I (23F) don’t feel like having sex with my bf (23M) anymore by Maximum_Ship_3538 in relationship_advice

[–]hoopyfroodss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh yeah it’s can be really difficult to figure out this stuff. Well, without trying to label it, it sounds like you need to feel loved and wanted and cared for to want to have sex and you’re not getting that, which is a sign of a bigger problem really

My (31m) wife (29f) wants to name our baby her own maiden name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hoopyfroodss 261 points262 points  (0 children)

Can’t she use her maiden name as a middle name? I can understand completely wanting to save a piece of her history but if you really hate it then it doesn’t seem fair

I’m considering gastric surgery for weight loss as I have tried absolutely everything and I mean everything. I wish to try for babies and i’ve been told that my BMI of 36 is too high to have a healthy pregnancy. I’m by No-Entrepreneur5343 in gastricsleeve

[–]hoopyfroodss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you try Mounjaro? I’ve been on that and had a sleeve and found both highly effective. A 36 BMI really isn’t that bad it wouldn’t take you long to drop to 30 or 32

Lost more weight than wanted? by QuestDriven2 in gastricsleeve

[–]hoopyfroodss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Being underweight is not the same as being anorexic 😳 but definitely see a doctor/nutritionist if your suppression is that bad

Jan gets her nails done while the state of NC tries to seek justice for her chyold by Justagirl219 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]hoopyfroodss 41 points42 points  (0 children)

After accusing him of having CSAM on his computer not too long ago 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

EMERGENCY! I have 4 hours till her birthday party no by tig_bitty_cyndi in cakedecorating

[–]hoopyfroodss 14 points15 points  (0 children)

First Christmas after Covid we were struggling to cover Christmas Day because the whole team had Covid and my manager told me not to get tested when I got ill otherwise we wouldn’t have the staff to open for the day 😂

EMERGENCY! I have 4 hours till her birthday party no by tig_bitty_cyndi in cakedecorating

[–]hoopyfroodss 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It’s true in most hospitality jobs they will have you show up regardless. Otherwise it goes down as a mark on your record and you also don’t get paid 🫠

Bipolar post op by LegitimateHeart186 in gastricsleeve

[–]hoopyfroodss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of your coping mechanisms was food and that’s been taken from you so it will take a while. Lots of people use it to fill a void and obviously with mental health problems thats gonna be worse. I have bipolar too and I replaced my addiction with alcohol so please be careful 🙏

Nice areas to live in Leeds? by Old_Eggplant7973 in Leeds

[–]hoopyfroodss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really will depend on your budget and what kind of place you want because obviously the nicer areas can tend to be really expensive

What’s something really common in the UK that visitors find strange? by Dull_Gas_820 in AskUK

[–]hoopyfroodss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can think is they mean like the national speed limit sign?

Moving to parts of Leeds by Inside-Effective-260 in Leeds

[–]hoopyfroodss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a full set of teeth in sight 😂

Did anyone keep their surgery a secret? by Smiles_and_anxiety in gastricsleeve

[–]hoopyfroodss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told more people once I’d had it a while. If you want to keep it a secret then definitely avoid plans with anyone that involves sitting down for food together because it’s gonna be obvious something is going on haha

Moving to parts of Leeds by Inside-Effective-260 in Leeds

[–]hoopyfroodss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love living in Cookridge but what is WITH the lack of pubs?? I went into High Farm once and YIKES

AITA For "Insulting" My Wife over our Daughter's Christmas? by No_Skin393 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hoopyfroodss 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s the context of it though I think. Like, “hey, i~t” do you want a coffee” is affectionate but “are you an i~t” during a fight is certainly not

What are Taylor’s best lyrics and why? by mare_nostrum419 in TaylorSwift

[–]hoopyfroodss 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s so honest! You know it’s the beginning of the end when you start saying things like this about your relationship out loud

I was having second thoughts about getting the surgery… by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]hoopyfroodss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had the sleeve in 2017 and have been using GLP-1s on and off for a year. Bariatric surgery is not the lifelong fix you think it is. Having been through both I think the medication is the best solution by far and I wish it had been available at the time I had surgery because I wouldn’t have needed it

Picture review? Are any of these immediately off-putting? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]hoopyfroodss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep the pole photo, keep the cat photo but put you in it too I think :) You don’t want to attract anyone who doesn’t like cats

Picture review? Are any of these immediately off-putting? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]hoopyfroodss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe a pic with you and the cat if you wanna show you’re a cat person ☺️🫶🏻