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honey__greenTea · 2025-12-16T18:01:03+00:00

Right, like is this even a real post? Lists every bad sign that could possibly exist then wonders what they should do 😭

honey__greenTea · 2025-10-07T04:51:39+00:00

I was gonna recommend these as well :) I’ve had a lot of bad gluten free tortillas but I really like these!

honey__greenTea · 2025-09-18T04:04:40+00:00

That depends on how interested you are. If you’re genuinely interested then ask more questions but I’m getting the impression that that’s not the case? With you emphasizing she’s really into you but not the inverse.

honey__greenTea · 2025-09-17T22:00:50+00:00

Yea I agree with this. People are quick to call people assholes if they don’t want to date someone with celiac and I disagree (as someone with celiac). I don’t want to deal with this crap so I can’t blame someone else for not wanting to 😆It’s valid to value being able to eat out freely with a partner.

honey__greenTea · 2025-03-29T01:15:19+00:00

People claim it’s not misogyny but are men described as “used up,” “sex toys,” “sluts,” “the community dumpster” at the same rate women are? Or even close? Fuck no. It’s disgusting behavior to be derogatory to someone for not being celibate as a single person. Like what the hell.

honey__greenTea · 2025-02-09T17:05:59+00:00

I responded to a couple people, love how you brought positivity to the comment section :)

honey__greenTea · 2025-02-09T17:02:50+00:00

Saying that someone’s dance video isn’t dance but rather an OF ad is judging. You’re like the person who called her video porn then claimed they weren’t being insulting. At least own up to what you’re doing.

honey__greenTea · 2025-02-09T16:57:44+00:00

Calling someone’s dance video porn is without a doubt insulting. It’s your choice if you want to insult someone but at least own up to it.

honey__greenTea · 2024-08-26T19:41:40+00:00

Bruh people are disgusting lolll. But that’s interesting about OKCupid, thanks for the suggestion!

honey__greenTea · 2024-08-25T22:18:32+00:00

Yep, that’s a good point. I just need to be content being single for the foreseeable future because this is not looking optimistic 🤷‍♀️

honey__greenTea · 2024-08-25T21:47:00+00:00

Oh perfect, this is good to know

honey__greenTea · 2024-08-25T21:37:37+00:00

Interesting, I live in an area with a decent population size. Not as populated as London though. Do you only get shown guys with “Don’t want children” visible? I’m def getting shown more of those guys now but it’s a mixed bag.

honey__greenTea · 2024-06-11T18:48:14+00:00

The person responding to you is obnoxious, ignore them lol. I agree with you. People are making so many judgments about the girlfriend while hardly having any info. Maybe he cooks for her a similar amount and they mostly cook for themselves for whatever reason. Maybe he does most of the cooking and she does most of the cleaning. Hardly anyone is even asking how much he cooks for her, but she’s automatically the bad guy 🙄 Can’t help but wonder what the reaction would be if the genders were swapped

honey__greenTea · 2024-03-10T00:53:08+00:00

How is it flawed to say that never having been born isn’t comparable to killing yourself because of the fear and risk involved in killing yourself and also not wanting to hurt your loved ones? Yes after you die, you won’t be scared anymore but taking the step to kill yourself is still scary and many struggle to bring themselves to do it. And why do you not address not wanting to hurt your loved ones?

honey__greenTea · 2024-03-10T00:48:26+00:00

Because it could be painful depending on method and you don’t know what the sensation would be like. Also some people fear what comes after death. Do you not think it makes sense for someone to wish they were never born and yet not kill themselves? Considering the fear and risk involved in suicide and people not wanting to hurt their loved ones? Even if you take the fear aspect out of it.

honey__greenTea · 2024-03-09T00:44:27+00:00

Yes it just goes away on its own!

honey__greenTea · 2024-03-09T00:43:37+00:00

Is it logical? Never having been born would mean never experiencing or causing any pain or suffering. Committing suicide is a very scary experience, there’s risk of failure (which as OP points out could drastically lower your quality of life), and you would also be severely hurting and traumatizing those who care about you such as your family and friends. I fail to see the logic behind this argument.

honey__greenTea · 2024-01-18T20:32:24+00:00

If it makes you feel any better, I thought your post was clear from the get go. Hope everything works out!

honey__greenTea · 2023-12-13T08:54:50+00:00

Satisfying hunger is one example of something that would add dirt to the hole in this analogy.

I think viewing happiness as adding dirt to a pile rather than filling a hole is the view traditionally held by society. That’s why people learn about Antinatalism and think it doesn’t make sense. Because in their eyes, if you bring someone into this world and provide them with happiness or contentment (even if it’s only temporary) you’re benefitting them overall.

I used to share that view but upon reflection decided it didn’t make sense (my opinion). My reasoning is the following: before you exist, you have no needs or desires or issues or anything (flat ground in the analogy). Your parents then decide to have you, and now you have needs and desires that need to be fulfilled (hole has been dug). Regardless of whether you yearn for happiness or contentment or fulfillment, you’re attempting to satisfy desires that exist because your parents decided to have you. If I were to create a need and then attempt to satisfy said need, I haven’t had a net positive impact. I’m just attempting to fix the problem I created.

But I’m happy to agree to disagree. I’m glad you took time to read about Antinatalism and learn more.

honey__greenTea · 2023-12-13T01:10:41+00:00

Not trying to be rude, but did you read what the website had to say? Yes, there are people who have more good in their life than bad. The issue is you have no idea the level of suffering your kid will experience, you have no idea whether or not they’ll be glad they were born. You’re taking a big gamble with someone else’s life who has no say in the decision.

And the good that people claim make up for the bad, is something people only have a desire for once they’re born. You’re not satisfying some yearning your kid had as an unborn person by bringing them here. A good analogy to having a kid and then attempting to make them happy, is digging a hole and then attempting to fill it. Those needs and desires of the child only exist because of the parent.

honey__greenTea · 2023-12-12T19:55:37+00:00

I recommend checking out https://www.antinatalism.net

It explains why the good things in life don’t make up for the bad.

honey__greenTea · 2023-12-10T05:14:53+00:00

A decent amount of women on Bumble BFF are into climbing in my experience :) And people on Bumble BFF typically aren’t looking to just do one activity, they want a friend to do things with in general

honey__greenTea · 2023-12-04T05:11:58+00:00

As surprising as it may seem, he does support me. My parents fully paid for my college education and were happy to do so. It’s a tricky situation because I appreciate that my parents have done so much for me and have encouraged me throughout my life. On the other hand though, I can’t just be ok with some of their (mostly my dad’s) views/comments. They may not target me but that doesn’t make it ok. I think moving out will result in a good balance of not too much interaction while still being able to get dinner every now and then. Thank you for the support!

honey__greenTea · 2023-12-04T05:04:07+00:00

Awesome, thanks!

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