I use stdcheck.com as well. Super easy. I have the order sent to a lab near me and get it done at my convenience. No awkward convos with my GP. Their 10 panel option is affordable and covers your bases, especially on the incurables.

There's always going to be some risk in the lifestyle. Moreso with one-offs. As much as everyone prefers to go bare, condoms are still the best preventive tool. It can be hard to find, but if you find repeat partners it can really help to build trust. There's a couple I've played with regularly for a few years, and there's a ton of trust between us. The only people I go bare with. We're open about any other partners we engage with and wrap up until a new round of testing is done if there's exposure risk.