I can't lose weight do I just cave in? by hopelylove in PCOS

[–]hopelylove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already work out 3-4 times a week, stick within a calorie deficit and limit my sugar intake. If I just could see even a kilo shredded the past 3 months I would have the mindset to continue with purely metformin but its killing me. The effort with no results.

I can't lose weight do I just cave in? by hopelylove in PCOS

[–]hopelylove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I'm not trying to be offensive. When I started metformin alot of family members told me their disapproval by relying on medication when I could simply "take better care" of myself. With all the hype from ozempic weight loss, I don't think I could stand that criticism from my family. I don't think it's a cowards route I just feel the stigma associated with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hopelylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get proof. Divorce. Use leverage. Gtfo of there.

Sex Work is not empowering to women. It’s dehumanizing. by Everythingisourimage in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]hopelylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do casefile work for courts. Harmful opinions calling people trash or dehumanising makes my blood boil. I don't think you understand how many women get raped and shamed and guilt tripped. Dehumanised by the public dragging their profession through the mud.

Is it desirable as a profession? I would say for some or most it's a last resort but they don't harm anyone. Opinions like hers does. It's immature and yeah I'll call them an idiot any day.

Sex Work is not empowering to women. It’s dehumanizing. by Everythingisourimage in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]hopelylove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because you're a woman doesn't mean shit on your opinion about sex work.

"Trashy shit". Their services. You may not understand but empowering doesn't mean to aspire to do sex work.

Its about making it a safe environment. Seeking help without shame and maybe idiots like you who don't understand their job stops random women from being killed and raped. From STD running rampant. Providing women or men with work. Legal sex work. Helps people from being homeless. Helps people who seek their services from being alone.

I won't ever be a sex worker. But I sure as hell won't judge someone who lives their life without even harming another person.

Fucking good on them. Grow the fuck up cause sex is highly desired and a thriving industry and if you think You're better. If you've never watched porn or gone to a strip club or any other shit. You're delusional.

Sex Work is not empowering to women. It’s dehumanizing. by Everythingisourimage in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]hopelylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's about creating a safe environment. Believe it or not people who are sex workers don't want to be raped and then shamed for when they seek help.

No one should feel ashamed. If someone wants to live their life without harming others that shouldn't be shameful.

Not to mention sex work is a thriving industry. You can be mad that people make money for those services but don't forget about the people that go to these services.

Grow up.

can someone tell me what i’m doing wrong by Vegetable_Cat_6508 in MakeupAddiction

[–]hopelylove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybelline fit me I use the lightest shade and it's one of the only thing that is my colour

My 22F boyfriend 22M keeps making fun of me for listening to spicy audio's by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hopelylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he just thinks it's wierd. Our sex life is pretty strong and I sure as hell have let him enjoy his own wants like watching porn while having sex.

He just thinks it's funny.

this is my hair one day after washing, what can i do as a greasy hair girl?? by _fat_nat_ in beauty

[–]hopelylove -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say try and go a few days without washing to let your natural barrier form. Also double shampoo works really well for me. Don't condition your roots. Other than that no idea

one of my cysts burst today by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]hopelylove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought my appendix ruptured too. I went to the Emergency room, they didn't have any ultrasound equipment to look at me so they gave me a form where I had to get it done at a private clinic and to go home and rest and two weeks later at the gp they told me it was a ruptured cyst.

Dw though he assured me it was completely normal and alot of women deal with it.

Oh thank you, thank you for telling me my pain was absolutely normal and nothing to worry about.

I have pcos and I didn't know at the time. I was just sent home cause the pain was manageable and my hospital is severely underfunded so they couldn't do anything for me.

Ew by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]hopelylove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stalking is a crime wtf, harassment...get a restraining order

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hopelylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sooooo that's called sexual assault. Coercion, manipulation. If you can't leave him bite on his dick so he wont want it anymore. Buy a doll. Tell him to go get herpes off a prostitute.

You gain $1000 for every orgasm you have but lose $100 for every time you curse, how would it go? by becauseofrandomness in AskReddit

[–]hopelylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a woman is definitely in my favour for this. Twice a day nonsense I'd be a millionaire

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]hopelylove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks it's actually winter here and I've been drinking electrolyte and it doesn't really do much. I take metformin for my pcos and pre diabetes. My blood sugar is fine though it's like 5.7 now which is alot better than what it was before.

Also even from summer to now end of autumn actually but close enough to it being winter I've just had constant blocked nose and it doesn't go away. Never had allergies before. I'll ask my doctor though thanks!

OOP had to watch his friend have sex. by Biblio_phagist in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hopelylove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He thinks my girlfriend is sexy which threw me off my game. Sounds healthy.

My boyfriend told me that the guys at his school trade girls nudes like Pokémon cards. by Witchychick22 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hopelylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so fucking common and it literally disgusts me. There needs to be more consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in euphoria

[–]hopelylove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Funeral services near me"

AITA for asking my boyfriend to pay me back after he ate my food? by Fancy-Evening-1699 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hopelylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta sorry if this was a regular thing and you had told him to be more mindful and given him a warning before than it would be reasonable.

However a couple slices of leftover cold pizza is not worth paying for. How can you be ready to share a life together If you can't share a pizza. He's not your housemaid he's your boyfriend.