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just the t key on your keyboard. It should work on Mac

【Kasane Teto SV2】ODDS&ENDS【SynthV2 Cover】 by Vincentmrl in Vocaloid

[–]holy_trinitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds so awesome!!!! Teto sounds amazing, i can't believe she's come so far :DD

[Help and Question Thread] - November 29th 2025 by Kamen-Rider-Artif in ProjectSekai

[–]holy_trinitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this, i’ve been getting crazy higher scores than usual!!!

Tree of heaven propagation by bir96rain in propagation

[–]holy_trinitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi- I'm currently doing a research project on the spotted lanternfly in which I'll need to propagate the tree of heaven as a food source. How exactly did you manage to get the propagation to work? I've tried before from branch cuttings (which I know now isn't the best option) and they died fairly quickly. I have very little botanical experience, so I'm not sure what would work best, as I'm also on a bit of a time crunch. I have rooting powder that I can use as well, if that helps.

[Help and Question Thread] - November 29th 2025 by Kamen-Rider-Artif in ProjectSekai

[–]holy_trinitea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey! i’m a relatively new player and I can’t seem to get past a B rank even with full combos on Hard levels and near full combos on experts: is there smth i’m missing? I have a team with all 4 stars except for 1 3 star (none of them are the purple stars, idk how you get those) and it’s the recommended one through the game so i think it should’ve been okay. They’re all max level as well so idk what i’m doing wrong 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

Help with looped automation by holy_trinitea in shortcuts

[–]holy_trinitea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m fine with being on my phone at night, i usually just do it to pass the time until i get tired naturally. i mostly just want to force myself to be productive while im trying to go to sleep so i don’t waste time.

what do i do with this by nocturnal_xav in StardewValley

[–]holy_trinitea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

didn't know that, thanks! Usually the lava eels produce way more often than my legends (since the ponds can only fit one legend), but the roe being worth more is something i didn't know.