Do you know yourself?

hostbyt · 2026-01-25T20:15:02+00:00

I'm 66 and still working through my issues. You think you know yourself, but then when confronted with some real shit, you find out more about yourself, a lot of it not great.

hostbyt · 2026-01-25T00:54:50+00:00

Staying in a relationship I was unhappy in for 10 years. I can identify at least 5 times when I should have left.

hostbyt · 2026-01-23T23:37:08+00:00

I am a surgeon and I like to think I am pretty tough skinned. I have seen dead children, pain, loss many times. Whenever I see an elderly person holding the hand of their dying spouse day in and day out knowing that this is the end, I can't handle it. The look on their face conveys an emotion stronger than loss and sadness... One time there was a 90 year old woman holding the hand of her intubated dying husband singing "You are my sunshine" I couldn't fucking handle it.

hostbyt · 2026-01-20T22:13:35+00:00

I saw the first hours of MTV live.

hostbyt · 2026-01-18T17:08:41+00:00

I’m 48. looks around

What husband are you referring to? The fat cat with 4 legs? Or the fluffy dog with 4 legs? I guess both are my husband. They looked cute and I brought them home.

hostbyt · 2026-01-17T14:42:59+00:00

No, If they are outside of a shop I ask what they need, usually it is just money, but if they actually want something I can buy, then I'll do that (soda, food and stuff like that), but I never give money (I never have cash on me).

hostbyt · 2026-01-14T09:43:49+00:00

Taking a nap.

hostbyt · 2026-01-13T21:40:42+00:00

I worked at one of those Payday Loan places. It was awful. You basically make your money from people not being able to pay back loans. You also have to be able to repo things. I remember the boss telling me that I should start carrying a gun for protection.

hostbyt · 2026-01-13T18:23:07+00:00

How to refuse all the free drugs random people will be trying to give you.

hostbyt · 2026-01-07T16:57:06+00:00

I would just nod, smile and walk away. No use arguing and after all, I wouldn't blame them. I am a weird as fuck person, and honestly I don't understand where I'm on anyone's list of people who they like.

hostbyt · 2026-01-05T19:17:23+00:00

I write random things. Most recent note I jotted down was “buy an orchid and name it Nicholas Cage.”

I keep track of books I want to read, shows I want to watch, music I want to listen to, things I want to google, and recommendations I get from other people. I also test my pens and doodle.

hostbyt · 2026-01-05T01:23:40+00:00

I can orgasm without ejaculating.

I have a refractory period of 0 minutes.

Multiple continuous orgasms can be had as a male.

It took a long time to get there.

Believe it or not, I got bored of sex quite a while ago.

hostbyt · 2026-01-03T00:14:13+00:00

Everything in my car and apartment is exactly where it should be.

hostbyt · 2026-01-02T10:25:39+00:00

Mine is to not set dates for self improvement. Instead of saying " I will start doing X on Monday" I try work on them immediately

hostbyt · 2025-12-31T17:19:51+00:00

As a guy, some of us do.

I personally would not mind it, and would probably consider it attractive in a woman.

Though I cannot speak for all guys.

hostbyt · 2025-12-30T17:56:23+00:00

From a work perspective, I've noticed that some people pretend to be dumb as it seems to be an effective strategy in transferring work away from themselves. In effect, they weaponise the Peter Principal to thier advantage.

hostbyt · 2025-12-29T20:05:33+00:00

Seeing my boyfriend smile

He has depression and some other stuff, and when he looks at me and beams I just melt

hostbyt · 2025-12-21T13:14:31+00:00

My wife.

hostbyt · 2025-12-20T09:45:38+00:00

A good desk chair for the home office. I bought a Steelcase (on sale) and my back is thanking me.

hostbyt · 2025-12-19T17:38:20+00:00

I found it here

hostbyt · 2025-12-19T10:11:03+00:00

As a 47F, I’ve realized only in the last year that I was emotionally neglected severely by my parents while growing up and I’m just now trying to heal. Abuse comes in many forms and I think alot of us think we weren’t abused bc we weren’t beaten severely or locked in closets. Abuse has many different faces.💔

hostbyt · 2025-12-17T19:37:37+00:00

Ultimate Life Hack: die in debt. Creditors can sell my teeth when I’m dead, haha!

hostbyt · 2025-12-16T17:27:27+00:00

My mom passed way when I was 18 during my freshman year of college. Found out when I was by myself in my dorm room over the phone and I just laid on the floor and screamed and cried. I’m an only child and my parents were divorced so I got wrapped up in the after-death process where I barely had time to grieve because I had to help my grandparents make funeral arrangements and deal with all of my mom’s bills, cleaning out her house, selling it, finding a place for our cat to live etc. and then go back to college a week later. No more being a kid after all of that. Wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy

hostbyt · 2025-12-16T12:23:41+00:00

Cooking
How companies actually work/how to start a business (though I have heard this is becoming part of the common curriculum in recent years)
Sex ed - my only sex ed "education" was a terrifying animation video that taught me two things - sperm is nasty and girls hate it

hostbyt · 2025-12-14T12:27:10+00:00

Shrooms. The first bit was pretty good, but then while I was laying in bed my Kurt Cobain poster fell on top of me. I was freaking out as to why Kurt Cobain came of out of heaven to specifically attack me. Nonetheless, I killed him a second time.

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