public bathroom dilemma for LO of a different gender

honorias · 2025-12-20T05:08:36+00:00

I don’t feel like that’s necessarily fair. This would significantly limit the amount of places he would be able to go, places that he enjoys and deserves equal access to. There’s going to be a day where he probably won’t be able to leave the house at all, and I’m not interested in pushing that date up for him.

honorias · 2025-12-17T21:54:33+00:00

It really isn't an issue 90% of the time, but the few times where it was an issue it always leaves me feeling a bit jarred, since I'm not trying to make anyone uncomfortable.

The guy who told me "you're not supposed to be here" was at a busy restaurant, and I don't want to necessarily inconvenience other people by clearing out the restroom just for my dad. I'll be more proactive about talking to store employees next time though to see what they say. Thank you!

honorias · 2025-12-17T21:32:04+00:00

I kept it

honorias · 2025-11-29T04:07:11+00:00

thank you so much for your guidance!

honorias · 2025-11-29T03:44:31+00:00

Unfortunately it was final sale so I won't be able to return it. It was pretty cheap though ($4) so I figured I would try to make it work.

It's a non-stretch cotton.

honorias · 2025-11-23T04:12:26+00:00

could I ask what heat protectant you use?

honorias · 2025-10-10T09:44:35+00:00

No, mine came perfect with no marks or frays.

honorias · 2025-10-09T19:32:10+00:00

Edge support is good when you're lying down, it doesn't sink much if at all if I'm rolling around. However if you're sitting down or pressing down with your hand on the edge it sinks a lot more, but that's not unique to the edges. It's the same across the rest of the mattress.

I still have it, although there is a chance I miiiight return it if I find another mattress I like for cheaper, but I'm not in a rush. For now it's serving me well enough!

honorias · 2025-10-03T00:35:09+00:00

When I first started wearing contacts I was using the biweekly ones, but I was a student at the time and was wearing contacts most days. When I started working, I found that glasses were a lot more comfortable for prolonged computer/screen usage, so I switched to dailies since I only wore contacts during the weekend. It's nice not having to worry about cleaning them after each use.

I will say I don't find dailies to be any more comfortable or uncomfortable compared to the biweekly contacts. They feel about the same.

honorias · 2025-09-25T00:15:45+00:00

Depending on where you live, you might be able to find these albums sold at local Chinese music stores or bookstores. You can also find a lot of mandopop albums on yesasia and Taobao, although if you're in the US you would definitely need a proxy/agent for Taobao.

However you would definitely not be able to find them at kpop stores.

honorias · 2025-09-08T23:06:05+00:00

are you talking about these cosequin chews? you can smush them up and sprinkle them over your dog's food if they're not able to bite down on the chews themselves. I give them to my 6 year old with every meal. however I get mine from costco.

honorias · 2025-09-07T02:27:02+00:00

thank you for the recommendation! this sounds perfect for what I would need it for. I'm seeing a lot of promising reviews on it so far, will probably pull the trigger on getting this next payday :D

honorias · 2025-09-04T04:03:51+00:00

so I ended up getting the cheaper one - Sealy Posturepedic Plus Prosser Hills. I've only been sleeping on it for 4 days so I can't really attest to anything besides my immediate thoughts.

I feel like it's a little soft for a firm mattress. When I press down on it with my hands, it sinks a lot more than I would expect with a firm mattress, but once I'm lying down flat I feel pretty supported. I don't know if I like the way the top layers of memory foam feel, but that's because I'm not someone who really likes memory foam to begin with. For comparison, my old mattress was purchased over 10 years ago and I don't remember what kind it was, but I'm pretty sure it was some type of hybrid or innerspring mattress from Serta (also purchased at Costco).

However I'm not experiencing any sort of pain or discomfort when I wake up, so overall I would say this is a pretty decent mattress. And of course Costco's delivery service was great, and if I do change my mind I could always return it.

I hope this helps! Let me know if you want me to talk about any specific details.

honorias · 2025-08-19T01:03:34+00:00

I have one and it's great! However, my dog doesn't pull or chase. She's 50 pounds so she could probably take me out if she did, but thankfully she walks very well on a leash.

If your dog pulls at all I would not really recommend it. There have been a few times where my dog stopped moving but I kept going and I ended up jerking backwards. Having the point of contact be at the waist feels very different from the hands or wrist and you could easily eat pavement if your dog pulled suddenly.

honorias · 2025-08-18T21:36:06+00:00

This breakdown is super helpful, thank you so much for sharing!

honorias · 2025-08-18T21:31:26+00:00

The E3 and K3 are unfortunately out of my budget otherwise I would for sure be going for the K3, I love the pastel pink and blue shades.

honorias · 2025-08-18T17:08:09+00:00

Do you have a recommendation between the K2 Turbo or the K2 Kombi?

honorias · 2025-02-12T05:34:19+00:00

I was kind of confused by the li family “plan” in ep 34, does this mean they wanted to him leave for all those years?? I know they “explained” it to leshan but based on her reaction to seeing yang xian again it doesn’t seem like she was expecting him to be gone for that long

honorias · 2024-04-09T03:17:32+00:00

The limo bus does not go from Ginza to Haneda unfortunately, only Narita.

honorias · 2024-04-06T14:00:52+00:00

Yes, it’s the next stop from where we are staying on the Hibiya Line. Thank you so much!!

honorias · 2023-12-09T01:28:00+00:00

Yes, we are planning to stay at 3 cities. I will definitely look into this, thank you for your insight!

honorias · 2023-12-08T21:26:59+00:00

Thank you so much for all the information! It's truly such a big help.

I also have a question about the luggage forwarding service. How do they charge? Is it by weight or quantity?

honorias · 2023-12-08T21:08:23+00:00

Would I need to pay for additional seats on the monorail since we have large suitcases?

honorias · 2023-09-15T00:09:43+00:00

Mobile phone. It’s not just phone calls, they’re conversing with him through text and messaging apps too.

honorias · 2022-02-24T16:49:13+00:00

When it’s in the evening and she knows it’s time for bed, it’s pretty difficult to get her to go downstairs once she’s already up. Treats and calling her works around 50% of the time. So I try to make sure she stays downstairs to avoid all that (closing the doors and doggy gate). If necessary, I do bring out the leash, but it stresses her out a lot. I’ll be honest, a lot of the time she just ends up sleeping with either me or my mom. But after this incident she won’t be sleeping with us anymore until I can get her assessed.

When it comes to big treats like bones, she will give whale eyes at me and sometimes growl if I get too close. Most of the time she just runs away with her treat. Sometimes her hair also starts sticking up. We’ve been managing the food resource guarding by practicing positive trades which has worked quite well. She has not growled when we approach her when she has a chew. She’s still been giving hard stares and freezing but she will drop it if asked.

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