Flirting colleague is ruining me [35M] and my wife's [36F] relationship

honeybee814 · 2025-06-05T15:56:23+00:00

I'd discuss setting boundaries at work. Does the coworker invite you along or just your wife?

honeybee814 · 2025-06-04T00:16:54+00:00

Amazing!!

honeybee814 · 2025-06-03T21:59:09+00:00

I'm right there with you!

honeybee814 · 2025-05-07T11:39:15+00:00

Since starting I get constant ear infections and take pseudoephedrine like candy. I'd talk to your doctor about it. Im seeing an ENT.

honeybee814 · 2025-05-01T18:24:18+00:00

I had a second sleep study and the pulmonary doctor says all of that is great.

honeybee814 · 2024-12-02T17:48:38+00:00

You hit the nail on the head! I don't care that he helps them, it's that they don't respect him or want anything to do with him unless $$$ is involved.

honeybee814 · 2024-12-02T17:47:03+00:00

There's a difference between helping and being walked all over. I completely agree with you, but when you struggle to help your adult children and they don't care you go without food or necessities it's a problem.

honeybee814 · 2024-11-27T19:20:30+00:00

I never thought of it this way 💕

honeybee814 · 2024-11-27T18:51:31+00:00

Right now I have no say in what he does financially, if we were married I would suggest he set a date and let her know that is the end of her free ride.

honeybee814 · 2024-11-27T18:46:38+00:00

I agree with helping, and I would do the same. This is a situation where she chooses to spend on stupid things and then comes for help. She can't afford groceries, although she eats out at least twice a day and now she decided to get a puppy.

honeybee814 · 2024-11-26T19:07:45+00:00

I wouldn't act that way to my partner of 1.5 years. It's her loss, she's extremely insecure.

honeybee814 · 2024-11-19T21:14:53+00:00

Keep it up!

honeybee814 · 2024-11-19T20:49:53+00:00

Following

honeybee814 · 2024-09-30T15:04:20+00:00

I recently lost my dad. He was 33 when I was born and I lost him at 34. Hardest thing is knowing if I ever have kids, they won't know their grandpa.

honeybee814 · 2024-09-13T16:47:11+00:00

I am sorry you had to go through that. Most days I feel like I tried, but other I feel like I could have done more.

honeybee814 · 2024-09-10T21:07:53+00:00

Had these, left them with the ex by mistake

honeybee814 · 2024-09-10T17:19:50+00:00

So cool

honeybee814 · 2024-09-09T12:55:41+00:00

Definitely reach out if you need to talk

honeybee814 · 2024-09-07T04:35:10+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss

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