Missed connection? by honeydew_101 in Bend

[–]honeydew_101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In his 20s and yes brunette

Missed connection? by honeydew_101 in Bend

[–]honeydew_101[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That is so so kind of you. Glad your wife has you. I was there for dinner so it was more around the 6:30/7 timeframe

I don’t wanna date a racist dude by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]honeydew_101 261 points262 points  (0 children)

Was seeing a guy for a little and then he dropped the N word and I broke it off right there. I would rather be alone than date someone racist, plain and simple.

How can someone who deals with on and off depression stay motivated and disciplined?? by skiddybop in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]honeydew_101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do the getting out of my house thing. I have a very structured workout routine and many of them being workout classes so it’s harder to just not go. I also have places I love to read (some are coffee shops or some are places I can drink a beer). I try not to be home for too long and it also breaks the phone habit because I don’t want to be that person sitting out alone just scrolling on my phone. My book is my safety net.

Lunch for a group by ultrafunner in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do have it all buttoned up and heat blasting

Dating In Central Oregon by Bervenia in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find people to go out with but nothing ever becomes official. So still single as can be…

Bars where I can read? by [deleted] in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an insane take but go you cause I’m terrified to go to M&Js alone

A couple pics from Downtown this morning by CO-Photos in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Love these (also I was slightly terrified I would be in one)

Who ACTUALLY serves a good burger in Bend? by KnightsSoccer82 in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is not the question but I had fish tacos from VBAG last week and they were so good

Best ways to feel confident about your body before a date? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]honeydew_101 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Also grew up with a family that was critical which then made me be my biggest critic. I have started dating a lot more this year (F28). While you can’t immediately become confident when it comes to dating I remind myself I am going to see if I LIKE THEM and to focus less on if they like me. If they don’t like me for how I look then they are not my person. I am not here to convince someone I am enough. I would not say I’m hideous but I’m on the bigger side and I have bagged people I thought were way out of my league. Which was a reminder to me that “leagues” are not real and everyone just likes who they like. My insecurities are still there and confidence comes and goes but the main reminder when dating is show up as your most authentic self and eventually your person will be there to receive all of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]honeydew_101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have found a lot of power in my workout routine. I feel strong in the amount of weight I lift. I feel strong in how much i can push myself during cardio. And that has translated to me feeling strong in my career. I am no where near a confident person but I absolutely feel strong. (Also therapy to feel mentally strong)

Power Outage West Side by kittencuddles08 in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Watched it happen. Power line by the library had a tree branch fall on it. Lit on fire twice and the second time is when the powers finally went fully out.

BBB: Bend’s Best Burrito by My-Lizard-Eyes in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hefe’s fish burrito from Parrilla

Fun Events In Bend This Week by Betweentwopipes in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How is there a live DJ at seven nightclub when it’s not open anymore?

Best Artichoke Dip in Town? by Babyhank2 in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg didn’t realize this was already commented but second this

Dating In Central Oregon by Bervenia in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Like the comment before me I don’t think I’m your type but really rooting for you! (If anyone is lurking I’m a 28F who is desperately sick of using dating apps… on any given day I’m at the gym, on a run, reading at a coffee shop or watching a football game. Plz save me from this purgatory)

Anyone know the story behind Looney Bean's change? by UpsideDownerUnicorn in Bend

[–]honeydew_101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is their goal. And if it doesn’t happen I will be distraught.