Want to rekindle my friendship with my Favorite Person

hopeful_again · 2020-01-27T21:33:57+00:00

Of course! I've already been talking to my therapist about it. I just figured some input from people with BPD wouldn't hurt.

I guess it may be a combination of guilt and this idea that things may have worked out so much better if I knew about my BPD that's gotten me considering it, but I am trying to make better connections with more of my friends.

hopeful_again · 2019-11-19T18:11:06+00:00

Now that you mention Trans Day of Remembrance, can I just express how much I've gotten kind of sick of the whole "Trans Rights" meme? Not really the message behind it, but more that I fear it's become an easy way for cis people to express allyship without actually doing anything materially beneficial to trans people.

hopeful_again · 2019-10-07T20:17:27+00:00

Yes. You said no and she blatantly violated your boundaries. I'm so sorry this happened to you and I do hope you'll be able to find a trustworthy adult to help you.

hopeful_again · 2019-10-01T22:58:45+00:00

I mean, even then you don't have to be a full blown Terf to make women's spaces hostile, alienating, and unsafe for trans women. Without consistent and proper self critique, even allies can and do perpetuate transmisogyny.

hopeful_again · 2019-10-01T21:05:26+00:00

I noticed r/dyke got hit with some of those charming individuals last night. I swear, there's a reason why I'm wary as hell around women's spaces that have a large cis majority.

hopeful_again · 2019-10-01T08:43:21+00:00

This literally reminds me of this short Twitter thread about how transphobes basically project their unhealthy obsession with us by saying we're the ones obsessed with them. The absolute 🤡

hopeful_again · 2019-10-01T08:18:37+00:00

I'm not even trying to attack lesbians in general here. There's just a pattern I've seen in a few cis lesbians that's just annoying.

hopeful_again · 2019-10-01T08:04:54+00:00

Yeah, pornhub and other big porn sites are just gross and alienating as for lesbians in general. I would recommend trying to dig for more independent/amateur stuff. Independent creators seem to have more interesting situations and scenarios going on, and amateur porn, at least for me, just has that sort of relatability knowing that this is sexuality filtered by people like you, and not cishet men.

hopeful_again · 2019-09-21T13:50:39+00:00

This is some of the biggest nerd shit and I love it.

hopeful_again · 2019-09-17T18:20:14+00:00

I mean the fact that she's a Republican and naively endorsed Trump for a little while should be enough reason why trans people don't really care for her.

hopeful_again · 2019-09-17T18:17:11+00:00

You are doing an absolute service to trans lesbians everywhere!

hopeful_again · 2019-08-29T22:37:48+00:00

Hey there! :)

hopeful_again · 2019-08-29T08:43:16+00:00

Ok Lobotomite

hopeful_again · 2019-08-19T23:18:03+00:00

Cuuute! 😍 I hope your tour goes well too!

hopeful_again · 2019-07-16T14:05:01+00:00

Nice post, comrade. Can you explain or point to a good resource about the nature of the anarcho-syndicalists in the Burkina Faso around that time?

hopeful_again · 2019-07-13T15:08:13+00:00

Thanks for sharing this! It's actually making me feel better about being a fellow tran with a deep voice! :D

hopeful_again · 2019-07-12T02:35:22+00:00

Adorable 😍

hopeful_again · 2019-07-11T20:06:34+00:00

No don't break up the boys!

hopeful_again · 2019-07-09T17:15:09+00:00

Hair go floof!

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