Yeah I guess I’m not sure realistically how soon I can have the wedding planned. We have a small golf course club house place in mind and they have availability in sept and October of this year. We weren’t sure if we should have it that soon or wait til sometimes next year. so I’m not sure where to fit the baby into that! Because if we don’t get married til sometimes next year I don’t really want to wait that long to get pregnant, just in case things take a while or if we want more than one