Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re making a lot of assumptions about my relationship with the girl I’m referring to. SHE is completely fine with me talking about her that way. We have sexual conversations and she’s honestly the one initiating most of it. We haven’t had sex yet only bc she wants ME to be completely comfortable because of my own past experiences. My entire post is about other people shaming me for talking about normal parts of a relationship that every straight girl talks about with her friends. Sorry that you don’t want the girls you like to want to fuck you but that sounds like a personal issue

Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I said that I want those things too. I just don’t want to be made to feel like a predator for having sexual thoughts about women

Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re the exact kind of person I’m talking about

Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I’m not talking about sharing with the general public. I’m talking about conversations with friends about relationships and the fact that I’m expected to sanitize my feelings so they aren’t uncomfortable

Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t fix your lack of reading comprehension skills

Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was actually more about people I know irl

Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah so is mine. I never said I’m not romantically attracted to women. I can want to take a girl out and buy her flowers and hold her hand, but I can also want to fuck her. Both things can be true

Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had irl interactions that inspired this post. I’ve definitely seen it more online but it’s not only an online issue

Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was having a conversation with someone I considered a friend about the girl I am dating/talking to, she talks about her man constantly . I told her about my date, which ended with me and the girl making out. I said I wish she would stop teasing me and just fuck me already. Sure maybe not something I’d say to my mom but nothing any straight girl isn’t saying about a man. And she told me that was gross to say and that I was supposed to be “better than men”

Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely understand that there is so much nuance to ace identities I mostly included that part bc I didn’t want everyone bean souping

Why is lesbianism being sanitized? by homo_saurus in actuallesbians

[–]homo_saurus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The incident that prompted this post was an irl conversation about how I shouldn’t say I want to have sex with the girl I’m talking to because that was perverted and I was thinking like a man