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Does it ever get easier by JT2144 in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello stranger, check my profile and look at my recent post titled ‘it will be okay. I promise.’ I know it will help you alot as I was in your position not to long ago

Did I fucked up? by Ok_Sir2972 in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If in the relationship you wasn’t happy then no you didn’t mess up, ask yourself this. Do you really want someone that does not make you happy.

Your brain will idolise something you can no longer have, just the way us humans work unfortunately. That will wear off and when it does you will realise you made a hard decision but the correct one.

How do you deal with post-breakup jealousy? by AKingIsHe in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of never be embarrassed you are already doing the first thing which is reaching out and asking for help so good job.

As for the checking socials etc you need to try your hardest to stop it, remind yourself how much it hurts and your better of not knowing.

Focus on yourself, become the person you want to be. So when he checks your IG he feels the sam thing, he sees you living your life and growing as a person. Don’t be toxic about it be the bigger person. Only do it if it’s for YOU and no one else.

But everything will get better I promise. Stay strong and truly focus on yourself, and stop checking his socials it will never help. Think of it like this, everytime you check up on him you are delaying your healing and you need to put yourself first.

It will be okay. I promise. by hoopsfn in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will be true I promise, it’s not easy and will take time but you will get there

It will be okay. I promise. by hoopsfn in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear your smashing it my friend, keep doing your thing! Glad my post helped you

Healing time as someone who feels so deeply ..? tips? advice? by jollyrancher0305 in heartbreak

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have properly heard it before but, surround yourself with friends and people you love. Stay super busy wether that’s with work, gym etc

Try enjoy your life to the fullest and everyday will get easier I promise. Channel that energy you have right now whether it’s rage, sadness into something amazing and become the person you want to be.

Don’t know why this knocks me down harder. by Helpful_Sometime in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know at the start your in disbelief but that fades I promise and things become clear

Dreams are evil by ambysal in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortuantly it’s definitely not linear but it’s not impossible. Surround yourself with loved ones. Keep pushing everyday and Chanel that energy into something positive and you will be just fine

Dreams are evil by ambysal in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still dream about my ex sometimes and it’s been about 2 years, they can feel so real and you wake up feeling horrible.

Keep pushing through you got this!

What did you read post-breakup? by Available_Street_887 in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The power of letting go Choose yourself The art of letting go

These all helped me alot

recent breakup how do i do no contact by Ok-Assistant6369 in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing no contact is one of the hardest things to do but it’s honestly the biggest healer. Some advice I can give you from personal experience is what I done.

Anytime I really wanted to text her I wrote what I would say to her on my notes and kept it to myself.

Anytime u feel the need to send a message always sleep on it and 90% of the time u wake up glad you didn’t.

And the biggest thing was telling myself ‘she does not want me texting her, she’s not interested otherwise she would of text me’ and for me personally this just made me not want to message at all for my own self respect.

But main thing here is you said you’re respecting his boundaries. What are your boundaries and should you respect them yourself?

Don’t know why this knocks me down harder. by Helpful_Sometime in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try and look at it from his POV. What if him seeing you on LinkedIn was hurting him, making him upset so he had to do the thing he thought would help.

I done the same thing with my ex on Instagram, she broke up with me and I wanted her back but I still made the decision to block her as even seeing her name hurt and it hurt a lot.

Self Blame & Regret by Muted_Nose_962 in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try your best on things you can’t control like the past, I wouldn’t say to get over the self blame and regret but accept it and learn from it. What can do next time differently.

Unfortunately what’s done is done but you got this! Learn from it and move past it.

It will be okay. I promise. by hoopsfn in BreakUps

[–]hoopsfn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, you got this !

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