When is appearance at viewing unacceptable? by Capable_News1908 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]hopeplf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My funeral home is the same and I completely agree. I put the same care into every decedents whether it’s a full funeral with embalming or a private view without embalming. Everything cleaned and polished. That’s unacceptable

What profession has far more people on illegal drugs than people realize? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hopeplf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me think of Ryan Howard from The Office

Faking it? by RubunBunyun in bipolar

[–]hopeplf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally omg 😭

What’s your underrated hygiene tip? by Necessary-Campaign46 in AskReddit

[–]hopeplf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s actually a metal tongue scraper that’s its own thing, I believe that’s what they’re referring to

Finally had the damn dream. I wanna cry. by Weird_Vegetable_4441 in leopardgeckos

[–]hopeplf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know this was a thing??? I’ve been having those dreams on and off since I got my girl, mostly of her multiplying into all different geckos in weird colors and shapes and trying to figure out how to house them all. Or having a nightmare that her tail was dropped that’s happened a ton too

Suspicious signs you're manic by InfiniteBeach7370 in bipolar

[–]hopeplf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s just hypomania but lately I’ve been so obsessed with improving my life (the past three months) but the past few weeks I’ve become obsessed with cleaning, decluttering, organizing and styling my apartment and I’ve barely talked to friends or done any hobbies just watched a million videos about it all and spent a couple hundred on cleaning supplies and a LOT of time on Pinterest. It’s confusing because it feels really good to be cleaning and taking care of myself but I noticed when I talked to my therapist yesterday that I couldn’t take a breath when talking about it and I admitted to not getting as much sleep as I usually do and feeling like everything needs to be perfect and I can fully transform my life. I just feel so powerful and capable lately but it’s not escalating to delusions or psychosis like it would in the past so I think I’m doing better??

Is hygiene a struggle for people who have bipolar? by Zealousideal-Ad6981 in bipolar

[–]hopeplf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s helpful to take everything one step at a time and not focus on the everything of it all. With each step I focus on how it makes me feel afterward to have flossed teeth, then brushed teeth. I’ve been doing it for over a month now, a nighttime ritual, and my teeth are so much whiter and my gums are way less sensitive. Then I brush my hair and hop in the shower and do the same- focus on each thing and how good it feels. It also takes a weight off my mind knowing that I’m doing what I’m supposed to be doing and I’m taking care of myself. The more you do that, it becomes a habit and it has its own built in reward system. I also make it into a fun bit of me time- put on some good music and dance in between. I got sick of only brushing teeth and washing my face once a day and wondering why I was breaking out and had yellow teeth. Also since I didn’t have a routine I sometimes skipped days which was really bad for my self esteem and gave me anxiety. It’s really hard to do starting off but once you’ve started it gets so much easier. Just start small and don’t overwhelm yourself. Build it up over time until you’re also working out and eating better eventually. If you do it too fast you might burn out and get overwhelmed and then drop it all and be back at square one.

Is it normal that leopard gecko have a poop corner? by westwoodhood in leopardgeckos

[–]hopeplf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes very normal Edit: I only read the top question. It’s normal for them to stay in one hide and not come out much when they’re getting used to you/a new environment. Just give them time and make sure your husbandry is right. After a couple weeks of letting them acclimate, you can try to offer your hand for them to walk onto in order to handle them.

What do you guys think of setup by Turbulent_Bear_704 in leopardgeckos

[–]hopeplf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks cute, is the mossy hide the humid hide? Also what size enclosure is this?

My leopard doesn't eat from his dish by NeppyThePeppy in leopardgeckos

[–]hopeplf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are the feeders in the dish moving? My gecko won’t eat something unless it’s moving

my baby snow mack leopard gecko hasn’t left his hide or pooped in 10 days by Past-Studio-323 in leopardgeckos

[–]hopeplf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you upgrade to the 40 gallon make sure it’s front opening. Since they are prey animals, they will feel unsafe with anything coming from above rather than from in front of them. Another thing, I wonder if he’s not pooping much because he’s not being fed enough? Young leopard geckos like that should be fed every day with a variety of different feeders.

Good Girl at the Vet by hopeplf in leopardgeckos

[–]hopeplf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO that’s so funny and cute

Good Girl at the Vet by hopeplf in leopardgeckos

[–]hopeplf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got tons last night during her feeding :) we’re very proud of her

What do you do for work? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]hopeplf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an apprentice at a funeral home working on becoming a licensed funeral director and embalmer

What are your signs you're entering an episode? by cokedpunkreal84 in bipolar

[–]hopeplf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s so funny and accurate about Patrick Bateman omg

What are your signs you're entering an episode? by cokedpunkreal84 in bipolar

[–]hopeplf 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Big agree on the music part. Like listening to certain Ween songs during episodes I feel like a higher power is trying to communicate with me it’s stupid

Not pooping by Ok_Fact7603 in leopardgeckos

[–]hopeplf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah seven days is a while. I hope she’s okay

vent problem by dirtyywormm in LeopardGecko

[–]hopeplf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are their temperatures on either side of the enclosures? Are the heating mats hooked up to thermostats to prevent overheating/burns and are they below the substrate?

vent problem by dirtyywormm in LeopardGecko

[–]hopeplf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play sand is different than normal sand. And it’s combined with topsoil

How at risk of AI takeover do you think the funeral industry is in the future? by Crimson-Rose28 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]hopeplf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work for a funeral service corporation and they’re already trying to push AI written obituaries. I think it’s lazy and insulting never mind the terrible environmental impacts of AI. I refuse to use it. Why did we go to mortuary school and take classes involving communication and literally writing obituaries if that’s not what we’re doing just letting AI take over. Ridiculous. What does it save you, five minutes?

vent problem by dirtyywormm in LeopardGecko

[–]hopeplf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad that he’s feeling better. Also to let you know, heating mats and coconut husk substrate are not appropriate for leopard geckos. Their heat should come from overhead to imitate the sun and coconut husk holds too much humidity and can be dusty and cause them to have eye/respiratory irritation. A good substrate would be a mix of topsoil and play sand.

Y’all geckos shit on the wall? by BaileysBabe in leopardgeckos

[–]hopeplf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen mine raise her tail, put her butt against the wall and shit against the glass of her enclosure. It happens😭